*~*TAZBU (SaiShi and RaghVi) AT 18*~* Ghar More Pardesiya - Page 34

Originally posted by: fria319

umm hmm now you're making me ponder about the episode LOL.

I think he's implying that R couldn't subconsciously go there - there was something stopping him from making that final step. It's not because of Esha or any residual feelings (he has none). It's because R thinks R doesn't deserve P - so why "taint" her in that way. Does that make sense?

He considers her as so pure - he can't ruin her with his impurity. (his insecurities and destructive behavior).

oh I just loved your analysis

It's just like a devil and angel love story. The devil surely doesn't want to taint the angel because of his own desires but he is also too selfish to let her go. He might not give her heaven but he will make sure that destructive flames of hell too doesn't touch her

Originally posted by: joliefemme

No if you're sloshed out of your senses you can't perform the act. For women they can be passive in the act but a man has to be active, that's how it works.

Yes it's clear nothing happened and hence it's easier to accept that. But I don't hold him accountable for sleeping on that bed. Esha went to sleep next to him. He was going towards the couch but fell down on the bed. Esha was in her senses and went to close the distance so I don't hold him accountable. Had it been any other GOOD person, nothing would have happened.

While you can't forgive him for sleeping on that bed (when esha wasn't even sleeping there), I would have even forgiven him a ONS in a drunken state if he was guilty and repents whole heartedly. May be I'm more tolerant than you and have no self respect, but that's just me.

I want to see P take a decision seeing his redemption before the whole truth is out. That would be something to see. She is a forgiving person and I don't think there's anything wrong in forgiving another person. No person is perfect but what makes people worth saving is the fact that they repent.

With forgiveness..my question is always....what stops the forgiven from repeating the same mistake again . That too this act could have gotten another lady pregnant , changed his life forever.

My personal experience( no not cheating etc) but with people is that the more I have forgiven , the more i have been exoected to have a larger heart next time. It just becomes a thing..."arre woh dil ki achhi hai, she is a good soul, she wont hold it against anyone for long" is what I got in return....which made me realize that my lunderstabding was misunderstood as a weak personality trait. Maybe I am jaded and have lost my ose tinted glasses.

But each to her own and good to hear your POV.

It will be nice to see RR make efforts and win her back, she choosing to give him another chance and then the reality coming out that it was a trap.

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

With forgiveness..my question is always....what stops the forgiven from repeating the same mistake again . That too this act could have gotten another lady pregnant , changed his life forever.

My personal experience( no not cheating etc) but with people is that the more I have forgiven , the more i have been exoected to have a larger heart next time. It just becomes a thing..."arre woh dil ki achhi hai, she is a good soul, she wont hold it against anyone for long" is what I got in return....which made me realize that my lunderstabding was misunderstood as a weak personality trait. Maybe I am jaded and have lost my ose tinted glasses.

But each to her own and good to hear your POV.

It will be nice to see RR make efforts and win her back, she choosing to give him another chance and then the reality coming out that it was a trap.

Yes it's all about experiences. I can understand your lower threshold due to some bad experiences. For me, I've had bad experiences as well but that doesn't stop me from being a forgiving person. See Shalini, imo, you can't control what the other person does, yes, what you can control is what you chose to do and how you live your life.

I've always been a more forgiving person by nature and I believe in giving second chances to people.

If you've watched the show from the start and have understood Raghav you'll realise how sorry he is and how big of a mistake he knows he committed. He waited a decade to get his mother and sister back. Do you think if Pallavi forgives him this time, he will stray (not using again coz he didn't stray with Esha)?

People are all differently wired and while you may believe in once a cheater always a cheater (if we were to assume he actively cheated on Pallavi, which we all know he didn't), I feel it is a generalization. It's not fair to see everyone with the same yardstick coz people and circumstances are different.

I know we both don't see eye to eye on this matter and I will gracefully bow out of the discussion now. I've discussed this topic multiple times (with you as well as others) and now while the show is ending, I want to indulge in discussions of how good Raghvi are together than justifying why I feel Raghav deserves a chance. Need to prioritise my time, hope you understand, it's nothing against you.

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Am yet to watch the episode will catch it tomorrow . ... I do have a fundamental question. Can a man do IT when passed out due to alcohol. Alcohol is anti aphrodisiac, it kills the very ability. Even if the woman tried, physically its not possible.

My take is yes he did not intercourse with her its impossible. But he stayed in the room and slept on the same bed....a married man slept on the same bed with another woman. Thats something I cannot fathom or forgive. The only hope is if the whiskey was drugged.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Yes it's all about experiences. I can understand your lower threshold due to some bad experiences. For me, I've had bad experiences as well but that doesn't stop me from being a forgiving person. See Shalini, imo, you can't control what the other person does, yes, what you can control is what you chose to do and how you live your life.

I've always been a more forgiving person by nature and I believe in giving second chances to people.

If you've watched the show from the start and have understood Raghav you'll realise how sorry he is and how big of a mistake he knows he committed. He waited a decade to get his mother and sister back. Do you think if Pallavi forgives him this time, he will stray (not using again coz he didn't stray with Esha)?

People are all differently wired and while you may believe in once a cheater always a cheater (if we were to assume he actively cheated on Pallavi, which we all know he didn't), I feel it is a generalization. It's not fair to see everyone with the same yardstick coz people and circumstances are different.

I know we both don't see eye to eye on this matter and I will gracefully bow out of the discussion now. I've discussed this topic multiple times (with you as well as others) and now while the show is ending, I want to indulge in discussions of how good Raghvi are together than justifying why I feel Raghav deserves a chance. Need to prioritise my time, hope you understand, it's nothing against you.

I myself have a very less tolerance level that's why I get angry and say things in anger but once I cool down I try to understand other person and talk it out instead of breaking relationship

Raghav will come out clean because that night nothing happened but majority have decided to tag him cheater and always believe that he cheats pallavi emotionally and physically both and whatever he try to repent they are going to tag him fake, emotional manipulator.

It is like he is doing everything everyday and every women with who he meets

Pallavi should not forgive raghav because he did hide things which is wrong but that doesn't mean raghav is worst person and husband. May be he is not best husband but he doesn't come under worst husband

What is worst husband I have seen in real life. What is actually cheating and how relationship break or how other spouse forgive and move on together and since got cheated that's also I have seen in real life and how wife get taken for granted same too

As you said it is better to watch episode and try to understand both character instead of justify anyone

If anyone have decided he is cheater and doesn't deserve chance and love esha and pallavi is rebound good for you believe that

Wow first time 👏

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Originally posted by: PSharada

Maybe but I would feel cheated if the love story that I was invested in for so long ends up being a tragedy. And so would common audience too. Plus there is No point if Pallavi had to remain a widow at the end. So hoping it is a happy ending and not a tragic ending since the title OST says about happiness the lovers get when they come into each other's lives as their better halves.

I used to feel that way too but this story turned out to be nothing like what we expected. The writing went off on a tangent ages ago.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Wow first time 👏

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Show off air karne ke baad is sab ka kya tuk banta hai?

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Show off air karne ke baad is sab ka kya tuk banta hai?

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Originally posted by: fria319

I just watched the precap like 5x to catch the details. Are they both barefoot?!?!

I think this might be when he's sitting outside/sleeping out there and Pallavi asking him to get out and stop his drama because she won't forgive him.

One thing I'm sure of now. Sandip deliberately ruined RR and the story and the shattering of RaghVi text on screen (cringe) was like the ultimate trolling. You audience wanted RaghVi, well see what I do now!