Kaku made sense today 17th Nov

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Probably an unpopular opinion but BK actually made sense today. Her reasons behind the insistence of getting an heir, make sense.

Virat is not getting any younger by day and how long is he supposed to wait for Sai considering this big revelation of the age gap. Virat is 36 and Sai 19... medical studies take about 5-6 years so by that time Virat would be above 40 😳 Not saying 40 is late to have a child but Virat is a grown man and he has his needs. Like it or not but s*x is an important component of livelihood.

It increases intimacy and emotional connection between partners. Sai is 19 and a medical student, so the notion that she doesn't understand things or the underlying nuances of marriage and Virat's approaches is utter bullcrap.

The point being, I don't think BK was wrong in her place today. After all, she is Virat's kaku so her first loyalty lies to Virat to ensure his happiness. Sai is just someone Virat has fallen for and that is something not unnoticed by any other Chavan niwaasi. Virat is smitten, everyone can see it except Sai.

Honestly speaking after realizing the age gap, I would rather have Kaku let them continue whatever they have as friends. SaiRat separation seems as husband and wife, and just sharing a platonic relationship seems like the best option.


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Posted: 4 years ago
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One thing also I realized ,Didi has been a secret sairat shipper since last year and we can see the proof

Another funny thing is that she thinks Sai must be very happy that Kaku asked her to consummate her marriage and she must be excited just like her 🤣🤣🤣.

Sbko apni tarah smjha h kya?As if this is some kind of prize?

What kind of woman is this?Even a 10th standard girl would have better thinking standards.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MB1996

One thing also I realized ,Didi has been a secret sairat shipper since last year and we can see the proof

Another funny thing is that she thinks Sai must be very happy that Kaku asked her to consummate her marriage and she must be excited just like her 🤣🤣🤣.

Sbko apni tarah smjha h kya?As if this is some kind of prize?

What kind of woman is this?Even a 10th standard girl would have better thinking standards.

Oh yes.... didi has always been that push needed for Sai to progress towards Virat and show possessiveness in the form of anger. I do hate the fact that it always has to be didi to play a crucial role in sairat relationship progressing, be it directly or indirectly. I always wanted it to be a natural flow of emotions where each realized the importance of the other in their life without any unwanted catalyst.

Didi is just sexually frustrated tbh... she wants to do it with Virat and that's never going to happen and the one who can do it with her, she doesn't want him.... so the frustration just keeps building up. This is the frustration that will lead to the pregnancy drama 🤣

Didi's imaginary scene was weird especially the last hug. It was so obvious that Virat's face was just beside Sai's face. He didn't even try to get close to the neck area (as I assume this was supposed to be the wild imagination of didi---the neck attack ☺️☺️), I didn't find even a wee bit of intimacy in that scene. the execution was horrible 🤣🤣

Edited by Dee10 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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If we consider the whole situation in a unbiased manner what bk said was right and this is what a head of house does .

If anyone is to blamed for entire mess it is virat .What did he think when he gave celibacy promise to pakhi😖 and without having any further thoughts married sai and was high in self confidence to fulfil the deal and free her

Coming to sai she knows she can't become his wife and she is not that child who can't understand the gravity of situation.Her divorce came along with marriage. It is also true that she had no option other than marrying him.But the point is that she says leaving the house but not divorcing virat

Writing messed up age.Let us assume virat is 31

By the age he will be 36 or37 when sai completes studies and by this time if sai leaves virat he can't get a nice girl according to bk that too for a divorcee after 5 yrs of marriage not to forget the fact that the girl was orphan .Any sensible parent won't marry off their daughter unless from poor family .Coming to sai even though she is divorced chances of a love marriage is high since she is young beautiful professionally qualified and her backstory. A sensible family will accept her and chances of it is high

I am totally against the fact a child can resolve issue. It is an old thought.But whatever other things told make sense.Virat is completely smitten by sai that's why bk accepted sai to some extent and virat 's madness for sai is known to everyone except sai herself and in previous track it was quite clear for everyone why he was upset and wanted to remain alone from family and as a head bk doesn't want to see virat in stress and take a risk in his life

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Posted: 4 years ago
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It was worst.It looked like he is vampire trying to attack sai's neck to suck blood.

