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Putting this here as well for people not on the main forum:

Okay I want to understand this - how is the fact that Adi published the death of his relationship with Imlie maligning her name in anyway. He is being as honest as he was when he declared to the world that "aImlie humari patni hai" - tab logon ko kyun nahi laga that us chakkar main he is basically announcing to the world that usne 2 shaadiyan ki hai and that without "divorcing" Malini he is announcing that Imlie is his wife, painting Malini as the other woman and ADI as a man who phasaoed 2 woman - so Imlie ki izzat is izzat, while Malini and ADI ki izzat is trash. I am not defending Malini's actions, but trying to understand the mindset of people bashing Adi from all corners for putting out what he feels is his truth.

Adi gave her divorce papers and asked her - will you not say anything. Tabh her chuppi was because she was in shock. But Adi's assumption that Imlie chose Aryan based in incidents leading up to the time he got the divorce papers is wrong and maligning her character. We saying that Adi's actions make sense as per his character means we are horrible people who are supporting patriarchy, spousal abuse and are against feminism, while Imlie calling Adi names, pushing him away and saying that Malini se pyaar karna is his aadat that he cannot give up is justified because she saw something so horrific that she could say such things to him (I supported Imlie then as well, because she was justified, just like how Adi's reaction makes sense to me now)

Adi ne aaj bhi bas yeh kaha that she needed to be careful and do what she did behind closed doors - that to him is the worst he could go based in what he saw and what happened after, where he assumed that moving on was her choice. His anger is that she chose to move on from him to another man by sending him divorce papers, so he retaliated by telling the world that his relationship with her has died - not saying why. Agar log Imlie se sawaal karenge, toh wohi log ADI ko bhi nahi chodenge. When Imlie burnt her MS - tabh inka rishta was hale and hearty? When she continues to push Adi away and insinuate that he trusts his "friend" more than her, that is not spousal abuse. Adi listening to Malini is a crime, kyu ki woh use benefit of doubt deta hai for being pregnant and knowing her for 7 years,, but Aryan telling Imlie that ADI deserves to be demoted and she deserves to be promoted only due to her abilities and no other reason - that is him mentoring her?

I know this has been going on for a while, but just because we support Adi's actions does not make us heartless or not aware of Imlie's pain. It just means that right now we are supporting a character that is getting bashed for acting like normal humans do, rather than blindly whitewash the actions of Imlie just because she is the only person who suffered all this time, while ADI was only enjoying her pain and nit suffering alongside with her.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Putting this here as well for people not on the main forum:

Okay I want to understand this - how is the fact that Adi published the death of his relationship with Imlie maligning her name in anyway. He is being as honest as he was when he declared to the world that "aImlie humari patni hai" - tab logon ko kyun nahi laga that us chakkar main he is basically announcing to the world that usne 2 shaadiyan ki hai and that without "divorcing" Malini he is announcing that Imlie is his wife, painting Malini as the other woman and ADI as a man who phasaoed 2 woman - so Imlie ki izzat is izzat, while Malini and ADI ki izzat is trash. I am not defending Malini's actions, but trying to understand the mindset of people bashing Adi from all corners for putting out what he feels is his truth.

Adi gave her divorce papers and asked her - will you not say anything. Tabh her chuppi was because she was in shock. But Adi's assumption that Imlie chose Aryan based in incidents leading up to the time he got the divorce papers is wrong and maligning her character. We saying that Adi's actions make sense as per his character means we are horrible people who are supporting patriarchy, spousal abuse and are against feminism, while Imlie calling Adi names, pushing him away and saying that Malini se pyaar karna is his aadat that he cannot give up is justified because she saw something so horrific that she could say such things to him (I supported Imlie then as well, because she was justified, just like how Adi's reaction makes sense to me now)

Adi ne aaj bhi bas yeh kaha that she needed to be careful and do what she did behind closed doors - that to him is the worst he could go based in what he saw and what happened after, where he assumed that moving on was her choice. His anger is that she chose to move on from him to another man by sending him divorce papers, so he retaliated by telling the world that his relationship with her has died - not saying why. Agar log Imlie se sawaal karenge, toh wohi log ADI ko bhi nahi chodenge. When Imlie burnt her MS - tabh inka rishta was hale and hearty? When she continues to push Adi away and insinuate that he trusts his "friend" more than her, that is not spousal abuse. Adi listening to Malini is a crime, kyu ki woh use benefit of doubt deta hai for being pregnant and knowing her for 7 years,, but Aryan telling Imlie that ADI deserves to be demoted and she deserves to be promoted only due to her abilities and no other reason - that is him mentoring her?

I know this has been going on for a while, but just because we support Adi's actions does not make us heartless or not aware of Imlie's pain. It just means that right now we are supporting a character that is getting bashed for acting like normal humans do, rather than blindly whitewash the actions of Imlie just because she is the only person who suffered all this time, while ADI was only enjoying her pain and nit suffering alongside with her.

