Originally posted by: janaki17789
It's easy in US where people mentality is different. Women's get counseling after divorce do you see Anupama getting counseling for the stress and toxic she is facing in the hands of he ex in-laws. We as viewers can pass judgment but makers need to analyze the situation and give us drama daily or else we will not b gossiping like this. 😉 Somewhere we viewers are responsible for the show. But I agree 100% it's time Anupama needs counseling and getting out of Shah house for herself development and getting herself back. From experience I am saying people like Vanraj and Baa have broken spirit of Anupama. And Anupama mother might have not supported her ever, throughout her marriage. In the belief that how will she lead life without a name tag of husband behind her. How much ever we think when it comes to our girls also we feel same. This I am saying from experience. Of being a daughter who has everything that Anupama faced in marriage. I don't know what woke my parents. But I am thankful for all my stars I got out before my situation got worse
I agree US mein divorce lena aasan hota hai lekin being cheated upon, hurt, pain ... Koi kam nhi hota hai. Devika uses her brain and I don't see why it's not hyped up ... In the show too.
In previous episodes it was established ki Anupama ki maa ne usse bola tha uske saath uske ghar (maayka) chalne lekin usne apni maa ki baat nhi maani and she chose abuse, humiliation, pain, chains on her own!!!! Aur koi 70s ke zamane ki dialogue thim Beti maa ke ghar vida doli mein hoti hai lekin apne sasural bse wo jaati arthi mein hai. Bewakoof woman.
I get she is normalised to abuse but agar koi usse samjhane ki koshish karta hai toh wo unn logo ya toh Kinjal (Anupama 2.O hai jo) bana deti hai ya uss advice ke saath football khelti hai (jo khelna aata nhi hai) and ball ko apne hi court mein goal kar deti hai. No points there mate!
You are strong you came out it and you are an inspiration not Anupama. Please don't ever compare yourself to her. Anupama Vanraj ko justify karti rehti hai, koi Vanraj ko kuch bol kar toh dikahye... Wo kaali maa ban jati hai.
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