*~*TAZBU (SaiShi and RaghVi) AT 18*~* Ghar More Pardesiya - Page 31

since we're all sharing songs/lyrics -

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WiinVuzh4DA&ab_channel=BillieEilish-Topic - for the next episode.

"It's not true

Tell me I've been lied to

Cryin' isn't like you

Ooh

What the hell did I do?

...

I wish we never learned to fly

Maybe we should just try

To tell ourselves a good lie

I didn't mean to make you cry

Maybe won't you take it back?

Say you were tryna make me laugh

And nothin' has to change today

We fall apart as it gets dark

I'm in your arms in Central Park

There's nothin' you could do or say

I can't escape the way I love you

I don't want to, but I love you "

Originally posted by: rubys07

I'm still reeling from the episode but just something about the precap:

Purely desi reference, have you seen how people at the signal often beg and follow a car until it almost runs them over, not paying any heed to any of their pleas? Those who don't know, it's similar to that scene from Keerthi-Sunny-Mandar accident track where a little girl gets hurt and RaghVi rush to help her.

Raghav in the precap reminded me of that. Ditto. The way this guy is desperate for her attention, desperate for her to talk to him and is actually begging and groveling so she would listen to him just once and give him a last, last, last chance. Coat gone, hair disheveled, with the look and appearance of a madman who's forgotten the sense of the world around him because he broke her, he broke her beyond repair and he doesn't know what to do. Oh how the mighty Raghav Rao has fallen.

I'm so glad they brought out the truth today. It means they want to do the redemption track right, and boy, MHRW writers SLAY with their redemption tracks. I know this track is going to torment me like anything. Just looking at the precap, I know I'm going to be absolutely heartbroken over this Raghav who hurt the one person he never wanted to hurt, this Raghav who now knows he is doomed for an eternity and is woken up from his beautiful dream to this nightmare without Pallavi. I'm going to cry rivers over this shattered Pallavi with nothing else to hold onto and no one else to make her feel she finally belongs.

Shayaad itni shiddat se pyaar chahti thi, ke bhagwaan ne bhi na dene ki kasam khaa li thi💔

Man oh man.

Yup Precap was heart breaking. Pallavi changing into her normal sarees - leaving her PRR look and Raghav running behind her to manao her. Raghav crying and his puffy eyes, He knows he has screwed up but he just doesn't know what to do or how not to live without his Pallavi.

Sigh that is the problem with the force of nature kind of people. When they know they have erred they move mountains until they gain back the forgiveness. I can't wait for the tadap of Raghav and heart breaking scenes of Pallavi crying - Sigh my babies, this thing had to burn because both were putting up with too much emotional baggage. The old wounds have to be torn open raw so that they can heal and Raghav and Pallavi can truly become one and be happy together.

Originally posted by: fria319

hehhe another one I recommended in the past 🤗 But I don't remember if it was for P only or P+R. Regardless, I love this song.

This song has my heart. I've decided after listening to multiple first dance songs, this is THE ONE. All of me came in close competition but it's more common that you'd think

Originally posted by: rubys07

I'm still reeling from the episode but just something about the precap:

Purely desi reference, have you seen how people at the signal often beg and follow a car until it almost runs them over, not paying any heed to any of their pleas? Those who don't know, it's similar to that scene from Keerthi-Sunny-Mandar accident track where a little girl gets hurt and RaghVi rush to help her.

Raghav in the precap reminded me of that. Ditto. The way this guy is desperate for her attention, desperate for her to talk to him and is actually begging and groveling so she would listen to him just once and give him a last, last, last chance. Coat gone, hair disheveled, with the look and appearance of a madman who's forgotten the sense of the world around him because he broke her, he broke her beyond repair and he doesn't know what to do. Oh how the mighty Raghav Rao has fallen.

I'm so glad they brought out the truth today. It means they want to do the redemption track right, and boy, MHRW writers SLAY with their redemption tracks. I know this track is going to torment me like anything. Just looking at the precap, I know I'm going to be absolutely heartbroken over this Raghav who hurt the one person he never wanted to hurt, this Raghav who now knows he is doomed for an eternity and is woken up from his beautiful dream to this nightmare without Pallavi. I'm going to cry rivers over this shattered Pallavi with nothing else to hold onto and no one else to make her feel she finally belongs.

Shayaad itni shiddat se pyaar chahti thi, ke bhagwaan ne bhi na dene ki kasam khaa li thi💔

Man oh man.

Oh shit now that you make the reference to begging. He's doing that isn't he? He will beg gulp his self-respect coz he knows he needs her in his life. She's a dream he had NEVER dreamt of. Takes me back to the scene outside D house. That was another beautiful scene. Ru was he barefoot in this precap scene? I thought he was but I couldn't make out coz he was walking too fast. But yes ti the disheveled look, to the desperation, to the pain and the guilt to see her broken beyond repair.

