Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #135 - Page 38

Originally posted by: seja

Shiva to Raavi: agar ho sakey to TERE is bandar ko maff kardein

haye I love that when he said “tere”, reminds me of Shivaa’s dream “mein sirf or sirf Raavi ka hoon”

Though I don’t mind but ILU part will take long as Shiva in his monologue said don’t know how Raavi will come to him knowing how much has he hurt her.

Shiva wants Raavi to say ILU first and after Sneha’s second entry, Raavi wants Shiva to say ILU first.

This time I think Shiva should say first because it was Raavi who stopped the engagement (Shivi were challenging each other as to who will say first) so it’s about time Shiva makes first move.

Shiva sach mein bail-budhdhi hai, boli hai wo biology tak jaana hai usko isliye chemistry bithane ka try kar rahi hai☺️

Ab sachche ehsaas mil gaye toh ILU bhi chahiye isko😉

Raavi ko bhi tashan dikhana hoga, bol de maaf kiya maine, bhool bhi gayi purana sab, restart karte hain from start😎 fir dekhte hai Shiva kahan se start karta hai, friendship toh abhi bhi isko nahi karni hogi, toh pati-pati hi khelna padega ab😈

Originally posted by: PoohNotFound

So, just watched the two episodes properly.... I don't know but I really can't connect with Suman. I feel she was just conveniently humane to Dhara.😕 If she knows the pain of a woman who lost her child, she should certainly know the pain of a woman insulted publicly by her husband. For me, even the dialogues point to me that she is angry and sad that her grandchild is no more. And moreover, she wants to make Dhara pregnant again. I mean, give the woman a break. Let her have some peace.🤪Man, I really don't like Suman😆 and I wanna feel that she is just pretending to love Dhara.🤪 Now I feel I also need some therapy with Dhara.🐷🤪

You just wait and watch. In no time she will start blaming dhara for insulting/mistreating/doubting her heera#1 . Suman ko pota/poti chahiye toh chahiye 😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

In the precap she assures Dhara we will find a way and find a new Doctor to see if she can have a baby again.

It is not that Suman completely disbelieves Doctors, she is angry that Gautam did not share the truth with Dhara, if only he did, there is a possibility that Dhara's faith would have helped her as well.

Perhaps, but one child cannot replace the other, can it Akka? And so i find Suman's suggestion to be insensitive. Dhara is grieving the loss of her unborn Tara, becoming pregnant again is not a solution! Dhara needs to grieve, and then to heal, to sort things out with Gautam and tell him that he simply cannot hide things from her like this! Then she can consider going to a doctor and taking treatment of and sort.

Suman seems to be grieving the loss of her poti the most, and being a mother sympathises with Dhara, probably because she knows Dhara would have chosen her child too... I do not yet completely connect with or believe in her, and perhaps it will take me a while yet for that to happen...

Originally posted by: _charu_

You just wait and watch. In no time she will start blaming dhara for insulting/mistreating/doubting her heera#1 . Suman ko pota/poti chahiye toh chahiye 😆

She can flip anytime, I don't trust her either 😂

Originally posted by: seja

I want to know your thoughts on Shivi apology, especially when he stops with his hand gesture, when she says Shiva.

Does his hand gesture mean something meaningful or he was just saying, stop let me say?

Re-watched the scene

To me his apology seemed heartfelt, as if that guilt was too much to bear now, its already difficult for him to express his emotions & so he wanted to spill it all out now that the words were coming to him, he was still struggling with framing coherent sentences as if there is so much to apologize for but he would do for what all he remembers

He stopped Raavi as if saying 'bolne de mujhe nahi toh pata nahi kab bol paunga, ab aur sehan nahi hota mujhse'

Maybe he knew Raavi will say 'yeh sahi waqt nahi hai, hum baad mein baat karenge', or that 'chhod woh purani baat hai'

And then as if to sum it all up he says with folded hands (remember Shiva is too haughty to do this gesture) 'ho sake toh tere is bandar ko maaf kar de'

Originally posted by: Pottermeow

Perhaps, but one child cannot replace the other, can it Akka? And so i find Suman's suggestion to be insensitive. Dhara is grieving the loss of her unborn Tara, becoming pregnant again is not a solution! Dhara needs to grieve, and then to heal, to sort things out with Gautam and tell him that he simply cannot hide things from her like this! Then she can consider going to a doctor and taking treatment of and sort.

Suman seems to be grieving the loss of her poti the most, and being a mother sympathises with Dhara, probably because she knows Dhara would have chosen her child too... I do not yet completely connect with or believe in her, and perhaps it will take me a while yet for that to happen...

True, Dhara need to grieve.

I can not connect with Suman, by her suggestion its feeling like there was a toy which is snatched from Dhara and now Suman is telling that don’t worry we will get a new one from the store 😳

True that Dhara is grieving the loss of her unborn more than the fact that she can not pregnant again.

Originally posted by: peacenfun

Re-watched the scene

To me his apology seemed heartfelt, as if that guilt was too much to bear now, its already difficult for him to express his emotions & so he wanted to spill it all out now that the words were coming to him, he was still struggling with framing coherent sentences as if there is so much to apologize for but he would do for what all he remembers

He stopped Raavi as if saying 'bolne de mujhe nahi toh pata nahi kab bol paunga, ab aur sehan nahi hota mujhse'

Maybe he knew Raavi will say 'yeh sahi waqt nahi hai, hum baad mein baat karenge', or that 'chhod woh purani baat hai'

And then as if to sum it all up he says with folded hands (remember Shiva is too haughty to do this gesture) 'ho sake toh tere is bandar ko maaf kar de'

I think he stopped her to let him say because he wanted to own up to all the pain he has caused her & he wanted her to let him do that

And while writing this I understood the significance of the scene from yesterday's episode when Shiva sees Raavi taking care of Dhara, it amazes him that how Raavi still inspite of all his harkatein takes care of his family, loves them unconditionally, is becoming Dhara bhabhi's parchhayi & that makes him love her more each time

I hadn’t talked about it from the day Dhara fainted.But how Dhara is reacting is very obvious like if I would have been at her place I think I would have reacted the same or more.First mistake Gautam did was he didn’t inform her , fine he was afraid of her reaction then alt least he could have immediately taken her to the doctor and get the tests done again or else could have told the doctor to inform Dhara ? But he didn’t do anything of the above thing, he was just passing time and hiding the fact from everyone.Like for what was he waiting ? And on the day she was so happy about her first trimester but then she faints and is taken to hospital, there she gets to know that her baby is no more. You can not imagine how hurt she is would be, she was waiting for 10 years for this joy and it was her first baby.upon that her complications were not informed to her and was directly told that she suffered miscarriage.

You agree or not, but in my opinion a women’s journey starts from prioritising her parents first then after marriage its her husband and her husband’s family but after that its her children and will always remain them only.she will love her children the most even more than her husband.

I have seen cases where a woman when suffers from miscarriage, she gets into depression and is tough to move on but the other family members including her husband will not need so much time compared to her to move on.I have also seen where the wife out grief and depression blaming teh husband that “you can not understand that I haves lost my child “when her husband insists her to move on.and their relationship can get a crack.

And in this case it their relationship will be affected a lot because Gautam had hidden the truth and taken the decision by himself though it was for her benefit and she was not in state to take it.

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Originally posted by: Kfof

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