*~*TAZBU (SaiShi and RaghVi) AT 18*~* Ghar More Pardesiya - Page 99

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

bold:what happened

any spoiler or something that you are this much frustrated

No just have a bad feeling about this. We still don't have a good bye post from Sunkee or others. If they are still all shooting when will we get Raghvi romance. I don't know I feel I'm cheated by this team already.

They shot 18 episodes in 7 days how. I can't even wrap my head around it.

Originally posted by: PSharada

Yes Raghav was literally dying every day since he came back from Warangal. He was taken advantage of and he doesn't know. When the truth comes out I really want him to blast Esha for doing this to him in guise of being a friend. He does not deserve this guilt and this trauma and neither does Pallavi.

Lol!! Guilt when? The time he was instead of understanding how to tell his wife the truth, was tending to his ex (supposed ONS) helping her have soup or shouting at his wife when she clearly talked about her suspicions that too against his ex and not him? Or when he ran away to save that same ex and brought her home when she asked for 'thori si jagah'?

Or when he was like 'oh hello kirti my sister now you know the truth but don't tell Pallavi let's keep her in dark'? Oh or my fav when he says 'aao honeymoon par chale sab past bhool bhool ho jayega'.

I think i have the definition of guilt wrong 😂😂

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

Lol!! Guilt when? The time he was instead of understanding how to tell his wife the truth, was tending to his ex (supposed ONS) helping her have soup or shouting at his wife when she clearly talked about her suspicions that too against his ex and not him? Or when he ran away to save that same ex and brought her home when she asked for 'thori si jagah'?

Or when he was like 'oh hello kirti my sister now you know the truth but don't tell Pallavi let's keep her in dark'? Oh or my fav when he says 'aao honeymoon par chale sab past bhool bhool ho jayega'.

I think i have the definition of guilt wrong 😂😂

Sorry I'm butting in.

I think it's very clear the people on this AT see the show with a different lens and are all on the same page as far as his guilt or actions are concerned. We have less than 3 weeks to go and would really like to enjoy the remaining episodes.

Sama, can we all respectfully agree to disagree atleast on the AT. It's a request really

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

Lol!! Guilt when? The time he was instead of understanding how to tell his wife the truth, was tending to his ex (supposed ONS) helping her have soup or shouting at his wife when she clearly talked about her suspicions that too against his ex and not him? Or when he ran away to save that same ex and brought her home when she asked for 'thori si jagah'?

Or when he was like 'oh hello kirti my sister now you know the truth but don't tell Pallavi let's keep her in dark'? Oh or my fav when he says 'aao honeymoon par chale sab past bhool bhool ho jayega'.

I think i have the definition of guilt wrong 😂😂

I am not denying that Raghav did do mistakes that night and the main thing was he stayed in the room with Esha. He did try to tell Pallavi the truth - twice. It just didn't work out and his insecurities just made him close up. He did suffer in the agony of having did wrong by Pallavi - at least his monologues after he woke up that morning and the subsequent scenes with LWR do show that.

It was not him who bought Esha home. In fact when Esha came by to guilt trip him the next day he clearly told her that for him it was only Pallavi and he is going to bear the guilt of cheating her all his life but he can not have any relationship with Esha. And it was Pallavi who bought Esha into the house. Why do we forget that? And he did not run away to bring his ex back home - He went only when Dasari called him to let him know that Esha was missing since she met him and the second time Sumit called up threatening him to kill her. Oh what was he supposed to do - oh yes do whatever you want with Esha, I will not help her and there is my golden chance of hiding this whole thing.

The only reason why Esha is able to manipulate Raghav and Pallavi is because they both are inherently very good people. Esha knows that Pallavi is morally strong so she let the truth of ONS out. And Raghav was unable to strongly object to Esha being out of his house because Esha kept on manipulating Raghav saying she was stuck in this situation because - she married Sumit to save Raghav's life and second she spent the night with him.

I don't condone the actions of Raghav - He was wrong at many times but I for sure understand where he is coming from. You might see his actions different from mine. We should agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

Lol!! Guilt when? The time he was instead of understanding how to tell his wife the truth, was tending to his ex (supposed ONS) helping her have soup or shouting at his wife when she clearly talked about her suspicions that too against his ex and not him? Or when he ran away to save that same ex and brought her home when she asked for 'thori si jagah'?

Or when he was like 'oh hello kirti my sister now you know the truth but don't tell Pallavi let's keep her in dark'? Oh or my fav when he says 'aao honeymoon par chale sab past bhool bhool ho jayega'.

I think i have the definition of guilt wrong 😂😂

Pallavi's song in the background:

Gave you all I had and you tossed it in the trash

You tossed it in the trash, you did

To give me all your love is all I ever ask

'Cause what you don't understand is

I'd catch a grenade for ya

Throw my hand on a blade for ya

I'd jump in front of a train for ya

You know I'd do anything for ya

Oh, oh, I would go through all this pain

Take a bullet straight through my brain

Yes, I would die for ya, baby

But you won't do the same

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

Lol!! Guilt when? The time he was instead of understanding how to tell his wife the truth, was tending to his ex (supposed ONS) helping her have soup or shouting at his wife when she clearly talked about her suspicions that too against his ex and not him? Or when he ran away to save that same ex and brought her home when she asked for 'thori si jagah'?