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Originally posted by: Apsvenky

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Ok. Without seeing the elusive epi and just going on the sbs segment, this was classic adi lashing out. He made a big stand declaring imlie his wife on national tv ( after kidnappings) and he did it the same way for the death of his relationship. I know imlie has been really going at him with all sorts of things in the past which are unfair but the girl has been as u put it bipolar which is not an excuse but what he says back to her today is for one reason only and that is give her pain ( he thinks she has moved on and is adjusting to life without him) but essentially she is clueless in the fact that what he saw he took it as her cheating . They both have been clueless in how some events in their relationship with Didi and asr has been viewed by the other because these two have pure hearts and intentions. But honestly what adI said yes he said it based on what he saw but he questioned her character by saying what u did should have been done behind closed doors. To imlie that is as good as accusing her of an ema. Adi when lashing out doesn’t think and when it’s imlie his reactions are always extreme. Was his words in sbs right? Sorry I beg to disagree . No matter what … it was obvious he wanted to hurt her at all costs. The pain and hurt in him has just come barrelling down. He has dealt with a lot commendably like when he left and wanted to go back and talk to her after the hotel room incident but today to me he was just wrong. Like he said if he saw imlie with another man he will burn with jealousy and he is doing that now. These two have been hurting eo most effectively and that is why Didi plan has worked cos she has lit the seed of discord and these two have just done the rest. So I can’t agree with his words but I see his hurt

Just my POV. I know his hurt and pain is justifiable based on what he has witnessed but I felt today was too extreme for me at least. I am not saying this as a woman. But even when imlie saw adini after the assault she only believed when adi himself couldn’t deny it and even then she kept telling him that Didi must have done something until he said no it was a mistake . Then only she asked him then it meant u did this and how could u. Maybe I am remembering it wrong but even then she didn’t want to believe he could do it

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

Ok. Without seeing the elusive epi and just going on the sbs segment, this was classic adi lashing out. He made a big stand declaring imlie his wife on national tv ( after kidnappings) and he did it the same way for the death of his relationship. I know imlie has been really going at him with all sorts of things in the past which are unfair but the girl has been as u put it bipolar which is not an excuse but what he says back to her today is for one reason only and that is give her pain ( he thinks she has moved on and is adjusting to life without him) but essentially she is clueless in the fact that what he saw he took it as her cheating . They both have been clueless in how some events in their relationship with Didi and asr has been viewed by the other because these two have pure hearts and intentions. But honestly what adI said yes he said it based on what he saw but he questioned her character by saying what u did should have been done behind closed doors. To imlie that is as good as accusing her of an ema. Adi when lashing out doesn’t think and when it’s imlie his reactions are always extreme. Was his words in sbs right? Sorry I beg to disagree . No matter what … it was obvious he wanted to hurt her at all costs. The pain and hurt in him has just come barrelling down. He has dealt with a lot commendably like when he left and wanted to go back and talk to her after the hotel room incident but today to me he was just wrong. Like he said if he saw imlie with another man he will burn with jealousy and he is doing that now. These two have been hurting eo most effectively and that is why Didi plan has worked cos she has lit the seed of discord and these two have just done the rest. So I can’t agree with his words but I see his hurt

Just my POV. I know his hurt and pain is justifiable based on what he has witnessed but I felt today was too extreme for me at least. I am not saying this as a woman. But even when imlie saw adini after the assault she only believed when adi himself couldn’t deny it and even then she kept telling him that Didi must have done something until he said no it was a mistake . Then only she asked him then it meant u did this and how could u. Maybe I am remembering it wrong but even then she didn’t want to believe he could do it

RD take a breather .. I know it’s a lot to take in and a lot of us feel differently about what he said to her.. I have not even watched the clip.. so here’s my assumption that he said the same thing that we saw in precap..

he has been accusing her of hving EMA for a long time.. but it less of an accusation more of a tactic to confirm what’s going on.. aditya as a human being very emotionally volatile…

i had said it something on the same lines.. he accuses her.. she denies it and he is ok.. that’s his way of testing water.. he could have done a lot worst but he resorted to this comedy..

i just want to say it from a spousal perspective.. what imlie saw after janmashtami cants be compared to what aditya saw.. first off all when she saw it she knew everyone including aditya was drugged.. till the time she found that burnt saree she told him u have habit of loving malini n u can’t leave that behind.. she even compared him to Dev that aditya gave dhoka to her… all this while knowing everything happened under the influence of drug.. he was plain simple words Raped!

Let’s come to Imlie - Aryan scene.. she is wearing her marriage outfit.. Someone is again in personal space.. putting on coat on her.. not in office.. not in home.. in an hotel room! With another man.. who is doing extraordinary favors on her… A hotel room is always associated with a wrong intentions and wrong doings.. no one in their right mind take it as an innocent coincidence…

His s hurt and he is hurting her too.. but the accusations that are flung on each other r still in private.. that’s a husband accusing his wife when no one is around.. that’s still holds dignity… and I am telling u if she would have said something he would have been pool of tears n apologized to her…

So I get where u are coming from.. I would only say look past few episodes he has only looked for assurances from her side that aryan is just a friend nothing else.. and she was not giving it to him.. he is a jilted lover.. that’s all there is.. he doesn’t mean a thing..

