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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Lol but will jaan lena also be enough for the bloodthirsty junta that only sits around to count how many slaps Adi will get? 😆….they talk about him like he’s some kind of Middle Eastern dictator that they want to see toppled🤷‍♀️….

Uska zinda laash hona is entertainment for people and Imlie acting so despo over a bathrobe and thoda sa luxury is also apparently all part of the same entertainment package 🤷‍♀️😂

Anyways yeah le hi lein uski jaan. Usko bhi mukti milegi and birdie bhakts ko bhi 😆….waise bhi nobody is worthy of Her Highness Queen Birdie now anyways. Lol bahut jaldi ASR ji ko bhi bol degi tumne mujhe naukrani banaya 😆


Haan bhai lo and khatam karo as if adi ko iss jaan se kuch lena dena hai ya kabhi oyati thi..as if adi khud hi har time nahi sar pe.kaafan bandh leta as if woh khud hi gaddhe main nahi gir gaya tha ke bury kar do caz imlie devi ji is suffering ahh bhool gayi imlie woh bhi Haan woh kya karna hai yaad karke ke this man chose death over her unhappiness and sufferings but nah isko toh sab iss naye dost ne dia hai..dekhnege kab first hai naya dost iske loye gaddhe main .. kab woh maut choose karega over hurting this girl.. remember even on forced matlrriage adi chose death hi it was her them too being nahi.. but nah .. adi ne kahaan kabhi kuch kia hai..maaro bhai uski bhi mushkil aasan karo he deserves mukti ftom this cycle shayad maarke hi woh mil jaaaye adi ko fromm both C sisters

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Lol disconnect is only there for some of us. Birdie bhakts are rejoicing since they hate Adi anyways and unki hi bhaasha bol rahi hai Imlie ab 😆


Adi ko kyon milegi alag raah? He is paapi, remember? He deserves to suffer the bojh of M and baccha all his life since he apparently chose them over Imlie 🤷‍♀️😂


Abhi toh aur nonsense dikhayenge in the next few epis leading up to the divorce. Lol we toh are feeling done now only ki bhai divorce karke khatam karo. No one wants them together now when it’s gotten so ugly….lol but makers will deffo giraao things further…Adi ko aur bakwaas karvaayenge taaki they can create that bitterness ka cycle from both sides long term. Imlie ko victim bhi toh paint karna hai of her pati supposedly doing shak on her and not liking her career progress blah blah 😆.

Jo abhi bhi sasural sasural bol rahi hai randomly, woh sab bhi toh khatam karna hai. Faltu ka baggage holding her back from enjoying naram gadda😆…chalo koi nahin, she will be free soon. Lol


Watch her blame that on adi too sasural.cheen lia iske apne cheen liye caz wait he was jealous if her and isko akela karna chahtha tha iss loye iska sab phir malini ko de dia as in T's too she is that paagal right now

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

Ooh am happy, coz most of you are in the same page with me 😇


💔 Adi drunk, I didn't see this coming, she really broke him!


The bad thing is, for the sake of stretching this, postpone MC expose, planting Imlie at the R house, they literally made Imlie as an official Chatorvidi! Latterly this is the first thing that come to your mind once you see this version of Imlie!

Where is that Imlie that feel her BS pain without needing him to slip a word! Now she is the reason for him to drink and sink in his sorrows!


At least he is constant in his sad stand, while she is flip flopping every 2 min! One min she is crying on her BS, the other min she is happy and jumping here and there like nothing had happen!



PLZ, don't bring the birdi "spoilers" and lame theories her 🤭

It is a toxic atmosphere there, I am running a way from it and come here to read and share some logical aspects of the story as the show unfolds to us who really stuck with this show for the last year 😌


@bold: This. It’s so bizarre how they are showing her suddenly clowning around over a bathrobe and aalishaan kamra 😕….Imlie has always been lively but she was shown to find happiness in small things. This new version that’s giddy over a rich room and soft bed. I don’t get it 🤷‍♀️….and it’s even more bizarre to see people justifying in their need to see a supposedly smiling Imlie, no matter how detached it looks from the story flow 🤷‍♀️.



