Udariyaan | Episode Discussion Thread #38 - Page 38

Originally posted by: YoungHeart

Desi/South Asian women even from diaspora communities need to learn to stand their ground and make their own decision.

I have been in a relationship with my fiance for a while now. We wanted to live together before we got married. I was away from home and living alone for college/work but I had moved into my parent's for sometime. Me and my fiance decided we wanted to live in together. I just told my dad that I am moving out and moving in with my fiance so I just moved out of parents and moved in with him. He wasn't really thrilled about it and it did create some drama with my family... but he couldn't do much cuz I had made my decision. I am an adult, I am financially independent and I can make my own decision. After a point, he had to be okay even though i don't think he was too happy about it 😆 .. but it is what it is. But that is also possible cuz I live here in the US and parents here don't have much say even though there is the what will people say still very prevalent esp in south asian/immigrant communities. Back home, it would have been a different story i bet.

Live-in and all should be normalized in desi/south asian families. Couple should be allowed to see if they are compatible before they jump into marriage.

Truth.

I've seen marriages even love marriages fail because people are so incompatible.

As for India... Ehhh. Things are just,.. Doesn't matter how educated, how rich, well off, people are generally conservative. I remember a case where a woman married a guy against her family's wish and girl's family gave someone a contract of one crore for his murder.

Originally posted by: 08_maria

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And in udaariyaan fateh is ego maniac delusional manchild who has everything but still whines about his stupid one-sided love and is destroying himself in his ego to prove to his dad and tejo just how much he and jasso love each other can do everything for one another.

Just how many similarities

Sach keh raahi hu it's super hillarious.😂😂😂

My great grandmother ran away with her lover after 8 years of marriage and three kids.

My grandpas older brothers wives one died of a accident were a wild bull knocked her out and she fell in the well and died, the second brother's wife became mentally unstable for some unknown reason and died of schizophrenia.

My mother's husband that's my father was a abusive man and a cheater, my uncle that's my mother's older brothers wife is a toxic abusive women and second uncle's first wife turned out to be a drug addict his second wife is awesome and I hope kuch kand naa ho.🤣🤣🤣

My other cousins are at risk ek ki toh kahani baata do whose wife died of cancer others are good souls but sab kehta hain inn par bhi woh shrap mandra raaha hain cause they belong to the same family but I don't count as I don't have the same surname and have my father's genes as well where except my dad all had awesome happy marriages except my dad who was a loser.

It's hillarious I don't believe in it but my family and it's crazy marital stories make want to believe it aur sachi main blockbuster movie ban sakti hain.

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

My fam doesn't have these issues but still you can make a movie outta it. Desi families are funny that way.

Kya kaahu pura paagalkhaana hain.

My mom , grandparents ,my uncle's and my younger aunt are super awesome and super progressive par baaki khandaan pura paagalkhaana hain .

The entire village has this issue of failed marriages as the whole village has the Jadhav surname infact gaau ka naam bhi jadhavwadi hain .😂😂

Originally posted by: Darkqueen01

oh look at the similarities in tamasha ranbir's character ved was a delusional manchild who had everything but still whined about his passion for storytelling and didn't understand the simple concept that he can still tell stories on weekends and have his job as a safety net.

And in udaariyaan fateh is ego maniac delusional manchild who has everything but still whines about his stupid one-sided love and is destroying himself in his ego to prove to his dad and tejo just how much he and jasso love each other can do everything for one another.

Just how many similarities

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

🤣🤣🤣 your bua has completely lost it. In my family at least age 24-25 is normal for women. Ffs you're not even an adult. Put it on hold for at least a decade.

she's extremely entitled man and crazy. her own daughter hates her. She's more delusional than jassu devi and fateh fattu maharaj combined

Originally posted by: Shraddha6789

Sach keh raahi hu it's super hillarious.😂😂😂

My great grandmother ran away with her lover after 8 years of marriage and three kids.