This is the angst I dig. It's going to be painfully beautiful ❤️

Originally posted by: PSharada

Aww - it is nothing re. It is just what I feel and my experience. Trust me even in love marriage with no baggage it takes some time for the spouses to discard the lover image and be themselves. If you remember Saathiya(the Rani Mukherjee - Vivek Oberoi movie which was remake of Mani Ratnam Movie with R.Madhavan) when the lovers were dating, the guy is so okay waiting for the lover to come meet him for 5 mins. But after marriage he gets irritated if the wife comes late 5 mins.

And here toh Raghav is carrying so much baggage. Raghav is still in the lover mode/face - he just is not able to show his scars to his love Pallavi.

Exactly Sharada. This goes back to so many of the things we've been discussing earlier. People keep complaining why Raghav doesn't open up to Pallavi and just tell the truth etc etc. It's not that easy. In real life, it's even harder, even if you're completely in love with your partner and trust them fully. We all tend to enter relationships with our own baggage- some are easier to leave behind and some, not. What LWR said makes so much sense: when people have as many demons as RR, they become selfish because they're afraid to unleash it all and show all their scars to their partners because of their fears: what if their partner realizes they're, after all, not really worthy? That their partners are better off without them? But like LWR suggested, you have to give your partner that choice because it's their right. It's extremely, extremely hard to overcome that fear but the liberation that follows afterwards is worth it.

Originally posted by: rubys07

I'm still reeling from the episode but just something about the precap:

Purely desi reference, have you seen how people at the signal often beg and follow a car until it almost runs them over, not paying any heed to any of their pleas? Those who don't know, it's similar to that scene from Keerthi-Sunny-Mandar accident track where a little girl gets hurt and RaghVi rush to help her.

Raghav in the precap reminded me of that. Ditto. The way this guy is desperate for her attention, desperate for her to talk to him and is actually begging and groveling so she would listen to him just once and give him a last, last, last chance. Coat gone, hair disheveled, with the look and appearance of a madman who's forgotten the sense of the world around him because he broke her, he broke her beyond repair and he doesn't know what to do. Oh how the mighty Raghav Rao has fallen.

I'm so glad they brought out the truth today. It means they want to do the redemption track right, and boy, MHRW writers SLAY with their redemption tracks. I know this track is going to torment me like anything. Just looking at the precap, I know I'm going to be absolutely heartbroken over this Raghav who hurt the one person he never wanted to hurt, this Raghav who now knows he is doomed for an eternity and is woken up from his beautiful dream to this nightmare without Pallavi. I'm going to cry rivers over this shattered Pallavi with nothing else to hold onto and no one else to make her feel she finally belongs.

Shayaad itni shiddat se pyaar chahti thi, ke bhagwaan ne bhi na dene ki kasam khaa li thi💔

Man oh man.

1000%

I'm waiting to see the transition between P actually finding out - going to her room, changing, and actually walking out of RR mansion. Will R stop her right there? Will he wallow and then run after her? Sans shoes too? Will Amma + K witness everything? WIll they be kept in the dark? There will definitely be something that happens between the end of today's episodes and the precap.

I'm going to be heartbroken for Raghav, but he needs to go through this to truly learn and move on from his guilt + insecurities. Pallavi - gosh - if R's heartbroken, P will just crumble under the weight of this truth. In one moment, she will feel as if she lost everything. Especially after all of what she said during the press conference. It's like someone pulled the rug from underneath her, so much anxiety, so much betrayal, so much hurt, it will hit her all at once.

I REALLY hope they do it justice and don't just focus on Raghav's guilt. I want to see Pallavi thinking and being upset on her own too - not just when she's confronting Raghav. I want to see Pallavi remember everything just like they show Raghav doing.

Give me all the rhona dhona.

Originally posted by: Trina2021

Yeah definitely but that also means that he doesn’t have the slightest idea about being a victim here as we thought is the case right ? Now it’s upto Siku expose the truth to us but going by today’s Precap and bts pics I feel it’s Pals whos going to prove him innocent here as well . Bcoz Pals thinks very strong about these things and she won’t accept him unless she finds out about him either being violated or trapped by Easha & her ex . Well in any case loving the episodes since yesterday

See Trina, we as an audience knows he's being trapped. The truth needs to still come out clearly. The makers made it too sketchy by trying to show E as positive but when she closed in on a drunk Raghav, she no longer remained positive. She voilated him that night. They are going to show nothing happened and Esha lied, coz that's the easiest way out.

And yes, Pallavi will figure out just the same way she figured K wasnt driving the car that night, she's way too sharp and R is way too extreme to think clearly. This will happen only after the redemption because they need to show his redemption first.

