Originally posted by: fria319
I did too. They pinpointed exactly what he did to her and made her feel. It wasn't just "spending the night" with E. It was everything he did post that night. Yes and not just before Fria, she's always had to bear the slack. He always has insulted her, treated her as an outsider. I'm so glad that while yesterday they focussed on her pain on the ONS, today the focus was on the overall hurt and pain and how he broke her confidence and made her doubt herself.
She even said "If you had just told me.." implying that if he had come clean to her right away, they maybe would not be where they are now. Now it's too much. There was too much lying involved, too much unjustified anger that she had to deal with, too much broken confidence and self-esteem that she now has to piece back together, too much humiliation that she has to now face. You can see how difficult and huge this is for her to process when you see her walk aimlessly. How is she ever going to come to terms with this pain. I'm so happy she told him she can't be a shoulder to cry on anymore, he should handle his guilt on his own and let herself handle her own pain. Fria she has always ignored her own pain but been an emotional support to him. I'm happy to see her highlight this issue as well.
While he had his excuses (yes we all know big reason is writer's choice - everything is writer's choice - its a moot argument) for not being able to tell her - it just wasn't a good enough excuse for her. From her perspective, he lied to her, how much ever he tried, she got to know the truth accidently. I'm so glad she brought out the lying and told him she would be living a lie her entire life had she not heard the truth. Actually Raghav instead of making excuses that he tried to tell her the truth (which is not acceptable or logical to Pallavi) should have highlighted why he couldn't confess - his fears and insecurities. He is yet to break down the walls of his heart for her to see all his open wounds. He needs to show her the real, the raw and broken and scarred Raghav, may be then she would understand. While it is still not an excuse from Pallavi's perspective, it would have made sense for the viewer.
At the end of the day we "see" only "22 min" of "their day" - but if we think in the story world - they're living with each other 24/7. There were ample chances to come clean and she knows this so we can't even just consider the two (?) times he tried to tell her as being chances he lost. There were technically a lot more.
And I kind of hope she brings up what she said to Amruta, to Raghav. He should be made aware that the chance he's asking for now, isn't just one more chance, it's like the 3rd chance (at least) that she would be giving him. Yes I wanted them to address it, may be another time. Fria if you note, his reasons were more like stay with me, give me a chance even if you're angry. It felt more he was way to desperate to hold on to anything he would get at this moment. I wish he can think clearly and start to see how he can actually make amends. This is the worse pain of her life, she went ahead to take of the mangalsutra, whatever he does or plans to do may never be enough.
And yes would love to see a remarry or at least a renewal of vows type of scene.