Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #128|Maghmoom Si Kuch Aisi Kaifiyat - Page 39

Originally posted by: spdp

Suman is playing worse - horror gudde guddi ka shaadi khel than Dhara did.

I made a post in the MF about how evil she is. Please comment if you can.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/pandya-store/5262378/evil-woman-suman-pandya

Originally posted by: PoohNotFound

I just don't understand why Raavi wants this Phraandship.😆

To part in an amicable note because deep down she lives that family. Dhara, Gautam, Rishita, Dev and Krish still care for her and she wants to reciprocate that love back to them. It is only possible if she is furends with Shiva else she even asks that if you are going to continue to hare, “ will you throw me out like you used to before marriage”

If Shiva continues to hate her even after the divorce, there is no way Raavi will be able to kerp intouch with the people she loves.
To make it clear, Raavi thinks that Shiva hates her still, that’s why he is asking for Mukti from her,

Originally posted by: mpks1

Kshama, nothing wrong generally but in this case Shiva doesn’t want it and expressed it few times. She came across as a dobi back then but today her asking him to be her friend was with all genuine intentions because she knows divorce will happen, he is going to move on and she doesn’t want to continue their relationship in hate mode and wants to part amicably. Hence she asked to be his friend but he rejected her proposal today as well 😕

Oh yes, I know that - the scene was so hurtful - I really cried with Raavi when she was asking all those questions.🥲

But I wanted to know for real life - I mean many are saying na she is dobi so she is asking to be friend even being married to him. So I wanted to know in real life is it wrong to ask your partner to be friend and come across as dobi ?

As I dont think that is friend zoning.

In today's scene also and before also she had asked to be friends when Shiva had said no to being stranger or start a new life. I mean at that time also I thought that is not wrong and she is right and not dobi.

Originally posted by: Kfof

Genuine Question - Is asking to be friend is wrong even when they woukd have started the marriage on right terms?

I just wanted to know - I have read many times that she is friendzoning him even from haveli times, but is it really wrong for her to ask?

I mean I had always thought being married - I want someone first who can become my best friend. Does it mean I am friendzoning him?

I believe there should be atleast a certain percentage of friendship in every relationship to make it work beautifully.. be it between siblings..be it between parents and kids..so is between husband and wife..and none of it means getting friend zoned.. friendship brings the freedom to be at ease with each other..

Originally posted by: deeps07

I believe there should be atleast a certain percentage of friendship in every relationship to make it work beautifully.. be it between siblings..be it between parents and kids..so is between husband and wife..and none of it means getting friend zoned.. friendship brings the freedom to be at ease with each other..

Yes, I mean that is what I am trying to say.

Asking to be friend does not mean friendzoned.

Originally posted by: PoohNotFound

Premziee, I haven't watched the episode yet but I wanna know why she wants to be friends with him? Like, Does she really think she can come and go after the divorce? Suman is already on the edge now and if Dishu comes they both won't let her in. Why does she wanna be friends and keep in touch with a family who always takes her for granted, MIL hurls insults day by day and now the husband is keeping quiet and going to do the engagement. Why put an effort alone?

Honestly, I really don't wanna see Raavi making a fool out of herself in the engagement. Like, Shiva needs to have a reality check.

IMO, I also want Raavi to act like Shiva.😆

Raavi is going to make a fool out of herself till the last moment when Shiva decides to open his mouth and say that she is right that divorce didn’t happen.

Watch the episode, you will understand why she is asking to be his friend and if possible watch the scene between Raavi and Rishita from episode# 246.

Originally posted by: mpks1

To part in amicable note because derp down she lives that family. Dhara, Gautam, Rishita, Dev and Krish still care for her and she wants to reciprocate that love back to them. It is only possible if she is furends with Shiva else she even asks that if you are going to continue to hare, “ will you throw me out like you used to before marriage”

If Shiva continues to hate her even after the divorce, there is no way Raavi will be able to kerp intouch with the people she loves.
To make it clear, Raavi thinks that Shiva hates her still, that’s why he is asking for Mukti from her,

I don't know, Premziee... I feel like they don't really care about her all. They only care for themselves. Maybe, it's because I don't feel connected to them at all or something, but I don't think they deserve her. they just want her as a free maid. Even if Raavi or any miracle stops the engagement, what guarantee is there that Suman won't ill-treat her? Would Shiva speak up for her? If he does, What would happen? Raavi would get further insults.....

IDK, maybe I'm still sleepy.🤪😆

Shivi chalte chalte bilkul thak chuke hai 😒

Raavi has just started to realize how important Shiva is for her. She no longer wants to walk on that path that will take her away from him. So she's trying to find a way to maintain some connection....dosti ho...dushmani ho....jo bhi ho, ab Shiva chahiye ❤️

On the other hand, Shiva, though heartbroken, is taking the final steps away from her 😒 Yea, Raavi ke reactions were not what he was expecting....But pyaar nahi, toh kuch bhi nahi. So he's resigned himself to losing out on his love.

Family drama aside, we're finally being served proper angst. ❤️

Originally posted by: mpks1

Pixie, my heart went out to her❤️ I don’t het emotional that easily but I was teary eyed while typing the outside the court conversation.

This girl is being attacked from all sides but she has non one to help her except Dhara at this time.

Suman’s ill wish and insults day in and day out, Shiva constantly questioning her but not doing anything himself, Mami’s constantly forcing her to get the divorce done. Hoe much more this girl has to endure.

Now in the precap Suman has given her kasam, so Shiva will not do anything to stop the engagement, so ahain she has to work her butt off to stop it citing legal issues else it will mount to adultery/ bigamy.
Once it is sorted out, then she has to work on proving her love for Shiva who will constantly doubt her if she is doing him a favor, staying unwillingly or taras khaa rahi hai,

Raavi has an uphill battle ahead of her. All strength to this girl. IDK why writers are cruel with Raavi’s character day in and day out.

I teared up a little too Prema.

" Disha se shaadi ho Jaane ke baad Tu apne bachpan ke dushman ko bhul to nahi jayega? "

This got me 💔

The sheer innocence of this question

I and maybe many others always thought of raavi as a weak character. But after seeing today's episode I think she is one of the strongest characters I have seen.she holds onto to the little amount of love she gets from anyone. Even rishita, the girl who insulted her at first. She forgives with just one sorry. She takes care of dhara and the family with her whole heart irrespective of the sad situation she is in.

I want her to leave the house, but where will she go? To her maasis house? She will probably pressurise her to marry someone day and night for her own ego, advertise her with posters. Anita doesn't care at all about her.

She doesn't have a safe place anywhere.

I am waiting for the future episodes, let's see what the makers have planned.looks like the engagement drama will happen, how it will stop is the main twist.jaise aaj raavi ka din tha, shiva ka din bhi aana chahiye.i am hoping he has an outburst in front of the whole family.baaki makers ki marzi.

Originally posted by: PoohNotFound

I just don't understand why Raavi wants this Phraandship.😆

Evn I don't understand still R wants to visit Pandya niwas here she has accepted shiva n disha marriage bound to happen then y n make things awkward for her ,S n disha on top of Suman insults ...

She cn dhara child somewhere also...

At this age after going through so much she should nw think abt herself n future bt she seems to be in different tangent...