Originally posted by: Pottermeow
Although I love all of your wishes for Shivi, I do object to option 3 though... The nok jhok is an essential part of them that I would love to see continuing without the toxicity, but the physical pushing and pulling I do not want to see continued. Raavi has objected vocally to it multiple times, and I prefer a gentler Shiva with her, you know? Such a rough, rash person being so instinctively gentle with someone because they love them is something beautiful to see and I've always enjoyed it about softie Shiva...
Do love a softie Shiva myself, but its more impactful when it comes in phases, if its continuous then the Shivi equation will change... they have always been volatile.
@Red... only its its both ways, rather than just Shiva doing it, Raavi too has a habit of just going for his collar at times... & i meant it more along the lines of the waist grabbing scene at the terrace after divorce kaand, or the pushing against the wall like in Shiva's dream, rather than the similar to the Sawan pooja accident.
Hope it clarifies..😊