And yes, Adi is still at the same spot. He hasn’t changed his stance about what he views as his obligations and responsibilities. He hasn’t hidden anything from Imlie. Woh humesha se aisa tha. She’s the one who’s suddenly acting like she can’t bear him and him not giving in to her one demand means she will never speak with him. And one minute she acts like she is the most heartbroken abla in the world while next second she’s bouncing on the bed like a 5 year old 🤷‍♀️…not sure how I was supposed to connect to that or find it “cute” 🙄….they are showing ridiculous nonsense and it’s remarkable that people are hailing this 🤷‍♀️

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


Exactly kuch na realIe hona hai .. infact yeh naya dost will be painted as oh so misunderstood due to his exterior ... uske haadse ka datd made him like that remember imlie will be all oh he is allowed murders too since he is so dukhi just like out she was with didi but adi cannot have any dukh in life ..imlie was bring gaddhe murde ke kaunsa gheek se baat karte thay like For Real Imlie ? For Real? Haan adi ne toh kabhi theek se kuch kia hi nahi hai na.. again why phir tum act despo over him. As of that is not long past and history what bS was thst ke he never ever did bharosa on her right .. as of qdi ne ankhein band karke iski har baat mahi maani hai until SK shot him that is where things changed but then too when has she been smart about going about didi .. blunt accusations the way she did however frustrated may we ha e been are hard to buy like that prasad time and all ..kaunsi samjhdaariyaan ki hai agar nikalne hi hai old skeletons kya samjhdaari thi in SK ko bhagana when she knew things kahan hain but nahi isne toh kabhi kisi ka bharosa Toda nahi hai but dusron ne mahi kabhi kia iksa bharosa.. isse ache se baat nahi ki..bada bharosa bharosa chrekhti hai ab and kabhi yehi thi ke kabhi batana hi nahi hai. If not for adi abhi bhi bhaithe hote on sach pata hai ke nahi tab bharosa nahi toot rsha tha.. but Haan what does adi k ow..jaa to toh saba maharani imlie devi hai .


Lol wohi toh. If you want to come down to keeping scores, Imlie ne bhi chori se SK ko bhagaya tha, no? Lol but her reasons are all valid cuz she was fighting a known villain? Lol toh Adi bhi toh apne level ki info se act kar raha hai given how shady ASR is acting. So why is Adi alone a monster in the eyes of these people? And the lame nicknames they are trying to chipkaao on him. I can only laugh 😆….Kya milta hai logon ko itna visceral hatred karke over someone who is a rape and emotional abuse victim? Lol truly amazing to see such mahaan mindsets.


The way Imlie herself is being shown comparing Adi and ASR ka treatment of her and even comparing her entry into this R house with her entry into T house is bizarre as hell to me. She was never this kind of vengeful and brutal before. Least of all with Adi. And he has a million flaws but he was never vengeful like this with Imlie and bakwaas ki bhi tab bhi kabhi haath toh nahin chhoda. Humesha kept his focus and concern on her ghoom phir ke and apologized for his mistakes too. Sadly we can never expect that from Imlie. Especially when so many here are gleefully justifying her misbehavior from that scene 🤷‍♀️. Pains me to say ki ab puri tarhaan se Malini ki behen lag rahi hai. Khoon apna rang dikhata hi hai. Who knows what other traits from the C side will be unveiled in her in the coming days. Rab raakha.

