Originally posted by: Princess1398
Not justifying meets habit of hiding stuff but I can understand to an extent like apne ghar mai meet sabse choti thi par usse kuch jyada jaldi bada hona pada after her dad's death usne akele ne ghar ki sari jimmedari uthayi and Aisa bhi nahi hai ki voh kisi se apne problems share kar sake ma ko bolegi toh bhi kya ma ki toh Ghar Mai jyada chalti hai nahi dadi ko kya hi bole gi voh and manushi behen hoke bhi behen kehlane layak nahi hai. So sari problems akele solve karne ki adat hai use she didn't have the kind of support meetA or even Raj gives her before they came in her life toh usse thoda time toh lagega to understand na ki she's not alone now. She has people who will stand by her side no matter what.
Which is why I won't say she is misusing his trust I'd just say she doesn't know how to cope with having that trust.
Hope I was able to convey what I wanted to say coz I'm terrible with words.
No you are right. Most stories especially a, particular director that I am not gonna name *cough* Gul *cough* Khan*cough* , are about ML with messed up personality and FL who is perfect. And the FL changes ML over the course of time. Here MA is perfect for what I am seeing. He has grown up in a healthy family, he knows what he wants, he treats people well, and he knows how he should be treated.
MH on the other hand has always been on battling an internal war. Especially after her father died. She took her family's responsibility and has always been seeking validation. Family se nahi Mila toh woh validation moholle walo se ya Ram Lakhan se dhundhne lagi. Ab shaadi k baat sasural mein bhi wohi kar rahi hain. But at the same time, there is this selfish person in her who wants to study and become a police officer. But now she also has to be the bread winner of her family, and a zimmedar bahu of her sasural. This selfish and selfless side of Meet is constantly battling with each other. But most of the time, the selfless side wins. She stops thinking about herself and does things for others. And kyunki life main asa hi hua hain. Saab woh khud sambhal ti ayi hain. Use nahi lagta MA is her support system. For MA, MH is his support system (as he himself said while removing the curtains) and also his responsibility (that he said outside the car), but MH MA is only her responsibility. So, she doesn't bother to share her problems with him. I hope ekdin Inka rishta itna strong Hoga ki MH will finally find her support system in MA. This story is more about perfecting MH than MA.