Originally posted by: _Seera_

RD take a breather .. I know it’s a lot to take in and a lot of us feel differently about what he said to her.. I have not even watched the clip.. so here’s my assumption that he said the same thing that we saw in precap..

he has been accusing her of hving EMA for a long time.. but it less of an accusation more of a tactic to confirm what’s going on.. aditya as a human being very emotionally volatile…

i had said it something on the same lines.. he accuses her.. she denies it and he is ok.. that’s his way of testing water.. he could have done a lot worst but he resorted to this comedy..

i just want to say it from a spousal perspective.. what imlie saw after janmashtami cants be compared to what aditya saw.. first off all when she saw it she knew everyone including aditya was drugged.. till the time she found that burnt saree she told him u have habit of loving malini n u can’t leave that behind.. she even compared him to Dev that aditya gave dhoka to her… all this while knowing everything happened under the influence of drug.. he was plain simple words Raped!

Let’s come to Imlie - Aryan scene.. she is wearing her marriage outfit.. Someone is again in personal space.. putting on coat on her.. not in office.. not in home.. in an hotel room! With another man.. who is doing extraordinary favors on her… A hotel room is always associated with a wrong intentions and wrong doings.. no one in their right mind take it as an innocent coincidence…

His s hurt and he is hurting her too.. but the accusations that are flung on each other r still in private.. that’s a husband accusing his wife when no one is around.. that’s still holds dignity… and I am telling u if she would have said something he would have been pool of tears n apologized to her…

So I get where u are coming from.. I would only say look past few episodes he has only looked for assurances from her side that aryan is just a friend nothing else.. and she was not giving it to him.. he is a jilted lover.. that’s all there is.. he doesn’t mean a thing..

I get what u are saying.. I dunno.. I imagine myself in this situation with my husband and I think I might act bipolar as well and well I see what u mean by coming from adI angle… thing is if my husband accused me like adI did, honestly it would break me like I would believe it would inlie. Then of course in real life I would break his head . But u are right that he has kept this between them in their privacy and not attached her in front of eveyone like he could have done by confronting her in the hotel itself. Gosh these two makes us think hard

But it’s good to hear diff perspectives abd yours was very insightful. Thanks for sharing . You and aps Really helped me see this in various lights and evebthough u may not disagree i appreciate the discussions we can have

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

I get what u are saying.. I dunno.. I imagine myself in this situation with my husband and I think I might act bipolar as well and well I see what u mean by coming from adI angle… thing is if my husband accused me like adI did, honestly it would break me like I would believe it would inlie. Then of course in real life I would break his head . But u are right that he has kept this between them in their privacy and not attached her in front of eveyone like he could have done by confronting her in the hotel itself. Gosh these two makes us think hard

But it’s good to hear diff perspectives abd yours was very insightful. Thanks for sharing . You and aps Really helped me see this in various lights and evebthough u may not disagree i appreciate the discussions we can have

I get you… honestly if I was in Aditya’s place and saw my husband with another woman in an hotel room alone I would kill him.. no questions asked.. no explanations heard…

i would walk out on a relationship just like imlie did but I would not burn my MS if I ever want to come back.. and I would tell him in plain simple words.. you were raped if u don’t wanna believe don’t believe but your rapist doesn’t stay in my house.. done n dusted.. I would not act mahaan ever for sake of chotu.. 🤮

we r here for each other na.. we love these two just way too much to let go..

Originally posted by: _Seera_

I get you… honestly if I was in Aditya’s place and saw my husband with another woman in an hotel room alone I would kill him.. no questions asked.. no explanations heard…

i would walk out on a relationship just like imlie did but I would not burn my MS if I ever want to come back.. and I would tell him in plain simple words.. you were raped if u don’t wanna believe don’t believe but your rapist doesn’t stay in my house.. done n dusted.. I would not act mahaan ever for sake of chotu.. 🤮

we r here for each other na.. we love these two just way too much to let go..

Oh Seera… word on the bold … as for god forbid this happens to me, I would divorce my husband if he refuses to punish his rapist . look I have kids and this is easy to say and hard to do but one thing I always tell my husband, cheat on me I will walk out. Betray my trust I will walk out. Support someone who willingly and intentionally harmed my family and don’t trust me enough to believe me over the other person I will walk out. The same applied for him. I have seen and heard too many stories of families destroyed cos the spouse stays with a cheater for kids but trust me in that scenario I have seen the kids grow up with severe trust issues and emotionally weak . I want my kids to grow up knowing that truth prevails . No matter how hard . I am strong enough to raise my kids on my own

Chill out ladies.. Itna bhi dil pe na lo.. Why even consider this for real life scenarios..

Remember its Sannu ki vibe all the way..

Ab to full on troll karna hai.. With mostly double shaadi happening 🤣