The Meltdown - Page 12

Very well said. All valid points.

I don't find it odd her clowning around at all. It is a reaction to all she has been suffering. Walking the streets at night, having been thrown out of the hostel, shivering under the desk two nights with nowhere else to go, sleeping on a park bench and attacked by goons then badmouthed at Aryan's house both by him and those snooty girls, then finding herself finally in a large posh warm comfy room? Of course she would overreact excitedly! Anyone would!

Every single thing she said to Adi was accurate and justified, but he is still not listening! He comes back saying she chose to stay there, nor asking why, not checking with the warden as to why she left, not understanding why of course she could not back down and ask him for help! If she had he would have sneered and told her obviously she could not manage without him and she would be back to square one!

She is totally right and he is totally wrong. I just wish someone would glue Malini's mouth shut for a while and her nose would grow long with her lies and someone would slap her hard!

As for the divorce in the promo, I do not see how it can happen as the marriage was not legally registered, so it cannot be legally cancelled either.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol wohi toh. If you want to come down to keeping scores, Imlie ne bhi chori se SK ko bhagaya tha, no? Lol but her reasons are all valid cuz she was fighting a known villain? Lol toh Adi bhi toh apne level ki info se act kar raha hai given how shady ASR is acting. So why is Adi alone a monster in the eyes of these people? And the lame nicknames they are trying to chipkaao on him. I can only laugh 😆….Kya milta hai logon ko itna visceral hatred karke over someone who is a rape and emotional abuse victim? Lol truly amazing to see such mahaan mindsets.


The way Imlie herself is being shown comparing Adi and ASR ka treatment of her and even comparing her entry into this R house with her entry into T house is bizarre as hell to me. She was never this kind of vengeful and brutal before. Least of all with Adi. And he has a million flaws but he was never vengeful like this with Imlie and bakwaas ki bhi tab bhi kabhi haath toh nahin chhoda. Humesha kept his focus and concern on her ghoom phir ke and apologized for his mistakes too. Sadly we can never expect that from Imlie. Especially when so many here are gleefully justifying her misbehavior from that scene 🤷‍♀️. Pains me to say ki ab puri tarhaan se Malini ki behen lag rahi hai. Khoon apna rang dikhata hi hai. Who knows what other traits from the C side will be unveiled in her in the coming days. Rab raakha.

Haan I said na pegle bhi kabhi na kabhi khoon right dikha hi deta hai dikh gaya hai.

Originally posted by: Maitri_B

@ bold - So I have little different take here. I surely agree that she’s literally spewing venom since las few episodes, but I do not think if Adi had believed her even an ounce or acknowledged that Malini is there to harm their relationship, she would be THIS bitter. I also do not think that she’s having a delayed realization of M & baby kaand. I still believe that had M not been THIS shameless after the baby revelation and consistently challenging Imlie, she would’ve really accepted the baby + M and all of Adi’s baggage.

She’s never blamed Adi for the bigamy he did knowingly, neither she’s ever been unaware of the fact that Adi would always have this baggage called M, more so after the baby kaand.

I feel that her faith in Adi got shaken when he deleted the video WITHOUT her knowledge; that transparency of their relationship was gone at that time. One can argue that she helped her Dadda escape without Adi’s knowledge which Adi reciprocated with the video deletion. She still loved Adi and “his ansh” and tried her best to focus on the baby and not M’s antics but when Adi consistently dismissed her warnings about M, that’s when the gap started to get bigger and she started to feel that her words hold no value to him. Adi’s indifference & inaction to M’s antics bother her more than anything else, in my opinion. She’s not able to ignore M the way Adi can. I believe the lack of acknowledgement from Adi about M’s intentions started to build this frustration within her and at one point the volcano just irrupted with that one question. Her pile of anger & frustration since months is making her blind in seeing or acknowledging Adi’s very valid points about her current bad decisions regarding ASR.

While I completely agree about her OTT giddiness about the bedroom and bathrobe seem so “not Imlie”, I do not think that when it comes her feelings towards Adi – love, anger or seeking shaabashi for driving the car - she is a different Imlie. Yes, she is mad at him but she doesn’t not love him. She still yearns for his attention, approval and acknowledgement. I think the real disjointedness comes from this sudden flip flop between a sad and chirpy Imlie for no reason, and because of that it becomes hard to acknowledge that she too is emotionally suffering. The makers continue to change the focus of her “dukh”…at one point she’s dukhi as she has nowhere to live, and then the other time she’s dukhi because she’s missing Adi and her apne, and then she’s dukhi as babusahib is not trusting her, and then last night she was dukhi again because babusahib is not getting M out of his home.