Edited by AreYaar - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

My hope is that they show Imlie also suffering the consequences of her actions. One of the beautiful aspects of this story was both Imlie and ADI were always flawed from the start. They both made their share of mistakes and both were equal partners in the relationship always. The time when Adi did not want to acknowledge their relationship, Imlie held on with her faith and vice versa when Imlie doubted his love, Adi held on to the vishwaas. So I can only hope that Imlie also faces the brunt of trusting her dost over ADI, the way that Adi suffered. Again, like you said - Imlie is mahaan and her mistakes are ones made because she sacrificed so much for their relationship - forgetting that Adi has been an equal partner at every juncture as well. I really want to laugh when people say that Adi forced Imlie to live with his pregnant ex-wife, while convinently forgetting how she got there in the first place.

Imlie today was vengeful, spiteful and extremely entitled, as if she was truly making the Chaturvedi name proud. Her attitude reeked of counting the ehsaan she did by tolerating ADI for so long despite the apparent contempt she had for his treatment of her all this while and him choosing to consider Malini his zimmedari.

You were also on point regards to Imlie's condition - how does sending Malini from the Y house solve the issue - does Imlie think that sending her away will get rid of her from their lives. Like you said - what about the kid then - the same kid who you once called Adi ka ansh, hence you loved that child and wanted to be it's choti maa - woh sab suddenly went proof because you have issues with its mother? This is where the disconnect really was jarring for me today. Every line Imlie said today just hit below the belt - at every point. The ultimate was her using her Trump card to get him to leave - threatening career suicide if he doesn't listen to her. I today really want to know - how different was this from Malini's choice to take ger life to emotionally manipulate Adi and pay attention to her.

I don't know if Imlie really wants Adi without any baggage, or all her words were just a way to hurt him the way she was hurting (like you said, the editing and the overall effect was too shrill for me to really feel for her). But at the end of the day, ADI landed up being the one we rooted for, because he truly was left a broken man, almost as a punishment for falling in love with someone who refuses to even acknowledge his words anymore.


+1 to the bold.

Well, what else can we think based on Imlie’s words from the last few arguments? She’s just constantly stewing in anger more than hurt and she keeps repeating the same lines about how Malini slept with him and how she wants M out of the house. So I’m not sure of what other conclusion to draw other than the fact that she’s having some kind of delayed reaction/realization that she can’t live up to the vows of mahaanta she claimed about apnaaoing Adi with all his baggage….she seems to be feeling some kind of delayed disgust over the fact that M slept with Adi (even if it was drugged rape) and that seems to be only now bothering her as a wife. Pehle toh isne aaraam se compartmentalize kar liya tha 🤷‍♀️….but it’s looking disjointed now cuz the reaction is so delayed and feels forced. This is why I feel more connect to Adi’s exasperation over her making these demands now coz they do sound like childish retaliation. And Adi is not the kind of guy to kick someone out of his house for childish retaliation. That is what’s stopping him now. He feels Imlie is being retaliatory. And she isn’t helping her case by having all these childish outbursts. There is so much to sympathize with Imlie vis a vis her pain on a basic level. Why reduce her to these childish outbursts? The scene would have been so much more powerful with that wise and dignified Imlie bajaaoing him in her own way. But what did we get? This lame caricature that panders to the Birdie bhakt brigade. Mehh


Baaki they dropped the ball in showing us how much only Adi is falling apart in being away from her. His hurt was raw on another level while Imlie is shown only fixating on her career and naya boss. Toh obviously disconnect hoga and will make you question the depth of love here. One person is falling apart unable to even stand and the other is clowning around her room like life is mast? 🤷‍♀️


Adi’s angst is all well and good but if they continue to show this moronic bipolar version of Imlie, it’s hard to sustain Adilie 🤷‍♀️

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Posted: 3 years ago

Exactly!


I could manage to connect to her " happy/cute" actions, if she done it some how to cheer others or to show ppl that she is fine!


But this Imlie who are jumping in bed "a lone" having fun! 😅 No I just could not!


She really need a reality check now!


