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Bigg Boss 19: Daily Discussion Thread - 3rd Oct 2025
If he walks away from her and doesn't ask for forgiveness, what would that make him? It would be weird if he didn't.
He's damned if does, damned if he doesn't.
Whatever he will do he is going to blame
They have made up their mind raghav is cheater and loves esha only
What an episode! And what top class performance!!! 👏
The very first scene in D house where Raghav and Pallavi were looking at each other and I was 💔😭.
Shivangi nailed it today and Sai complimented her so well.
These two don't even need any dialogues to enact the scenes.
(People on TT and IG please leave aside the critisism and give them the appreciation where it's due.)
I hope ITV makers realise that a well written scene, crisp dialogues and brilliant performance is all that the viewers need.
While I am mentally prepared to bid adieu to the show, but I have not had enough of the actors. Hope they grace our screens soon.
Originally posted by: Lonelythots
But jean, the point is pallavi has always been on high moral ground and after this even more higher moral ground, if she forgives him.. so what kind of marriage it actually is where raghav can never measure up to pallavi? There will always be a disbalance in relationship.. it aint a good marriage at all.. raghav and pallavi’s moral Compass is different. Raghav cannot change his ideals , concepts overnight?? This isnt just about ons or anything.. pallavi will continue having issues with his ideas and concepts… how is it any good for either of them? i know show is ending so no more tracks and its all a happy ending.. but the gist is that their marriage will never work because their core is different. He is just dark even without his insecurities to pallavi’s white!!!
You've answered my and your questions already!
I think they want to show that while these two might have never come together under normal circumstances, destiny did bring them together. They fell for each other despite all these differences and in all the chaos their love for each other is a stronger magnetic pull than anything else. So while they may have fights with each other, ultimately they will always fight to be with each other.
Their love story was never meant to be simple or easy, and the title track already warned us about this. These two have found something in each other that they never found anywhere else. He's fire and she's water, so as long as things don't balance each other out, too much fire will make the water evaporate and too much water will put the fire out.
It is for them to figure out if and how they can coexist. He's a realist and she's an idealist. It's not easy for someone like Pallavi to live with someone as volatile as Raghav while it's not easy for someone like him to live with a person who always has the moral high ground, that too mainly with him but not others like the Ds. This is why I find the writing brilliant in this show because of the way they set up this conflict. This relationship will always be imbalanced because of their characters, and this happens in real life too. One person always gives more, needs more, etc.
He can't change himself overnight but neither can she. While he can accept her as she is she cannot fully accept him in his default state until he changes certain things. Raghav understands this and will have to decide if he can be her Raghav. So to win her back and keep her in his life forever, Raghav will have to bend and give up those things, and we know he will because his love always tends to win out over his ego and insecurities. Yes, it may involve him losing a part of his identity but then it's also up to Pallavi to decide if she does indeed accept the new version of Raghav that he himself will create without compulsion. Or is it without compulsion? He says his love is powerful enough to win her over but if it's at the expense of losing a part of himself them there is indirect compulsion. If they are to be on even footing then both will have to let go certain things, which may not happen at all.
I think the message is that they are going to be together in spite of all this.
Originally posted by: PSharada
Both Sai and Shivangi complimented each other. That is what hurts me that this show could have easily gone on with decent tracks - The producer's OTT attachment to Ex ka tadka is making the show end prematurely.
I loved that Pallavi drew the reference to their hate marriage too - That is also a sore point in Raghav - Pallavi's journey. Granted they both are now in love and have overcome lot of hurdles but they need to communicate and address the previous things that have caused them immense pain. I am glad that today Pallavi gave a no-filter version of her hurt and her pain to Raghav and Raghav stood their and took everything in.
Tanhaayi was absolutely beautiful with both Sai and Shivangi portraying the emotions brilliantly. 3 more weeks to go - Can we just get a month extension please so that we can get the Krishna Rao track or Pallavi's past track and then I won't have this nagging feeling that Kash they had addressed these 2 issues too, this serial would have been perfect.
I hope you will pardon this reference but because of the way he forced her to marry him, Raghav's always had the Mr Bajaj complex. It has always been at the back of his mind and we saw some of that come through in the drunk scene after awards night.
Things had to explode at some point so that the next time they decided to come together it would be willingly on both sides and not because they were legally married. If we go with the arranged marriage patterns, then Raghav had no reason not to like having a wife like her. She isn't perfect but her intentions have always been good towards him. In her case, she got from him the home and family she always craved. Up until the diamond smuggling track, he had given her no reason to doubt his love and dedication, but then she realized that there was a part of him that didn't manage to open up to her. She may think it's because he doesn't trust her but I'm hoping they address why it's so hard for him to do so, and as others have said the extent to which he has been broken and messed up inside over the years.
