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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

To be honest I find Sai in this whole celebration track insensitive and a hypocrit..She did not want to celebrate her marriage with her husband because of what that marriage entails...Okay justified...valid reason...Why does she want Aai to be happy in a celebration where her husband has clearly told he is not interested and doing it for other family members and not for Aswhini..Ashwini would be treated the same way...How can Aai be happy when her marriage is not seen as a marriage by her husband himself??

Exactly. She is coming across as trying to be a saviour and Miss. Fix-it-all. It's irritating. She knows the pain of celebrating a false relationship...and yet she comes up with this ridiculous plan. That's insensitive and hypocritical. She knows everything? Can fix everything because she is superwoman? I saw a clip yesterday where she makes a promise of healing NiNi relationship. She is already on her next project... 😳

I kinda agree but not fully. Ashwini was happy about the idea of celebration. She had hope....

And Ashwini told Sai that there was love between her n Ninad too but it was lost over time

And unlike her 1 year marriage which was based on a foundation of "deal" and was only born out of the circumstances of her father death, Ashwini ninad was an arranged marriage , bk chose ashwini as bahu. And aai has nibahoed this marriage for 37 years with a child born as a consequence of the wedlock too so something has kept her there. In virats chikdhood, it may have been virat but now she still stays.

She still speaks in a hopeful way.

Sai's initial priority more than anniversary was to make ninad see the errors of his behavior.

But thats why I agree that virat n Ssi need not do all this tasm jhaam of a celebration for what ninad has publicly claimed a farce of a relationship. They need not be putting up skits n expecting 30 years of issues to solve like this in one celebration.

Honestly i feel like if this was Sais mother, she'd said - get divorced n leave and gone with her. But she knows that aai/virat are hoping for a reconciliation so this is more for their sake.

So while Sai should definitely relate to the pain of nibhaoing a farce of a relationship, i feel like Aai herself would not appreciate if Sai took the stance of asking Ashwini to leave CN n Ninad with her dignity intact. So in this situation she is trying to support aai the way she wants to be supported.

Ashwini despite all that has happened had hope that this celebration even though based on virats insistence would be a fresh start. She still loves ninad. Tragic.

Sai and Aais situation is not entirely the same although theres similarities in terms of pain of a 3rd person angle.

Originally posted by: Nja91

I kinda agree but not fully. Ashwini was happy about the idea of celebration. She had hope....

And Ashwini told Sai that there was love between her n Ninad too but it was lost over time

And unlike her 1 year marriage which was based on a foundation of "deal" and was only born out of the circumstances of her father death, Ashwini ninad was an arranged marriage , bk chose ashwini as bahu. Anf aai has nibahoed this marriage for 37 years so something has kept her there. In virats chikdhood, it may have been virat but now she still stays.

She still speaks in a hopeful way.

Sai's initial priority more than anniversary was to make ninad see the errors of his behavior.

But thats why I agree that virat n Ssi need not do all this tasm jhaam of a celebration for what ninad has publicly claimed a farce of a relationship. They need not be putting up skits n expecting 30 years of issues to solve like this in one celebration.

Honestly i feel like if this was Sais mother, she'd said - get divorced n leave and gone with her. But she knows that aai/virat are hoping for a reconciliation so this is more for their sake.

Oh may be because I have not seen the episodes, I assumed that... But still Ninad has been absolutely inhuman towards Ashwini...And he did say he never wanted to marry, where does this whole love thing came into picture.

Asheini told Sai that there was love. He used to write to her from his postings, care for her etc etc...

Edited my previous post to add a little bit too..

Ya. as usual mindless copy paste by makers. Its so frustrating.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

To be honest I find Sai in this whole celebration track insensitive and a hypocrit..She did not want to celebrate her marriage with her husband because of what that marriage entails...Okay justified...valid reason...Why does she want Aai to be happy in a celebration where her husband has clearly told he is not interested and doing it for other family members and not for Aswhini..Ashwini would be treated the same way...How can Aai be happy when her marriage is not seen as a marriage by her husband himself??

Arre haa! Ye toh ulta hi ho gaya. You are right

Originally posted by: Nja91

Asheini told Sai that there was love. He used to write to her from his postings, care for her etc etc...

Edited my previous post to add a little bit too..

Oh ok. I had not seen the episodes, just some clips ..

I think they are going to copy KD...where Ninad and Ashwini have a genuine MU...because of Bhavani interfering. So Ninad and Ashwini would have loved each other at one point but they had a fallout over Bhavani. Bless the writers then - for showing Ninad as a complete AH and then reduce NiNi relationship as just MU. 😳

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Arre haa! Ye toh ulta hi ho gaya. You are right

I think Aswhini told Sai there was love in that relationship.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Oh ok. I had not seen the episodes, just some clips ..

I think they are going to copy KD...where Ninad and Ashwini have a genuine MU...because of Bhavani interfering. So Ninad and Ashwini would have loved each other at one point but they had a fallout over Bhavani. Bless the writers then - for showing Ninad as a complete AH and then reduce NiNi relationship as just MU. 😳

Ninad has treated Aswhini like a slave, irrespective of MUs and insecurity's no human deserve it...He has not even treated her like a fellow human being.

@bold Me and you both are jumping guns without watching the episodes...😆

The scale of this celebration, the unnecessary forcing to make it larhe scale, grand when it is not coming from a happy place for NiNi is definitely insensitive .

But the Sairat relationship, 1 year anniversary, the foundation of their marriage n the distinct difference in pp truly bring virats ex love is not entirely the same thing as NiNi marriage issues. There are definitely similarities with the 3rd person interference creating MU but theres a lot more invested in NiNi relationship, more time, more togetherness of the couple, the fact that they had a child together for starters.

After all these years NiNi have not considered separation, Ashwini even recalls the time there was love whereas Sai NEVER had any gunjaish of love.

Plus if Ashwini had expressed a desire to move on, Sai would support it too. But Ashwini here does want reconciliation with ninad..do i personally as a viewer think its a good idea- NO! But if ashwini wants that, then Sairat are enabling it for their aai.