Ambitious and not rude.... Is it that hard?

There already a beautiful discussion going created by lovereading14

Aarohi vs Akshara - why one has more substance than the other!

But the after reading all the comments, I have a question

Why is that ITV portrays that a person who is ambitious is definitely going to be rude to others.

Arohi if shown as an ambitious, short-tempered girl would have been enough.. but they are already trying to make her a almost vamp now itself by making her rude. She is shown as inconsiderate of others feelings.

Someone rightly pointed out that a character like Akshu is not really going to survive in this dog eat dog world... But in reality I have met characters like Akshu, the self-sacrificing, forgiving and all around do-good person. But I have also met Ambitious people and many many short tempered people, they have managed to be not rude. Why is it that the writers can not write these characters fairly.

By pairing ambitious nature with many bad qualities.. that too this frequently... discouraging people to be ambitious.

Of course.. I am not saying that ITV is having that big of a effect.. But these messages are more subtle... they affect in a subconscious level. Media have that kind of power. So anytime they her themselves being described as ambitious, subconsciously they get confused if it is a good thing or a bad thing.

For a long time, LGBTQ+ community faced these problems. The media made their existence into a comedy or something shameful. But after more proper representation the stigma diluted.

Same way the Ambitious people, atheists , short-tempered people etc should be fairly represented

What do you guys think?

Just my opinion...Arohi is a topper but I don't think she is ambitious because she is obsessed with being #1, I am yet to see a scene where she speaks about starting her job as a doctor or something in this regards, she is obsessed with #1 and that's the only thing she likes about Abhimanyu

Is she even thinking about her career? I saw Akshara in a job interview while Arohi is after Abhimanyu 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I don't think she is rude, she is rather good person and is nice to everyone except Akshara which is understandable given their past

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Just my opinion...Arohi is a topper but I don't think she is ambitious because she is obsessed with being #1, I am yet to see a scene where she speaks about starting her job as a doctor or something in this regards, she is obsessed with #1 and that's the only thing she likes about Abhimanyu

Is she even thinking about her career? I saw Akshara in a job interview while Arohi is after Abhimanyu 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I don't think she is rude, she is rather good person and is nice to everyone except Akshara which is understandable given their past

Even when kairav asked about her starting a job she didn't tell anything straight. She thought about Abhimanyu and told let's talk later. Unlike Akshu who actually did something to start a career.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Just my opinion...Arohi is a topper but I don't think she is ambitious because she is obsessed with being #1, I am yet to see a scene where she speaks about starting her job as a doctor or something in this regards, she is obsessed with #1 and that's the only thing she likes about Abhimanyu

Is she even thinking about her career? I saw Akshara in a job interview while Arohi is after Abhimanyu 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I don't think she is rude, she is rather good person and is nice to everyone except Akshara which is understandable given their past

Ambitious doesn't mean career oriented. Aarohi's ambition is to be number 1.

Originally posted by: Ruhi.007

Ambitious doesn't mean career oriented. Aarohi's ambition is to be number 1.

That means even akshu is ambitious. She wants to help people by working in an Ngo or is it not considered as an ambition.

Originally posted by: hari15

That means even akshu is ambitious. She wants to help people by working in an Ngo or is it not considered as an ambition.

Yet to see Akshu s drive for anything other than making peace with her sister but here's to hope 🤞

I feel Jin logo mein jeetne ka Nasha hota hai in logo so sey kabhi bhi haar bardashat Nahi hoti.. so as aarohi is

Rabindernath Tagore said

“It is very simple to be happy, but it is very difficult to be simple”

Akshra Define this quote

Let’s see what happens koi na koi villain toh hoga hi sab happy happy toh Nahi ho sakta .. lakin ek baat ki gurantee akshu and arohi ka takrav jaari rahega Even if abhira gets married she will take revenge chahe Phir chota Bhai hi kyu na fasana padhey 😃😃

Originally posted by: Ruhi.007

Ambitious doesn't mean career oriented. Aarohi's ambition is to be number 1.

Her ambition is to be #1 but where? I am sorry but I don't see the drive in her, After her result, she is only after Abhimanyu because he was #1

Can you tell me the scene where you noticed her zeal to be #1?

As I said, I don't think she is ambitious, I would have preferred if it was a character trait but its not

I don't see her as a vamp or a bad person

Originally posted by: hari15

Even when kairav asked about her starting a job she didn't tell anything straight. She thought about Abhimanyu and told let's talk later. Unlike Akshu who actually did something to start a career.

I guess they just added that she is a topper so everyone took it for her being ambitious when I don't see any scene which reflects towards it. Most of her scenes depict her issues with Akshara and some scene shows that she is attracted towards Abhimanyu, there has been no scene where it was about Arohi for me to actually take a note of it.

But again, its hardly been one week and we don't know these characters right now other than their basic information

Arohi is not passionate about being a doctor and helping people.