Originally posted by: Apsvenky
Man I am pissed at her so much that I freaking ranted out all my frustration on the main forum today. Imlie today was bipolar (I try not to use this word in the main forum, as people tend to be very sensitive there, sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings here as well). After seeing the episode I am with Whateverji - Adi freaking deserves an alag raah - away from both Chaturvedi sisters please - DC ke genes main hi khot hai.
Today my heart broke for Adi - ek toh right now I love that guy, upar se Imlie ne jaise behave kiya and the way she truly shattered him - she right now does deserve the shiddat wala pyaar that Adi has for her - I am sorry but right now she is slotted in the same bracket as DD for me - the kind of manipulative words she used today, made him feel worthless and like he did not matter, blamed him for taking a zimmedari that she made him realize, and chose to use a dhamki that he knew would break him down like it did.
I do not care what the others think or feel - Adi today did not deserve the way he was treated - by Imlie, by his family and by destiny. The guy has been through hell and back yet people will always hold him responsible for everything - while he has made his share of mistakes, it does not discount the fact the others are also equally flawed - including Imlie. Imlie kare toh mahaan, lekin Adi kare toh shaitan - why is it okay for people to find humanity in a Vanraj or a Fateh, but feel that Adi is monster. His entire existence was tied to imlie - her choice today to deny that existence and throw out everything and just forget it the next day - did she forget that this was the same guy who once fainted because he assumed she left without telling him. Imlie ka self respect is self respect, but Adi ka pyaar is worthless which can be trashed whenever you feel it is not going as per your way - I am sorry, but neither does a marriage nor a good relationship work like that. You both need to compromise, you both need to communicate, you both need to value the other person. While Adi is willing to do it, Imlie's point blank refusal literally broke the guy today.
So even if the divorce has no ulterior motive, even if it is him being stubborn and wanting to hurt Imlie, I will still support Adi here - because the way Imlie broke his spirit today, them breaking this relationship and staying apart is currently the need of the hour.
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