Or when he was like 'oh hello kirti my sister now you know the truth but don't tell Pallavi let's keep her in dark'? Oh or my fav when he says 'aao honeymoon par chale sab past bhool bhool ho jayega'.

I think i have the definition of guilt wrong 😂😂

Yup you have

Guilt is dripping from his face , please wear your glasses and see it clearly .

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Sorry I'm butting in.

I think it's very clear the people on this AT see the show with a different lens and are all on the same page as far as his guilt or actions are concerned. We have less than 3 weeks to go and would really like to enjoy the remaining episodes.

Sama, can we all respectfully agree to disagree atleast on the AT. It's a request really

That's fine Ren but i think RaghVi AT is for everyone who loves them and i do.

It's not important for everyone to be on the same page and i think i can voice my opinion if i don't understand anything and that is exactly what i think i am doing here.

Sorry but Raghav's 'guilt' actually confuses me now. I might have understood it before but i don't anymore which makes it difficult to look at our lovely couple as i used to.

Not everyone has the same experiences in life so not everyone understands actions the same way as others. From my personal experience I have seen many a relationships come back from brink of total collapse to now healthy and thriving ones. I base my understandings from my experiences which I agree might not be same as yours. If someone does not see the things the same way as you do, doesn't mean either one is correct and the other is wrong - Just means that our perspectives are different.

We can respectfully agree to disagree. I am not going to respond to anyone more than this. Please understand that my opinions might be different from yours and I am allowed to have them. You don't agree with me - You are free to not respond to my posts. Peace.

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

If raghav really loves esha and slept on his own will then there is no point for pallavi to stick to this relationship. Here raghav told many times on Esha face he loves only his wife and he regret that night. No matter how hard is he should have told pallavi which he didn't done and he is facing his consequence now. Pallavi don't deserve any of this and deep inside she knows raghav only loves her but he broke her trust.

Here both husband and wife love each other unconditionally and esha took advantage of raghav, which needs to be out on open.. pallavi left raghav and she also told she hates him. On one night did everything will change???

Raghav will go dead end for pallavi and pallavi how much hard she try she can't stop loving him, yes he broke her trust and she hates him, angry, disappointed all emotions ragging on her but still love is their on both sides and that's what will bind them together. When love is so deep and they value themselves so much, relationship can't be end just like that. Why she didn't asked divorce then?? Because she can't.. love will over power every emotion and same love won't allow opposite person to forgive easily for their mistakes that's what pallavi going through now and top of it raghav isn't making easy for her, he don't leave any chance to get her forgiveness back.

Good she is trying to focus on herself otherwise anyone will go crap because of depression and pain but on back mind she always think of him.. As a wife I really get it what pallavi going through. No one easily won't give up their relationship or marriage just like that. It's hard but that's what a life is..

Fria - always do what you want and which makes you happy. Hope you doing good now..

aww Gayuuu 🤗 I am doing much better, thank you. At the time it really did feel like everyone was guilt tripping me, emotionally manipulating me into giving my ex another chance. That's why I can see why R asking or being determined to win P back comes off as emotional manipulation. P has a few people in her life telling her to resolve things with R without really knowing how she feels about it or what he really did. At the end of the day she's not conniving so she doesn't want to expose R nor does she want to expose her own marital issues. But I understand that eventually all of this will build on her and cause her to blow up if everything isn't already exposed before she gets to that point (which I think is going to happen - E will reveal everything before P has an outburst)

I think what's different though is that when I broke up with my ex, I was adamant about wanting nothing to do for him. I literally just felt no love for him by the time we broke up. I was THAT over it. His crying didn't affect me one bit. I was called cold because of that but it was just because I had no feelings left. I cared about him as a human being and I felt bad about what happened to our relationship but the love was gone. Which makes me think I was never actually in love with him in the first place lol.

I think Pallavi is not at that point though. She - like we both said - still has a lot of love for Raghav. It won't just go away so quickly, or at all. I think when real love is involved, it's a completely different story. There's much more at stake and I find when you do have that unconditional love - you can work through the pain, if you want to.

I know someone who was also betrayed in a similar way. Her man hurt her the most but he was also the one she wanted to hug when she felt like crap, who she wanted to hold her even though she was crying over him. They have come out on the other side. So that just goes to show how unconditional love can be and how persevering love can be if you're willing to make things work and you truly find yourself admitting that you'd rather have that person in your life than be without them.

At the end of the day R's actions now will determine what P decides to do. The truth will truly set them free but neither one of them know what it is yet. I really do think they're going to show that nothing happened. Its the only way they can finish the story neatly in the limited time that they have.

At the end of the day he hasn't been able to explain fully what had happened or he think had happened. He was given 2 sec and then stopped again so I do think Sharada & Ren were right about him being persistent about talking to P was also him wanting to clear what happened / "explain" himself. The other issue is he's used half sentences to describe what happened - "I got drunk" "I moved forward". That's not exactly what we saw on tv - so I hope they clear that up because right now P thinks he did it knowingly. He has yet to say "I thought she was you," which IMO is a big changing factor of the narrative.