She need this divorce to try and value AKT, she took their marriage for granted too much that she forget the other one who tied with her in it 😌


This is not MC

This is Adili who failed to protect their love

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli



+ 1 on everything..GM finally got some actual work and he is doing full paisa vasool kaam.. as lawyss kaam pe focus baaki sab bhadh main ..kaam ko bolne do then do bakwaaas everywhere to show yourself as some God .. he aced it and how


I have been getting shivika separation vibes but again wahan bhi jitna bhi ugly kheli thi anika kam se kam usje oeeche shivaauly komprtect karna tha motive yeh she was lied too she was idiotic nor to even do basic search sabne milke gadha banaya tha sso ko but kamse kam unka intent aur tha..anika bhaith ke Ginuwine nahi lag gayi thi ke oh force shaadi ki bed pe joota takha I mean you know why I am saying that baat😆 unlike yahaan and again as we spoke the other day inka rishta toh hamesha se bohat bijta deeper raha hai then shivika woh toh again had that ok yeh sab repeat and then again even in that separatikn divorce they brought some fun and yeah as pakaood as we have been for months the PF indeed happened and pinky suggested the consequences unlike here... yahan toh imlie woh wale gunaah laa rahi gai jo abhi tak thay bhi nahi in her dictionary gunaah and have been sorted as kono baat nahi..as if adi hadn't have a journey and has apologize to her a 100 times allover his mistakes heck or to her folks with such class I thought those problems ate resolved now..imlie has maaf karooed but apparently not wohi ladki jo ek sorry tak nahi maangti ab usse hisaab chahiye un baton ke loye jimki loye atone kar chuka hai adi wow just wow I am speechless.. matlab phir se nokalo everytime nikalo and then guulilt trip karo.. yeh seekha hai independent imlie ne 4 din ghar se bahar reh ke.. as if adi hadn't felt guiltier over the fact that imlie ne kabhi kuch nahi maanga imlie ne toh kabhi khud ka socha nahi imlie ne toh hamesha maaf kia and hadn't been in awww of thst bads dil and thst very quality of hers either.. ke kaise kar sakti hai Sab and has shown the gratitude for that but nah..


Sambhalna kya hota hai usme bhi imlie yehi kahegi main kyon kuch sambhaloon woh sambhalne aaya mujhe..as if usne try hi nahi ki kabse kaun bhaag rsha hai ab..as if we cannot see. Didn't knew ek dollar store wlai chsppal and bathrobe had so much chammak wow..


@bold: +1…that is where I was left speechless too seeing the level of her grudges against Adi for things he’s already apologized for a 100 times. For things he’s tried to atone for for so long. Constantly apne regrets and remorse express kiye hain and tab Imlie ise bolti thi ki aapki galti nahin, aap bhi toh mere saath suffer kar rahe hain, daant kha rahe hain blah blah 🤷‍♀️ lol guess that was all a lie too then? 😆

Jis glee se log Adi ke “paap” ginvaate hain from the time before he realized his love for Imlie, kabhi Imlie ke flip flops bhi utni diligence se yaad kar lein. Lol but no tab kuch logon ko suddenly memory loss ho jaata hai 🤷‍♀️😂. Such is the power of blind Birdie bhakti 😆

Imlie is on her own delusional trip thinking what all she is doing is “independence”, without realizing the way she has made herself beholden to the people doing these so called favors to her. Oh well.


Adi wasn’t waiting around for credit for what all he’s done to advance her education and career, but the way Imlie is acting right now is as if she’s accusing him of being jealous of her progress. lol did he deserve to hear this after literally almost dying trying to take her to her exams? 🤷‍♀️ That’s the guy she’s saying all this crap to now? Lol