Kaise mujhe tum mil gayi, is what he keeps wondering. He not only has to learn to accept that he has the right to be happy, i.e. that fate can deal him a good hand, but he also needs to understand that while this gift came unexpectedly into his life he needs to work to keep it close and treasure it by having faith in destiny instead of being afraid of loss all the time. I know it's easier said than done but then again we all know he needs therapy, which I doubt they will show. Amma and Ayi can guide him but he needs professional help.
I also wonder if they will ever address how Amma's injustice in forcing this marriage to happen has eventually led to this. She wanted Pallavi to be her son's wife so that his life could improve but did Pallavi's really improve?
Ironically the fact that Pallavi is actually able to go to D house as an actual mayka in such a difficult time, considering she was thrown out of there and ended up marrying him because of what followed, is in large part because of how being with Raghav helped her see the truth and learn to speak up, take a stand against Sanki. Raghav was also the reason why Sanki did eventually reconcile with Pallavi and has accepted her warmly, genuinely this time.
I know Raghav might never bring this up but I've always wondered to what extent her choosing to stay with the Raos was also about her self confidence improving where she felt she had a home of her own and also because the Raos were not the Ds. Of course that changed over time as she bonded with them but just like she chose to make the Ds her family after losing Mandar, she chose to make the Raos her family too. She could have stayed only legally married without putting anything into the relationship but she decided to put some effort into the marriage after deciding not to go to Kolhapur.
So much symbolism in the latest episode that I don't have words to describe adequately: the shot through the banyan tree as Raghav and Pallavi walked outside to talk, Raghav brought to his knees as he was no longer with his paison ka ghamand (since it won't help him in this situation), enveloped in darkness with only a street lamp to provide a bit of light (as in not all is lost), contrasted with Pallavi in the bright colorful room while she felt devoid of color, Pallavi finally taking a good look at herself in the mirror and breaking free of the kaanton ki bediyan that made her feel trapped in this relationship.
Pallavi's responses to D-fam were well worded. She had to run around and be the ideal bahu for this family until not so long ago and now she is able to tell them to her face that she will do what her heart desires instead of following what is expected of her. They in turn support her and genuinely want her to do so with a smile. How things have changed. The Pallavi who was thrown out without rights on this house and family and the Pallavi who has returned claiming her rights on them openly and boldly are two different people. She knows that she will never be the same again and she has no idea how to face Pallavi 2.0 herself, because it is a result of her life being connected to Raghav's.
As much as she might hate it, the fact is that falling in love with Raghav and being married to him has changed her. It awakened the spark in her that had been missing and had given her a taste of what it was like to be free. Now she realizes that even freedom comes at a cost, one that she may not necessarily want to bear. She had walked out of the D-house so many times with her head held high, holding Raghav's hand, yet she had ended up back in that very room, almost as if back to square one. Yet she wasn't quite the same person and her view of the world was very different. She was finally seeing the true colors of the world for the first time, as if awakened from a trance.
Once upon a time we saw a scene where both Pallavi and Raghav were trapped in a cage. The obvious reference initially was to Pallavi being trapped in her life at the Ds, but over time we discovered that Raghav was also caged in by his past and trauma. Right now, the D-house is no longer the cage it used to be for Pallavi, she is free to soar in the sky but her wings are wounded so she can't fly even if she wants to. Only Raghav can heal her but she won't let him near her, understandably.
She may have decided to stay at D-house now and call it her own but her heart is restless because of and without the man she fell in love with and considered her whole world. As much as Pallavi may want to soar alone, somewhere her heart would realize that she wants Raghav by her side during her flight. Except, he himself is wounded and unable to fly. In fact, Raghav, is still in that cage and only Pallavi can take him out (I'm guessing by dealing with Esha later on) and allow them both to breathe freely to start with, and then decide where and how they want to fly together.
It's a shame it came so late in the story but I'm still glad they are at least touching upon Pallavi's self-discovery moments. I won't say phase because it's all going to be rushed before wrapping up the show, but I'm glad they dedicated this episode to her expressing herself in whatever way she wanted to, whether it was to Raghav, to the Ds, or to herself.
Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...
Isko big boss ka tadka pasand nahi aaya lagta hain 🤣
I don't like big boss but that show is taking revenge on behalf of MHRW frustrated fans 😆
I want to ask Sicku...how does it feel when you are at receiving end?😳
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