Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #128|Maghmoom Si Kuch Aisi Kaifiyat - Page 40

Originally posted by: mpks1

Kshama, nothing wrong generally but in this case Shiva doesn’t want it and expressed it few times. She came across as a dobi back then but today her asking him to be her friend was with all genuine intentions because she knows divorce will happen, he is going to move on and she doesn’t want to continue their relationship in hate mode and wants to part amicably. Hence she asked to be his friend but he rejected her proposal today as well 😕

From ravis dialogue it's clear that she still wants to be in touch with the family and also for shiva to remember her..

She still wants to hold on to shiva and family even if shiva gets married to disha..

I feel hurt for her but also disapprove this.

Originally posted by: Kfof

Oh yes, I know that - the scene was so hurtful - I really cried with Raavi when she was asking all those questions.🥲

But I wanted to know for real life - I mean many are saying na she is dobi so she is asking to be friend even being married to him. So I wanted to know in real life is it wrong to ask your partner to be friend and come across as dobi ?

As I dont think that is friend zoning.

In today's scene also and before also she had asked to be friends when Shiva had said no to being stranger or start a new life. I mean at that time also I thought that is not wrong and she is right and not dobi.

There is nothing wrong at all. Mine was an arranged marriage with a long distance courtship and we had plenty of time between the engagement and the wedding. I saw him at the engagement and the next time he was going to come to India was for the wedding. In many months we had in between, he was the one who proposed we start out as good friends get to know each other as much as we can and then move forward after marriage. It did work for me at that time and I had only a landline phone and an email to communicate😆

But in this case Shiva has been from the beginning been rejecting this friend zoning even when they were in good terms and now he doesn’t think it’s feasible at all after the divorce. She on the other hand insisting on the friendship to maintain an amicable relationship with the him and the family.

Originally posted by: freebird_dd

Evn I don't understand still R wants to visit Pandya niwas here she has accepted shiva n disha marriage bound to happen then y n make things awkward for her ,S n disha on top of Suman insults ...

She cn dhara child somewhere also...

At this age after going through so much she should nw think abt herself n future bt she seems to be in different tangent...

Exactly. She has gone through so much. Just like Dhara in the pre-leap. 😭 Looks like they literally want her to become Bhabhi-maa.😆

Originally posted by: deeps07

From ravis dialogue it's clear that she still wants to be in touch with the family and also for shiva to remember her..

She still wants to hold on to shiva and family even if shiva gets married to disha..

I feel hurt for her but also disapprove this.

Deeps, she only wants to hold on to him as a friend. If the divorce happened and Shiva chose to marry Disha, she would never come in between them.

She took a step back for Rishita, she will again do the same for Disha.

Originally posted by: mpks1

There is nothing wrong at all. Mine was an arranged marriage with a long distance courtship and we had plenty if tome between the engagement and the wedding. I saw him at the engagement and the next time he was going to come to India was for the wedding. In many months we had in between, he was the one who proposed we start out as good friends get to each other as much as we can and then move forward after marriage. It did work for me at that time and I had only landline phone and email to communicate😆

But in this case Shiva has been from the beginning has been rejecting this friend zoning even when they were in good terms and now he doesn’t think it’s feasible at all after the divorce. She on the other hand insisting on tje friendship to maintain an amicable relationship with the family.

Your relationship is one future goals ❤❤❤

Originally posted by: Kfof

Oh yes, I know that - the scene was so hurtful - I really cried with Raavi when she was asking all those questions.🥲

But I wanted to know for real life - I mean many are saying na she is dobi so she is asking to be friend even being married to him. So I wanted to know in real life is it wrong to ask your partner to be friend and come across as dobi ?

As I dont think that is friend zoning.

In today's scene also and before also she had asked to be friends when Shiva had said no to being stranger or start a new life. I mean at that time also I thought that is not wrong and she is right and not dobi.

unpopular opinion but why do I feel raaavi was never the cause of his insecurity... it already existed we often put the blame on raavi but kinda every member like krish taunts him it's just that he is hurt that someone whom he love won't like him because of his personality...

it is so obvious why shiva fell for her in the first place ... but lately I am so detached from shiva I can not enjoy a single scene until and unless he takes a stand for raavi ... because chaubey made shiva selfish at this point he needs assurance and really doesn't give a damn about raavi's mental health.

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

I teared up a little too Prema.

" Disha se shaadi ho Jaane ke baad Tu apne bachpan ke dushman ko bhul to nahi jayega? "

This got me 💔

The sheer innocence of this question

I and maybe many others always thought of raavi as a weak character. But after seeing today's episode I think she is one of the strongest characters I have seen.she holds onto to the little amount of love she gets from anyone. Even rishita, the girl who insulted her at first. She forgives with just one sorry. She takes care of dhara and the family with her whole heart irrespective of the sad situation she is in.

I want her to leave the house, but where will she go? To her maasis house? She will probably pressurise her to marry someone day and night for her own ego, advertise her with posters. Anita doesn't care at all about her.

She doesn't have a safe place anywhere.

I am waiting for the future episodes, let's see what the makers have planned.looks like the engagement drama will happen, how it will stop is the main twist.jaise aaj raavi ka din tha, shiva ka din bhi aana chahiye.i am hoping he has an outburst in front of the whole family.baaki makers ki marzi.

This is what I feel ❤❤❤

I mean it's not easy to move on when you love the whole family.

Also, if going back to Maami is not viable solution.

And she is just graduate, she does not have a proper job to become independent and move out of place. Yes, she should focus on her studies and be independent.

In PN, except for Suman and Shiva ( she thinks that) , everyone loves her (we do not see it that way but that is the truth). So she wants to be connected to them.

Originally posted by: mpks1

There is nothing wrong at all. Mine was an arranged marriage with a long distance courtship and we had plenty if tome between the engagement and the wedding. I saw him at the engagement and the next time he was going to come to India was for the wedding. In many months we had in between, he was the one who proposed we start out as good friends get to each other as much as we can and then move forward after marriage. It did work for me at that time and I had only landline phone and email to communicate😆

But in this case Shiva has been from the beginning has been rejecting this friend zoning even when they were in good terms and now he doesn’t think it’s feasible at all after the divorce. She on the other hand insisting on tje friendship to maintain an amicable relationship with the family.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Deeps, she only wants to hold on to him as a friend. If tje divorce happened and Shiva chose to marry Disha, she would never come in between them.

She took a step back for Rishita, she will again do the same for Disha.

Well in that scenario let's all pray 🙏 🙏🙏🙏to trp to fall again.

Either Shiva opens his mouth and stop the engagement and we get shivi patch up with dedpo exit

Or

Let the show gets shut down if they continue with shiva engaged to disha despite being married to raavi. Can't take this toxic any more.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Deeps, she only wants to hold on to him as a friend. If the divorce happened and Shiva chose to marry Disha, she would never come in between them.

She took a step back for Rishita, she will again do the same for Disha.

THIS!!!😭

Oh how I want her to NOT go all 'tyaag ki Murti max pro' for Dissssssuuuuu🤢