Mujhe toh yeh samajh nahin aata how people can’t see the whole epi being a setup to justify why Adi is feeling alienated by her. By the time we got to the drunk scene, I could even see where his babbling was coming from. Imlie did indeed give him the impression that she can no longer stand him. That she chooses to be at this ASR ka house out of her marzi. She was too busy showing off about paying rent to bother telling Adi that the warden threw her out and she was living under his desk for two days 🤷‍♀️…but sure, tell me some more about how Adi has no cause to even feel insecure after this. Lol she is being shown all giddy about being in a luxurious room but Adi is not allowed to wonder why she prefers staying in that house over a hostel? Yeah he was babbling some bakwaas about calling himself gareeb patrakaar but it’s all stemming from this extreme hurt of being foresaken by Imlie. She has made him feel like a lowlife not worthy of her toh aur kya soche woh? He’s shattered and falling apart in blind pain wondering why their rishta was so kamzor. Dukh toh hoga hi ki jis rishte ke liye puri duniya se lad liya, aaj itna kamzor nikla ki Imlie could choose to live with random kal ka mila stranger over him 🤷‍♀️….


To expect him to suddenly understand M’s truth in the middle of all this simply coz Imlie is demanding it - I really don’t get how 🤷‍♀️….his mind is being further messed up by Imlie’s harsh beratement as she pushes him away. Is sabke beech mein from what angle is it expected that he will randomly say ok yeah let’s kick pregnant aurat out just cuz you’re so angry with her. If he doesn’t see the truth, kaise kar lega? This isn’t a regular husband wife dynamic. The baggage has to be factored in since Adilie paaloed that baggage together for a long time. Just cuz Imlie is now over the baggage doesn’t mean he will instantly fall in line too 🤷‍♀️.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


@bold: +1…that is where I was left speechless too seeing the level of her grudges against Adi for things he’s already apologized for a 100 times. For things he’s tried to atone for for so long. Constantly apne regrets and remorse express kiye hain and tab Imlie ise bolti thi ki aapki galti nahin, aap bhi toh mere saath suffer kar rahe hain, daant kha rahe hain blah blah 🤷‍♀️ lol guess that was all a lie too then? 😆

Jis glee se log Adi ke “paap” ginvaate hain from the time before he realized his love for Imlie, kabhi Imlie ke flip flops bhi utni diligence se yaad kar lein. Lol but no tab kuch logon ko suddenly memory loss ho jaata hai 🤷‍♀️😂. Such is the power of blind Birdie bhakti 😆

Imlie is on her own delusional trip thinking what all she is doing is “independence”, without realizing the way she has made herself beholden to the people doing these so called favors to her. Oh well.


Adi wasn’t waiting around for credit for what all he’s done to advance her education and career, but the way Imlie is acting right now is as if she’s accusing him of being jealous of her progress. lol did he deserve to hear this after literally almost dying trying to take her to her exams? 🤷‍♀️ That’s the guy she’s saying all this crap to now? Lol

Mujhe toh yeh samajh nahin aata how people can’t see the whole epi being a setup to justify why Adi is feeling alienated by her. By the time we got to the drunk scene, I could even see where his babbling was coming from. Imlie did indeed give him the impression that she can no longer stand him. That she chooses to be at this ASR ka house out of her marzi. She was too busy showing off about paying rent to bother telling Adi that the warden threw her out and she was living under his desk for two days 🤷‍♀️…but sure, tell me some more about how Adi has no cause to even feel insecure after this. Lol she is being shown all giddy about being in a luxurious room but Adi is not allowed to wonder why she prefers staying in that house over a hostel? Yeah he was babbling some bakwaas about calling himself gareeb patrakaar but it’s all stemming from this extreme hurt of being foresaken by Imlie. She has made him feel like a lowlife not worthy of her toh aur kya soche woh? He’s shattered and falling apart in blind pain wondering why their rishta was so kamzor. Dukh toh hoga hi ki jis rishte ke liye puri duniya se lad liya, aaj itna kamzor nikla ki Imlie could choose to live with random kal ka mila stranger over him 🤷‍♀️….