Also, I agree P thinks strongly about such things and her immediate reaction to leave the house makes total sense to me. However, if you think about it, she didn't give the diamonds to the police in the earlier track and she gave up her morals to save Raghav. She will bend her rules for her family and so I wouldn't put it past her to eventually forgive Raghav even a ONS which was a drunken mistake (though I know kuch nai hua tha).

Pallavi is an emancipated woman and staying back in a marriage like this when the spouse is repenting so badly doesn't make one a doormat or without self respect. I'm all for second changes and Raghav deserves one after a lot of groveling and naak ragding.

Originally posted by: rubys07

Exactly Sharada. This goes back to so many of the things we've been discussing earlier. People keep complaining why Raghav doesn't open up to Pallavi and just tell the truth etc etc. It's not that easy. In real life, it's even harder, even if you're completely in love with your partner and trust them fully. We all tend to enter relationships with our own baggage- some are easier to leave behind and some, not. What LWR said makes so much sense: when people have as many demons as RR, they become selfish because they're afraid to unleash it all and show all their scars to their partners because of their fears: what if their partner realizes they're, after all, not really worthy? That their partners are better off without them? But like LWR suggested, you have to give your partner that choice because it's their right. It's extremely, extremely hard to overcome that fear but the liberation that follows afterwards is worth it.

I liked what LWR said about being selfish. I mentioned that several times (THEY'RE WATCHING US) ...

It's always been understood that R has insecurities and he will default to certain ingrained behavior patterns but at the end of the day, it's selfish what he did these past few weeks. He told himself that it was to spare Pallavi, but it was really to spare himself. He has been selfish about his love. As much as he loves Pallavi, he can't ever assure her of his love for her. He's the one constantly asking for reassurance and keeps taking and taking from her, yet has given less than in return. You can't just have feelings for a person, you have to be able to act on those feelings - you have to be able to fulfill that love - that means putting the needs of the other above your own.

He's come up short recently. But now, it's his chance to do so & right all the wrongs.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Oh shit now that you make the reference to begging. He's doing that isn't he? He will beg gulp his self-respect coz he knows he needs her in his life. She's a dream he had NEVER dreamt of. Takes me back to the scene outside D house. That was another beautiful scene. Ru was he barefoot in this precap scene? I thought he was but I couldn't make out coz he was walking too fast. But yes ti the disheveled look, to the desperation, to the pain and the guilt to see her broken beyond repair.

This is the angst I dig. It's going to be painfully beautiful ❤️

YES Ren. Shoes gone. This guy is running after her barefoot, no physical pain matters to him anymore. I'm so in for the angst and the pain re. I will come here every day and bawl like a teenager and totally embarrass myself but I'm so excited for it. This is going PERFECT.

Fria, I think they'll have Pallavi pondering over this on her own too. That bts from earlier with Ya Rabba song might be her thinking about everything.

I wish Sickand could see JUST HOW MUCH people love and dig his original ideas without TRP race ka unnecessary tadka. The guy gets so much hate when the track goes south but I wonder if that many people share it with him when they have positive things to say about the show. He has so much potential, IDK why he even tries to sully it with typical ITV trash.

Originally posted by: rubys07

Exactly Sharada. This goes back to so many of the things we've been discussing earlier. People keep complaining why Raghav doesn't open up to Pallavi and just tell the truth etc etc. It's not that easy. In real life, it's even harder, even if you're completely in love with your partner and trust them fully. We all tend to enter relationships with our own baggage- some are easier to leave behind and some, not. What LWR said makes so much sense: when people have as many demons as RR, they become selfish because they're afraid to unleash it all and show all their scars to their partners because of their fears: what if their partner realizes they're, after all, not really worthy? That their partners are better off without them? But like LWR suggested, you have to give your partner that choice because it's their right. It's extremely, extremely hard to overcome that fear but the liberation that follows afterwards is worth it.

Ru, lwr was so on point today.

Aren't we all afraid to share our deepest darkest truths with people. Is it easy to come clean and let go off the fear of judgement and letting go our insecurities.

With hardly any baggage if I can find it difficult to be fully trusting and opening up, I can understand why Raghav who was abandoned as a child would be this insecure and fearful.

He has always felt the lesser one in the marriage (she's an angel and deserves better than him) and it's not easy in such a situation to open up. I'm so glad he's going to be liberated with the truth out before Pallavi. When he repents he's going to mean it, it's going to be for them, when she forgives him, I hope his guilt goes. It's not easy to bear guilt all your life. It breaks you and you'll never be whole.

I'm so glad we have flawed characters like Raghvi which make it easy to connect with their pain and their lonliness. Main kaise nai pyar karun in dono se. They are so freaking adorbs.