I believe after confession,this is the quality vod romantic scenes we are going to get

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yess I agree too even though I hate the way she approached..

Then consequences of this deal/friendship marriage Can be worst than one can imagine.. It's going to be torturous for both.. Sai can achieve highest to the highest as a doctor but end of the day she would always feel empty without someone being there for her.. Virat may take transfer here and there to avoid any proximity with Sai but end of the he will be lonely without any partner...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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You are right deepu 👍


But I don’t have any thoughts on this, sorry 🥺

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Exactly my point, In no way I am justifying Kaku forcing sairat for a child but the rationale behind is not completely wrong. As the head of the family, she wants to see her children settled and she understands that Virat being a married man is in a fix. He can't have physical intimacy with Sai neither will his conscience allow him to cheat (thankfully) and this is building up to his frustrations as seen in certain of his outbursts. A child does not improve a marriage and this is primarily where Kaku is wrong. Sai also needs to stop being a pendulum at this point in time and think whether she should genuinely give herself a chance at this marriage with Virat (I'd rather not) or she should just leave Virat. He will eventually move on, the majority eventually do (human nature is such). I really love Sai but it's high time that the character growth is shown instead of her being a pendulum that swings both ways. It's time to give her some contemplating moments and a little bit more clarity as to exactly what she feels for Virat. How many episodes have been telecasted??? 400+??? That was more than enough to show an indecisive tantrum-throwing Sai. I need a little grown-up and calmer Sai because tbh, I rarely see a 19-year-old reacting to certain things, the way Sai's character is made to act! It's high time the creatives start showing her growth as an individual as well as a woman! Of course, this is not the actor's fault. The actress is doing a wonderful job showing all the diverse emotions of Sai but it is getting too cliched now. It's just the drag-fest that the creatives seem to be invested in, pisses me off!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MB1996

It was worst.It looked like he is vampire trying to attack sai's neck to suck blood.

I believe after confession,this is the quality vod romantic scenes we are going to get

I have no expectations of nicely executed romantic scenes. It will all be a hit and miss case as were the kiss scenes. aur hum wait karte rahe jayege 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dee10

Probably an unpopular opinion but BK actually made sense today. Her reasons behind the insistence of getting an heir, make sense.

Virat is not getting any younger by day and how long is he supposed to wait for Sai considering this big revelation of the age gap. Virat is 36 and Sai 19... medical studies take about 5-6 years so by that time Virat would be above 40 😳 Not saying 40 is late to have a child but Virat is a grown man and he has his needs. Like it or not but s*x is an important component of livelihood.

It increases intimacy and emotional connection between partners. Sai is 19 and a medical student, so the notion that she doesn't understand things or the underlying nuances of marriage and Virat's approaches is utter bullcrap.

The point being, I don't think BK was wrong in her place today. After all, she is Virat's kaku so her first loyalty lies to Virat to ensure his happiness. Sai is just someone Virat has fallen for and that is something not unnoticed by any other Chavan niwaasi. Virat is smitten, everyone can see it except Sai.

Honestly speaking after realizing the age gap, I would rather have Kaku let them continue whatever they have as friends. SaiRat separation seems as husband and wife, and just sharing a platonic relationship seems like the best option.


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If Virat is 36 and Sai 19-20..I would prefer them parting ways and just have a platonic relationship. There is no point of showing them as husband and wife. This show was not about two people with an age gap of more than 10 years falling in love...The drawing attention was also about a girl achieving her and her father's dream after losing him with the help of her husband and also dealing with his orthodox family. This makes no sense when they make it about Waaris and all.. Ofcourse Kaku is right if Virat is 36, he is losing out a lot and Sai is not...

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