Originally posted by: PSharada
No I don't think he will do it again. Raghav just couldn't face his fears and that was the reason why he hid the truth. Even now he asks her to promise that she will come back once her anger has reduced. It is not being insensitive - it is just him grasping at the last straws while drowning. But the way Pallavi told him of all her feelings he realized where he went wrong. Plus this time around I think he will get advice from both the mothers - aayi and amma and he will realize where he went wrong and how he can assure his wife of his love. Sometimes actions speak louder than words and Raghav needs to learn that and this advice will hopefully come from both his mothers. Earlier all Raghav always fought like a lone wolf - him and his battles. But now he will get advice and help from his Amma and his aayi and he will realize and learn how to be a support to his wife and how to open up in the relationship. I really hope Raghav tells Pallavi the real reason why he could never confess everything to Pallavi - It was because he always felt he was inadequate for such a pure hearted girl and he just did not want her to leave him because she realizes that she got the short end of the stick.
I am not talking about how he is feeling in the moment...in the moment he means everything..like how he promised her while she was leaving to kolhapur after the wedding..such awesome sounding promises. He also made efforts and started taking steps towards his goals with her..but once he gets to a stable state in his marraige he sidelines it.
You may be right in saying he will have both Amma Aai to advise him, but Sharada, marraige ultimately depends on the two partners. They may or may not get social advise but in this case responsibility is on both of them only. And I dont agree with Raghav being lone wolf as far as his marriage is concerned. Pallavi has been equally lonely, many times. Even now, she is not opening up to Aai /Amma not seeking solace with them or Ds, she is still carrying the pain within herself.,..I see her as very lonely right now. Its Pallavi who needs to learn to open up and stop protecting RR reputation of feelings of others.
Its Pallavi who taught Raghav to "open up", she is the first person he spoke to about his past and why Amma Keerti hated him, and its Pallavi who made them patch up. Raghav Pallavi are not just husband wife, they had soul connection to the extent it helped them understand and heal each other .So the idea that someone else needs to teach Raghav to open up to Pallavi , now, is very late in the game and shallow in my opinion. Pallavi is the first person he would normally open up to. IF it was not for this contrived plot.
@bold- IF at all Raghav feels that way, then its best he lets her go until he is able to become her equal partner and come up to her mark. She is pure hearted...no doubt. That should have made it impossible for him to sleep next to her without telling her the truths. Anyway..LWR pretty much addressed this with RR.