My grandpas older brothers wives one died of a accident were a wild bull knocked her out and she fell in the well and died, the second brother's wife became mentally unstable for some unknown reason and died of schizophrenia.

My mother's husband that's my father was a abusive man and a cheater, my uncle that's my mother's older brothers wife is a toxic abusive women and second uncle's first wife turned out to be a drug addict his second wife is awesome and I hope kuch kand naa ho.🤣🤣🤣

My other cousins are at risk ek ki toh kahani baata do whose wife died of cancer others are good souls but sab kehta hain inn par bhi woh shrap mandra raaha hain cause they belong to the same family but I don't count as I don't have the same surname and have my father's genes as well where except my dad all had awesome happy marriages except my dad who was a loser.

It's hillarious I don't believe in it but my family and it's crazy marital stories make want to believe it aur sachi main blockbuster movie ban sakti hain.

Originally posted by: 08_maria

ye sunakar , aaj tune mera neend churaliya🤪

It's hillarious right everytime there is a immediate family get together this is a topic we laugh our heads out at .🤣🤣🤣

My family that's my mom and my uncle's and grandparents are surprisingly ok with if any of us opt for live-in relationships or don't want to ever get married.

Mera ko iss shrap.ka darr pai shakh hain I think it's cauz of that ki my family is ok with no marriage but yeah they are super progressive but baaki gaauwale are insane bunch of cartoons.😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Aniash

If u take it positively, he wants tejo to move on before fateh. He doesn't want to see jasmin getting her happiness before tejo . He wants tejo to get tied to someone else before fareh does.

Indirectly, a slap to jasfa.

Indirectly to make t on the winning side

The main reason

KSV wants tejo to be saved from the humiliation that will be thrown upon her by society after two broken marriages. People wont blame the man, they will blame the woman for the failure of the marriage. They live in that type of orthodox society.

The Father figures are protective for their daughters. KSV will defo give her hand to angad. He already know that the guy has the qualities to make her happy.

Just assume it this way. Doesnt want her to suffer alone. Doesnt want her to face society humiliation. Wants to relieve her from all sorrows by getting her married to the right person. During the dewali party, he already took notice that angad was the guy who could make her happy. T will never think of marrying him so that's why he put condition.

All fathers want daughters to settle with good men and be happy. That is exactly what he is trying to do. He is just being protective, thats all.

In our opinion, we feel that she should have a single journey for the time being till she is mentally and emotionally prepared for another guy but we also have to realise that she has to go through society humiliation after two broken marriages in a row. We know she is strong. But it's really not easy. Try putting ourselves in her shoes.

Life in village still differs from the city. Society mentality in village side differs from city though villages are developing now and going through modernisation.

For example, in city side, u can live in with a guy. People dont really care. In villages, not really. It will be made into a big issue.

Ladka ladki shadi sey pehle aek sath rehtey hain .

They will be blacklisted for living together before marriage.

Tejo lives in a village and she will have to face the taunts of the society. KSV's concern is right in it's place from the point of view of a father .

He wants her to move on with someone better .

But we the more open minded , don't want that. She should be prepared first.

I feel disgusted watching the precap. Give her a break , man. But KSV is right on his point of view as a protective father figure who wants to see daughter move on with a better person rather than sitting at a corner crying alone.

Let's hope angad keeps her happy

This makes a lot of sense.

There is another point: KSV was silent when the family was making excuses for fateh missing. Maybe he realises that if tejo is not married and jasfa fail, then the family ight pressurise tejo to get back with fateh, which would be worse.

Tejo being made Alia during the academy Diwali event , does it have any connection with the plot . Student of the year 1 , alia and varun relation wasn't good ryt , like he would go behind another girl while being in relationship with Alia. In the end Alia leaves varun and marries Siddharth who becomes a business tycoon just like Angad😆

This suddenly came to my mind , if it doesn't make sense ( as I think it isn't ) ignore it but mujhe mat maarna.