• MHRW Episode Discussion Thread • #74 - Page 105

Originally posted by: PSharada

My 2cents - MHRW writing has been strongly emphasised as fate bringing 2 people together unexpectedly. Going back to the iconic Sindoor scene of first episode you see that the Sindoor from Raghav was destined to land on Pallavi and when Pallavi washes the Saree the Sindoor stain still remains.

Pallavi was destined to be Raghav's soulmate. That is why even when Mandar did all those horrible things fate interferred and he went missing on the wedding night itself. Had Raghav not married Pallavi forcibly then when Mandar returned there would have been nothing that stopped him from claiming Pallavi as his wife. So Pallavi would have been stuck with a criminal and a psycho. Raghav and her marriage to him saved her from destruction.

Now it is time to bury Raghav's past - one that made him who he is - egoistic,arrogant and who values money the most. Esha's betrayal broke something in Raghav - after Pallavi came in his life he is living and healing piece by piece. Now we have his past too in front of him. This track will lead to Raghav making peace with his past and finally shedding the emotional baggage he has been carrying.

Regarding why Raghav is not telling the truth - he did try twice but was unsuccessful. He has fear of losing his relationships and he is yet to get over the guilt - once you get over the guilt then you work towards making amends to the mistake. That is how many people function. Even during the Keerti Amma MMS kand Raghav after knowing the truth suffers extreme guilt. After that he goes ahead trying to fix the aftermath. Right now Raghav is still in guilt phase. But I trust him to fix his mistakes and be a better person - not because Pallavi wants it but because he himself is that inherently.

Beautifully written, and I especially like the part in bold because as I always say, people like Raghav have to realize and resolve to do things themselves and only then will their decisions and/or actions be effective.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Sharada we understand Raghav but not everyone does na. I'm glad to have a flawed character like R who owns up his mistakes, repents and strives to better himself. He's not mahaan, he's very much human.

+ a million.

I'm just waiting to see how this track plays out because Raghav will eventually come up with a proper way to fix things, no matter how hard and I know he will eventually succeed. I trust in him that despite the stumbles he will pick himself up and rise to the challenge.

Originally posted by: PSharada

Yeah he is a flawed character - the beauty of Raghav is he has his conscience. He may stray for a bit but he will ultimately own up his mistakes and he works to rectify them. Ups and downs are part of human life - how you deal with them defines your character. Till this time Raghav has learned only to react violently when he is pushed down. Now he will learn how to deal with things in a mature manner and Pallavi would be the guiding light.

Good we aren't living in an idealistic world warna aise serial dekh ke apna khoon jalate 🤣

Originally posted by: euphoric

Hai na... This needed to be the story of mandaar and his pagalpan! Raghav kar kya raha hai is show main?

Wohi toh. Sirf humara khoon jalata hai yeh banda phir bhi hum show dekhte hai 🥺

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Good we aren't living in an idealistic world warna aise serial dekh ke apna khoon jalate 🤣

True that - if every mistake has to result in relation breaking or moving away then everyone would be alone. There is no relationship that never had any problems in them. I watch the show to see 2 lovers fighting the odds to be together. So yes I cheer and root for both of them. I defended Pallavi when she was naively falling in the trap of Mandar and I will defend Raghav when he is being emotionally manipulated by Esha.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Sorry to coming between your conversation I hope you both won't mind 😆

RaghVi confession happened out of fear only before that they were in lala land they will be together. They love each other but didn't want to accept that. Mandar entry was first hit on their relationship and they came out of that comfort zone. Once confession happened both were like chalo ho gaya confession ab humein koi alag nahi kar sakta but raghav was still insecure because he knew pallavi love for deshmukh family. Pallavi taken him for granted in that track

Here also same thing happening and raghav is hiding things out of guilt

Esha is not raghav responsibility but warangal night is going to be biggest hit on raghvi relationship and it will either make them stronger or break their relationship

Dynamic of raghav and Pallavi is that both are giver and always keep their family above themselves. They can go any extent to save their family but first time in their life someone was there who is there for them. How it feels when someone love you and to whom you can lean they understand each other

About pallavi changing raghav. Raghav is wrong at somewhere with illegal activities specially which harm someone life. Pallavi approach is wrong to make him understand that where is he wrong. You can't be 100% honest in business and you should not do such activities which affects someone life

If we remember Hyderabad days when raghav came to know he did wrong to pallavi. He realised himself and he did everything to mend her relationship with deshmukh by keeping his ego and pride aside.

During haar chori also when he was impulsive to close the showroom it is pallavi who make him understand that where is he wrong. He understood and change his decision

Pallavi intention were not wrong but he is project and wife ka dharam hain pati sudharna that was wrong.

