I just realized that the Meet Ahlawat’s speech is actually the speech that Shekhar/Rajvardhan gives after Bokul was injured … he made everyone play a game where he says a word to them and they have to reply what comes to their mind or what does it mean for them.. like he asks Rohan/Tez “sunday” he says some food items.. Ragini “life” she replied “samar/Ram” Dabbu/Duggu “superhero” he replied “ustad” and hugged Bokul/MH and so on.. Rishi refuses to participate and then he asked Bokul “costume” she replied without thinking “Jeans t shirt” roshni taunts her and then Shekhar first sends dabbu away and then tells whole family that from this day onwards no body will demean any lady of the house.. and then he says that he failed to be a father to Bokul and even he isn’t able to be a father to Aditi till now ..(at least that’s what I understood) .. and everything that happens in this house, everyone has a habit of blatantly blaming Bokul for that… which is quite similar to what Meet Ahlawat said in his stand…