To expect him to suddenly understand M’s truth in the middle of all this simply coz Imlie is demanding it - I really don’t get how 🤷‍♀️….his mind is being further messed up by Imlie’s harsh beratement as she pushes him away. Is sabke beech mein from what angle is it expected that he will randomly say ok yeah let’s kick pregnant aurat out just cuz you’re so angry with her. If he doesn’t see the truth, kaise kar lega? This isn’t a regular husband wife dynamic. The baggage has to be factored in since Adilie paaloed that baggage together for a long time. Just cuz Imlie is now over the baggage doesn’t mean he will instantly fall in line too 🤷‍♀️.


Agreed! Also how have people forgotten that insecurity toh adi ki bhi hai yeh gateeb wali baat beshak imlie ne nahi lahi but that is something he has been hammered with all this while as part of his emotional abuse toh kyon na chubbhe yeh gaadi nahi hai ghar chota hai karma chota hai has been issues that are constantly fed to him and he is conditioned too again he has for so long not reflected upon it caz it was not worthy but woth inlie giving that impression saying all these things ke hai naram gadda jumping over ot yumne mujhe naukrani rakha aise rakha waiase rakha this ghar is better kya kare woh.. haan bas uski insecurity nahi nikal sakti sabka sab one ko hi ho sakta hai.. again people watch on the surface and even though do they really understand.. if they would've ever understood 8t yeh sab ma jo raha hots. But nahi again I remember adi toh sanko beast lagta tha all those beauty and the beast comparisons pre his love realization.. uske baad bhi hamesha adi hi Galt raha hai but jhelma tha caz hero tha and they were throwing lollypops in .. well ok enjoy but just remember jitna marzi hate kar lein imlie ki kismat adi hi gai aise ya waise. Iske baad bhi imlie will somehow find her way to him after all this mess right now

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


@bold: This. It’s so bizarre how they are showing her suddenly clowning around over a bathrobe and aalishaan kamra 😕….Imlie has always been lively but she was shown to find happiness in small things. This new version that’s giddy over a rich room and soft bed. I don’t get it 🤷‍♀️….and it’s even more bizarre to see people justifying in their need to see a supposedly smiling Imlie, no matter how detached it looks from the story flow 🤷‍♀️.



And yes, Adi is still at the same spot. He hasn’t changed his stance about what he views as his obligations and responsibilities. He hasn’t hidden anything from Imlie. Woh humesha se aisa tha. She’s the one who’s suddenly acting like she can’t bear him and him not giving in to her one demand means she will never speak with him. And one minute she acts like she is the most heartbroken abla in the world while next second she’s bouncing on the bed like a 5 year old 🤷‍♀️…not sure how I was supposed to connect to that or find it “cute” 🙄….they are showing ridiculous nonsense and it’s remarkable that people are hailing this 🤷‍♀️


It is zabaradasti ka hailing to show some loyalty to birdie and ST.. bhai kuch nahi jaata story character flaw point out karne main none of us Here has an issue with ST .. but nah. Apparently we cannot say imlie is stupid or all this is Wtf caz ST ko bura lag jaayega as she is doing mehnat .haan bas wohi kar rahi hai and kaunsi mehnat In aise bouncing around on the bed.. the sad part is she didn't even look like ST the girl we know caz even she is far more mature from what we know than this crazy version who gets hyper over a bed.. 🥱🤷‍♀️ this stopped being cute for kids too Years ago but no yeh naya cuteness aaya hai or finding happiness ka definition..and jab itna hi giddy ho toh kyon change karna hai sab.. abhi toh she will show more jalway of this need for speed too ajeeb drag hoga of "BONDING" over kaaki maa ka kehna ke driver bano🙄🙄🙄

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


+1 to the bold.