As she said in yesterday episode she wants whole world to know Raghav Rao is good person. She doesn't want his image to be wrong and criminal man and getting curse from society because she knew he doesn't deserve that. He is good man in that Don avtar.

Raghav is also proud that how she is there for him and didn't make fuss how can she interfere in his business like this

Raghav wrong habit to hide things and live in guilt

I hope from next track this will go away no more hiding and no more guilty raghav I am bored with this.

There was no need to show life and death situation so he will understand. But ITV hain to dikhana hi tha

They both didn't get proper time for eachother after confession and when they got it was either about keerti or Mandar or deshmukh and now esha.

I hope makers will give them breathing space and to their relationship

Yes I feel they wasted the trump card of life and death situation. Should have reserved it for something more meaningful.

You know what they say: the road to hell is paved with good intentions. The wrong approach is what backfired and drove him into a ditch. It will keep happening until he takes the reins at some point.

Anyway, the rose-colored glasses need to come off so that you really see your spouse for who they are and figure if you want to adjust with them and how.

MHRW story description:

1. Widowed Pallavi is all for family, while loner Raghav, a business magnate, is all for money. One day, these polar opposites clash. Source: IMDB

2. Pallavi, a young widow, is a family-oriented woman. However, when she crosses paths with a money-minded businessman, their personalities clash and sparks fly. Source: Web

3. Several circumstances lead to a widow, Pallavi Deshmukh and a rich-goon, Raghav Rao’s compromised marriage. Initially, the two don’t settle-in and are always at odds. Over time, however, the duo confess their love for each other. The storms the couple face and how they overcome it together, with the backdrop of two families forms the crux of “Mehndi Hai Rachne Waali”. Source: Wikipedia

4. Despite being married under unfavourable circumstances, Pallavi and Raghav fall in love with each other. But what happens when Pallavi's first husband returns? Source: hotstar

Ren am I missing something? Did anywhere anything is written which said, Raghav was suppose to be a saint 🤓

Originally posted by: euphoric

MHRW story description:

1. Widowed Pallavi is all for family, while loner Raghav, a business magnate, is all for money. One day, these polar opposites clash. Source: IMDB

2. Pallavi, a young widow, is a family-oriented woman. However, when she crosses paths with a money-minded businessman, their personalities clash and sparks fly. Source: Web

3. Several circumstances lead to a widow, Pallavi Deshmukh and a rich-goon, Raghav Rao’s compromised marriage. Initially, the two don’t settle-in and are always at odds. Over time, however, the duo confess their love for each other. The storms the couple face and how they overcome it together, with the backdrop of two families forms the crux of “Mehndi Hai Rachne Waali”. Source: Wikipedia

4. Despite being married under unfavourable circumstances, Pallavi and Raghav fall in love with each other. But what happens when Pallavi's first husband returns? Source: hotstar

Ren am I missing something? Did anywhere anything is written which said, Raghav was suppose to be a saint 🤓

Awww mere baby ne itni mehnat ki to prove a point 🤗

Maine kya samjhaya tha 5 minute pehle, one emoji 🔪 is enough to make a point. Time waste nai karte.

Originally posted by: PSharada

True that - if every mistake has to result in relation breaking or moving away then everyone would be alone. There is no relationship that never had any problems in them. I watch the show to see 2 lovers fighting the odds to be together. So yes I cheer and root for both of them. I defended Pallavi when she was naively falling in the trap of Mandar and I will defend Raghav when he is being emotionally manipulated by Esha.

Sharada which relationship doesn't have ups and downs? Parents, sibblings, friends all of us have our share of fights, disagreements and disappointments. I don't know then why it's in the case of romantic liasons that the partner must have no right to fumble or fall lest the other one will be the first one to walk over the fallen partner. Wow! Just wow!

Originally posted by: PSharada

True that - if every mistake has to result in relation breaking or moving away then everyone would be alone. There is no relationship that never had any problems in them. I watch the show to see 2 lovers fighting the odds to be together. So yes I cheer and root for both of them. I defended Pallavi when she was naively falling in the trap of Mandar and I will defend Raghav when he is being emotionally manipulated by Esha.

I am here for the same reason. This story was never meant to be about chocolate and flowers anyway.

They are drawing subtle parallels with Milind and BWA too of late. She has been horrible to him all their married life from the looks of it. He could have left her ages ago and led a potentially peaceful life but he chose to stay despite the emotional manipulation and abuse. I've never seen people advocate for him to walk out. For that matter Ayi has stayed in such a toxic marriage despite being a strong woman herself. Each relationship is different.

I just wanted to add that emotional manipulation is powerful because the person doing it knows exactly how and when to apply the right pressure and trap the victim, who in turn is caught In a web of emotions without realizing. Also, there are many people who indulge in this kind of manipulation without even needing to lie all the time - they just know exactly which buttons to push.