Originally posted by: unicornwriter
I thought P really changed his anger management and made him a calmer person when he got happy about Kirti's kid. Everyone in his family was expecting a blow off but the childlike happiness he showed was like a hope that he's pit of that black hole but i guess he's not and that sucks. RaghVi were always supposed to fight together and rarely with each other but what we've always gotten is their huge fights of ridiculous misunderstanding because of people around them and not themselves.
Anger management and his guilt has been going since forever. 200+ episodes and the writers couldn't even tackle it a bit. He knows he is wrong but isn't of rectifying it we saw him run around beating people who had no fault or were just a pawn set up by the others. I mean he clearly has experienced and understood after P got shot that cold shoulder and shutting off hasn't been the answer of any solution and he himself agreed that he's gonna change it. RaghVi are together gonna change it then why full circles over and over again. It gets annoying after some point. Doesn't it?
I don't think P did at all. The moment we saw about R being happy for K was because by then he already begrudgingly accepted S as his sister's husband. So, him reacting badly to hearing K having a kid I think just doesn't fit with how he was dealing with K+S by then.
I think P makes him a happier, more content person. She brought happiness into his life. And maybe in turn that helped him be more relaxed because he was happy. She even heals him because he feels more complete and at ease when she's around. But she couldn't change his personality or his insecurities so she can't really change how he's going to react to everything.
The MUs because of other people have been around since M track. SS loves this type of tadka clearly, so I'm not surprised the situations are almost the same but just reversed now.
Writers never tackled the crux of the issue and that's why I didn't like how they handled the smuggling track and the drinking track. Everything was surface level - P never wondered why he did those things.
I can see why it gets annoying but this is just part of the story. At the end of the day, Pallavi is not you nor me, she will act within her characterization. My understanding of Pallavi is that, despite all the hurt, she is still a very understanding and forgiving woman. More than the average. So that's the understanding I'm using when watching the episodes. They're giving her great dialogues and Raghav is rightfully at the receiving end of all of it without much of a pushback or defending himself (explanation and defense are different things IMO). And he'll soon be redeemed and then they'll move on to the happy ending. That's my prediction at least.