Well, what else can we think based on Imlie’s words from the last few arguments? She’s just constantly stewing in anger more than hurt and she keeps repeating the same lines about how Malini slept with him and how she wants M out of the house. So I’m not sure of what other conclusion to draw other than the fact that she’s having some kind of delayed reaction/realization that she can’t live up to the vows of mahaanta she claimed about apnaaoing Adi with all his baggage….she seems to be feeling some kind of delayed disgust over the fact that M slept with Adi (even if it was drugged rape) and that seems to be only now bothering her as a wife. Pehle toh isne aaraam se compartmentalize kar liya tha 🤷‍♀️….but it’s looking disjointed now cuz the reaction is so delayed and feels forced. This is why I feel more connect to Adi’s exasperation over her making these demands now coz they do sound like childish retaliation. And Adi is not the kind of guy to kick someone out of his house for childish retaliation. That is what’s stopping him now. He feels Imlie is being retaliatory. And she isn’t helping her case by having all these childish outbursts. There is so much to sympathize with Imlie vis a vis her pain on a basic level. Why reduce her to these childish outbursts? The scene would have been so much more powerful with that wise and dignified Imlie bajaaoing him in her own way. But what did we get? This lame caricature that panders to the Birdie bhakt brigade. Mehh


Baaki they dropped the ball in showing us how much only Adi is falling apart in being away from her. His hurt was raw on another level while Imlie is shown only fixating on her career and naya boss. Toh obviously disconnect hoga and will make you question the depth of love here. One person is falling apart unable to even stand and the other is clowning around her room like life is mast? 🤷‍♀️


Adi’s angst is all well and good but if they continue to show this moronic bipolar version of Imlie, it’s hard to sustain Adilie 🤷‍♀️


@ bold - So I have little different take here. I surely agree that she’s literally spewing venom since las few episodes, but I do not think if Adi had believed her even an ounce or acknowledged that Malini is there to harm their relationship, she would be THIS bitter. I also do not think that she’s having a delayed realization of M & baby kaand. I still believe that had M not been THIS shameless after the baby revelation and consistently challenging Imlie, she would’ve really accepted the baby + M and all of Adi’s baggage.

She’s never blamed Adi for the bigamy he did knowingly, neither she’s ever been unaware of the fact that Adi would always have this baggage called M, more so after the baby kaand.

I feel that her faith in Adi got shaken when he deleted the video WITHOUT her knowledge; that transparency of their relationship was gone at that time. One can argue that she helped her Dadda escape without Adi’s knowledge which Adi reciprocated with the video deletion. She still loved Adi and “his ansh” and tried her best to focus on the baby and not M’s antics but when Adi consistently dismissed her warnings about M, that’s when the gap started to get bigger and she started to feel that her words hold no value to him. Adi’s indifference & inaction to M’s antics bother her more than anything else, in my opinion. She’s not able to ignore M the way Adi can. I believe the lack of acknowledgement from Adi about M’s intentions started to build this frustration within her and at one point the volcano just irrupted with that one question. Her pile of anger & frustration since months is making her blind in seeing or acknowledging Adi’s very valid points about her current bad decisions regarding ASR.

While I completely agree about her OTT giddiness about the bedroom and bathrobe seem so “not Imlie”, I do not think that when it comes her feelings towards Adi – love, anger or seeking shaabashi for driving the car - she is a different Imlie. Yes, she is mad at him but she doesn’t not love him. She still yearns for his attention, approval and acknowledgement. I think the real disjointedness comes from this sudden flip flop between a sad and chirpy Imlie for no reason, and because of that it becomes hard to acknowledge that she too is emotionally suffering. The makers continue to change the focus of her “dukh”…at one point she’s dukhi as she has nowhere to live, and then the other time she’s dukhi because she’s missing Adi and her apne, and then she’s dukhi as babusahib is not trusting her, and then last night she was dukhi again because babusahib is not getting M out of his home.

While they have managed to show Adi consistent about his dukh and hurt, with Imlie, seems like they just don’t know where to take her with so many things open to be “dukhi” about and also making her work on her career and independence.

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