*~*TAZBU (SaiShi and RaghVi) AT 17*~* Meri Duniyaa - Page 91

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

Sorry to intrude , but Pallavi slept with Mandaar and hide it from Raghav ? When ? Raghav prioritising woman he slept with over his wife is really not done , I don’t know why people are being constantly called out for not being happy about it here ?

Also Pallavi got to know about Esha’s feelings recently, Raghav knows it from start yet doesn’t maintain distance.

Mandar told Pallavi that he wanted her, his wife back, a few times until Raghav clarified the legal angle. Then he did things indirectly from that point on. What else does wanting your wife back mean? Just keeping her as a showpiece? Nope, and that's why Pallavi was worried about the legality of her second marriage until it as clarified. So she kept on helping Mandaar and only when Raghav was angry, upset, etc did she back off. Otherwise, she would have continued to support him and prioritize him, knowing that he wanted to stop her going with Raghav from day 1.

So when Mandar pretended to back off, did his feelings automatically disappear or switch off? Even if he hadn't been evil and had feelings for Pallavi, what's wrong with that? Loving is not the problem as long as you don't act on it and try to break a marriage. As others have said here, Esha's feelings in themselves are not problematic at all. It's because is these feelings that she sacrificed for Raghav to protect him. He would have been dead otherwise. He had every reason to hate Esha until he found out the truth about why she left him. However, Esha has no reason to stop loving him. In fact, after her sacrifice, even if the two hadn't crossed paths, I'd expect that she might have continued loving him till her last breath, a la Veer Zara.

Also I agree with others that just because a friend is in one-sided love with you doesn't mean you stop interacting with them. That's not the default reason for breaking off the friendship. The other person can feel whatever they want but ultimately it's for you to decide what kind of interaction you want with them, including friendship.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I know Sharada I understand Raghav too. I hate it when people keep saying Raghav slept with his ex when that's clearly not the case. It was shown explicitly that he was sloshed and Esha closed in on the distance. He was a victim. I also blame Raghav for hiding the truth, I understand his reasons but don't condone them. I feel badly for him because he's being emotionally manipulated the same way Pallavi was. I'm waiting to see Pallavi slap him and walk out and Raghav do a hefty penance to gain back her trust.

Unfortunately being a man, he's not considered as a victim whereas in the same situation Pallavi would be sympathised with. I was one of those but hapc made a post about Raghav being a victim and I actually realised how wrong I was. These gender biases unfortunately do cloud our judgement and hence I've refrained from seeing this from the lens of genders.

+ A million.

I see we are back to square one with trying to explain this perspective. 😆

Originally posted by: PSharada

Raghav did lot of mistakes that night and the biggest one was drinking too much. But he did not willingly sleep with Esha. The fandom saying that he slept with Esha is wrong because he did not consent to that - he was taken advantage of by Esha who was in her senses.

Raghav may not know she took advantage but the audience does. It was pretty clearly shown for a reason so for people to still say that he slept with her is beyond me. Some people won't budge from that so what can you do? A lot of people are commenting without watching the episode or the scenes, missing the context and the details, which makes it worse.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Emotional blackmail to get Pallavi back? Wow. That man will literally kill himself in guilt. Haven't you see how he has repented to get his mother n sister back. We should wait to see what made him do that walk. Also if you notice Pallavi isn't there to see so what blackmail? Esha being there is important so she is out of her delusions. She needs to realise Raghav loves Pallavi ab bolne se nai samaj rahi iss se hi samaj le.

Thanks for writing this. People are jumping to conclusions without watching the scene. They'd pronounce him guilty without a trial, so I'm not surprised about this.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Fria I understand and respect your opinions and they are right to an extent. Here it all falls down to your own tolerance levels.

I am someone who drinks casually a lot and know from past experiences what being drunk out of senses can do to you (been there done that several times). But when you are surrounded by people who are good, nothing untoward will happen (I'm not saying you should be irresponsible).

So he made mistakes but I don't feel it was over the top or super wrong to drink with an ex. She was his friend and he trusted her. Again, my tolerance levels are high and I would probably trust my spouse to stay within limits even if he had to share a room with an ex during riots. I agree there were lots of red flags which born smart Raghav blatantly ignored but despite that I don't hold him fully accountable. I know it's unfair to Pallavi and for that I want him to naak ragdo till he gets to realise his mistakes.

Again, like I told earlier, I was discussing with Soni and probably I would have forgiven my partner for a ONS in similar circumstances (drunk out of senses and hallucinates,, super guilty who came clean to me). It would take time to forget but I think I would just because I can see the guilt and the genuine repentance. Yes I don't have any self-respect and no I don't care being judged.

Sorry for barging in. I just wanted to add that for someone used to drinking so much and so often, going cold turkey is really hard. The temptation of "just one more drink" is real, just like smokers trying to quit but tempted by one last cigarette. Addiction isn't a piece of cake at all.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Thanks 🤗

I try 😳.

You know I'm going to be labelled as a Raghav solo soon, mereko feeling aa rahi hai coz half of these people have not seen me passionately fight defending Pallavi in the Mandar track.

I have been an open Raghav fan from day one but I also liked Pallavi a lot from day 1. I couldn't connect to her character from the Mandar track on but have still remained neutral to her. Sure, she did some things in that track that many people didn't like but I didn't know why people bashed her and went overboard. I am the one who wrote a post on MF respectfully asking that we cut her some slack and I defended her frozen reaction pretty strongly when people bashed her for the saree pleat scene. Either people haven't seen those either or conveniently forget.

Loving Raghav doesn't mean a person has to hate Pallavi or vice versa. One can be neutral to characters too, but apparently even neutrality is not acceptable. The show is about to end but the bashing isn't.

As for people labeling you a solo stan, just take a leaf out of Raghav 1.0's book and don't care what the world says. 🤗

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Arre don't even get me started on it. Sach kahu it's highly illogical they waited so long.

I'm so so salty about this unwanted tadka. Abhi the issue is the anticipation is so much ki I'm afraid they'll fall short of my expectations. Ufff...

I won't be surprised if they mention in passing that they did it already, many times. 🤣

Seems like Shivangi is doing an interview with Raj Bhandhan of UK at 9pm. This guy is really good. Hope he asks good questions.

Most probably there is only 10 days of shooting left as Nov 12th is last day of shooting. This week we won't get trps as it is Diwali week and next week we might get a good bump in numbers. I don't think SP will give any extension unless the new show takes time to get their shooting started.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Thanks for writing this. People are jumping to conclusions without watching the scene. They'd pronounce him guilty without a trial, so I'm not surprised about this.

Yes people are either not watching or watching with tinted glasses because they can't see that R isn't at fault here for the ONS. All other things are understandable and can be forgiven if he truly repents.

In my opinion (I maybe wrong), it's to avenge the bashing P received in the Mandar track but boy the show is ending but the hatred and judgement isn't.

Originally posted by: PSharada

Seems like Shivangi is doing an interview with Raj Bhandhan of UK at 9pm. This guy is really good. Hope he asks good questions.

Most probably there is only 10 days of shooting left as Nov 12th is last day of shooting. This week we won't get trps as it is Diwali week and next week we might get a good bump in numbers. I don't think SP will give any extension unless the new show takes time to get their shooting started.

Don't they only have 1 week bank? Or are they shooting overtime to go back to the two weeks bank? Cost-cutting I guess.