While they have managed to show Adi consistent about his dukh and hurt, with Imlie, seems like they just don’t know where to take her with so many things open to be “dukhi” about and also making her work on her career and independence.

LOL Maitri, you're still watching? 😆 How come you all never show up for the good episodes then? Humein toh lagaa bas hum 2-4 hi bache hain from the original group still suffering through this.....baaki junta toh kabki bhaag gayi baccha revelation dekh ke😆

As for Imlie.....I get that all of this is basically a spilling over of her long pent up frustration about no one believing her regarding M's truth....but my point was all regarding the execution of it in a sloppy manner by the team, leading to a disconnect from Imlie. People have convoluted this issue so much with finger pointing about why Adi can't see that M is not easy for everyone to ignore like he does blah blah, they've lost sight of how Imlie started falling for M's provocations and totally playing into her hands over time.....so Adi's negligence did contribute to this mess but Imlie's impulsive outbursts have also accelerated the problems.

The trust issues are now too convoluted to parse through.....and they seem unable to give Imlie better dialogues rather than just screaming about the same thing over and over again.....the execution was just plain BAD in yesterday's scene and I find it amazing to read people hailing ST's acting in what was a pretty sloppy bit from the Imlie side of things.

I still stand by my point that she has unresolved angst about the fact that Adi didn't believe her in time to stop himself from getting raped....that is why she is throwing it in his face again and again that you didn't believe me, that is why M managed to sleep with you....it's just sounding so cringe to hear her say this again and again cuz it's something that cannot be resolved now...it's already happened, Adi is not going to be convinced simply by hearing it over and over again so I'm not sure why else she does it other than to get her bitterness out.....and that level of bitterness is now turning ugly and hateful....the hate was showing clearly on her face yesterday and that is why it leads me to conclude that she can't stand Adi now for that reason.....atleast that's how she's making him feel too by constantly telling him to get lost, not even talking to him rationally for 2 minutes (barring the random phone call yesterday which now seems like an aberration since she's otherwise been avoiding him since some days).

Also, regarding her lowe for so called "ansh"....lol ok firstly that entire angle is super cringe to begin with....but chalo it was atleast consistent with her general patterns of mahaanta.....right now though, they seem to be unable to articulate her stance about the baccha given how she just keeps mutinously repeating that M needs to be thrown out of the house....lol it's sounding like a childish retaliation rather than a rational thought no matter how valid her disgust of M is.....and that is the problem that Imlie fails to get....she thinks she's done everything she could but she's not realizing that just shouting at him about this point constantly like this is only hardening his mental blocks.....toh I would say kuch bolo hi mat if you are so exhausted.....but she only keeps making it worse by screaming it out like some childish zidd.....once again playing into that stereotype of how supposedly immature she is cuz of her age....and I reject that....she has been wise beyond her years about many things.....it is the writing that devolves her to this point and does her a disservice. I can understand they want to show her frustration but I would feel more connect with an Imlie who's pain isn't a poisonous tamasha like this.....they can show that shattering and heartbreak in a more dignified manner as they used to in the first 100 epis.....dunno what the need for these screaming matches is.......I have to say I really cringed seeing how she was shouting at Adi like he's the one half her age.....just looked very bad.

And goes without saying that I never said that Imlie doesn't love him😆.....I'm simply pointing out that the makers are failing to show that she is just as broken as Adi with how inconsistently they are showing her "dukh" and her samasya changing in every scene ki chahiye kya aur kis baat ka actual gussa hai - bharose ka, sawaal ka, M ka, shak ka, shabaashi ka ya god knows what else.

Bottom line is that Imlie ko PAKAAU banaa diya hai when this should be her track to feel validation as Adi is suffering for not having believed her for so long....instead I find myself feeling bad for his breakdown.....lol and ain't that some irony.

I do not watch regularly but I make an effort to stay caught up as I’m not able to completely get detached from our ghochhus too.

And I do understand & agree with your points about the execution which is the main reason for me to not watch on daily basis but I guess when you binge watch, you’re able to view it from a different perspective than you’d be on a daily watch & my take came from that.
Baaki toh dekhte hai story kaha jaati hai with this divorce…writers have surely managed to dry up interest from a lot of audiences.

Originally posted by: Maitri_B

I do not watch regularly but I make an effort to stay caught up as I’m not able to completely get detached from our ghochhus too.

