Originally posted by: Lonelythots
But jean, the point is pallavi has always been on high moral ground and after this even more higher moral ground, if she forgives him.. so what kind of marriage it actually is where raghav can never measure up to pallavi? There will always be a disbalance in relationship.. it aint a good marriage at all.. raghav and pallavi’s moral Compass is different. Raghav cannot change his ideals , concepts overnight?? This isnt just about ons or anything.. pallavi will continue having issues with his ideas and concepts… how is it any good for either of them? i know show is ending so no more tracks and its all a happy ending.. but the gist is that their marriage will never work because their core is different. He is just dark even without his insecurities to pallavi’s white!!!
Sorry I'm going to butt in here to add another perspective -
There's always an imbalance in every relationship - this is why compromise is key to making a relationship work.
Raghav at his core is not dark. He's a mama's boy through and through. He's a don that doesn't kill, barely uses his gun, and had like a 95% legit business. Lol. He was never dark. He was jaded, traumatized, alone and abandoned, but never dark in that way that P would want to change anything else about him. The two things she asked for him to change were legit concerns that any spouse would have about their spouse. We don't have to accept the bare minimum just because we love someone. We can ask them to be better - its up to them whether they're willing to change. Raghav isn't some robot that follows all the whims of Pallavi. In the end he chose to change time and time again.
Pallavi has also shown time and time again how she's willing to bend her own principles for those she loves dearly, especially Raghav. She was always willing to move past R's shortcomings.
This is not so much an imbalanced relationship as it is an opposites attract type of relationship. It can work if both are willing to make it work.
Also, Raghav is the one that thinks he can't measure up to Pallavi. She has never thought that about him. In fact she's always held him on a pedestal while they've been in love. It's Raghav who constantly puts himself down. That's not a result of them being different people with different moral compasses. That's the result of him not facing & overcoming his trauma, guilt, and abandonment issues head on.
Edited by fria319 - 3 years ago
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