And I do understand & agree with your points about the execution which is the main reason for me to not watch on daily basis but I guess when you binge watch, you’re able to view it from a different perspective than you’d be on a daily watch & my take came from that.
Baaki toh dekhte hai story kaha jaati hai with this divorce…writers have surely managed to dry up interest from a lot of audiences.

Haan it's definitely better to binge watch this😆.....I've also usually been able to tolerate the epis better when I've caught up in a binge watch.....ofcourse I still forward through a lot of the sidey crap but yeah yeh daily watch is what adds to the frustration with the inconsistencies.

Aaj ke epi ke baare mein kya bolein😆

What a MASTERCLASS in hypocrisy and lack of self-awareness from Aparna ji👏.....slow claps😆.....loving the revisionist history happening here with everyone claiming ki Adi Imlie ko naukraani banaa ke ghar laaya😆.....aaj toh FB bhi dikhaya and conveniently chopped out the part where Imlie called HERSELF a naukraani first.....Adi ne nahin bola tha😆.....oh well, apne twisted narratives ke liye kuch bhi bol lo, haina writers ji? 😆

Also all of a sudden Aparna ji is jataaoing how GRACIOUS she is about acknowledging her mistakes of mistreating Imlie.....LMAO the level of bullshit in that scene....I can't even.....all of them acting like Adi toh machhar maar raha tha that entire time when all of them were ABUSING Imlie.....lol ab khud mahaan ban rahe hain like they always supported her......and upar se itne epis baad phir se berating Adi ki shuru mein hi sach kyun nahin bataa diya.....bhai 150 epis baad you AGAIN need a full recap? lol did he not tell you like a zillion times what the circumstances were? Kya bakwaas lagaa rakha hai......anything to just have a lame Adi berating party ki sab log pile on karke use hi duniya ka sabse galat insaan saabit karo and ek akeli Imlie hi ab saint hai inke liye......lol the same Ts who once called Imlie a gold digger and claimed she was phasaaoing Adi are now acting like she's their patron saint and Adi is the Devil himself🤣......My god who can take these losers seriously after this.....nonsense.

Does make you wonder how Adi has survived being brought up in such a gaslighting waali family. I had to laugh at them claiming Adi is their GUROOR....ROFL WHEN? When exactly have they even given him BASIC respect that he is supposedly their PRIDE now? Bakwaas🤪......and bhai agar daily curses dene hain ki Imlie goes to some other family then please stop calling her your bahu too.....kya bakwaas lagaa rakhi hai.....freakin dogle log sab.

Utter nonsense from Aparna today .. they legit forgot 100 episodes of them illtreating her..and rest of the episode was no less with udhaarwala and he is back at the dupatta snatching 😡 - just makes me so disgusted when he does that…whole episode was skip skip skip….

Watching the Ts spew hypocritical bakwaas at Adi today again made me realize the place Imlie has in his life.....puri duniya is ready to paint him a terrible human being at the drop of a hat - especially his own hypocritical family.

Par ek Imlie thi jo isko actually lowest moments pe anchor kar sakti thi - woh baat keh sakti thi jo ise sambhaal le, jo ise permanently berate na karti rahe to make him feel like a lowlife....aur ab wohi nahin rahi *sigh*

Adi seemed so utterly alone in that moment even when supposedly surrounded by family.....what an existence.

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Utter nonsense from Aparna today .. they legit forgot 100 episodes of them illtreating her..and rest of the episode was no less with udhaarwala and he is back at the dupatta snatching 😡 - just makes me so disgusted when he does that…whole episode was skip skip skip….

LOL ab yehi pattern hoga kal bhi....saare dhamaake ME mein honge with new girl😆

As for Aparna....oh it's so very easy for everyone in this story to forget their mistakes and act holier than thou....bas Adi ke mistakes hi highlight kiye jaate hain and everyone is ready to pile on.....even when Aparna outright ABUSED Imlie and said way horrible things than anything Adi every did/said to Imlie.....but phir bhi ab Aparna ji mahaan Maa hain jo apne hi bete ko roz kosti hain....waaah waah😆

And baaki dunno what bakwaas she was talking about majboori.....Adi ki majboori/galtiyaan ginaane se pehle is simple Q ka answer do ki what is M doing in your house after continuing to claim that Imlie shot her? Why is it still somehow only ADI's fault while you all are still chilling around with the woman who claims Imlie tried to kill her? So yeah, better to shut your mouth if you can't even answer that Q first. Friggin losers.