What if Vanraj has not cheated?

What if Vanraj has not cheated Anupama? What if he never had any physical relationship with Kavya but just an emotional one? Would Anupama still have divorced Vanraj? Would Anupama still had recognised that she has been mentally abused by Vanraj all these years?

I don't think so

If VanYa didn't happen, Anu would have happily served as the doormat of Shah's and dragged Samar along with her which she is still doing.

She would have never recognised how toxic her so called family is. Heck! She is still not recognising how abusive her param pujniye Baa is.

I am sure Anu would have forgiven Vanraj if she was not physically involved Kavya and led her life like nothing happened

नही aisa नही है . अगर vanraj ने dhokha नही भी दिया होता तो भी anupama vanraj को divorce कर सकती थी

Kyonki एक बार vanraj ने anupama ko kamre se निकाल diya aur anupama ko bahut dukh hua aur उसने अपनी बात devika se share ki. Anupama us time बहुत रोई thi ki main sabka खयाल रखती हूँ तबभी yeh mujhe sunate hain

Us time anupama vanraj se नाराज ho gayi thi kyon vanraj ne anupama se kaha ki tumhare sharir se pyaj lehsun ki smell आती है और bhi bahut kadwe shabd kahe. Sanupama को बहुत बुरा लगा और vanraj se नाराज bhi हुई.us time anupama को yeh नही पता था ki vanraj ka affair kavya ke साथ चल रहा है

Waise एक baat बताए.yeh to serial hai but in realty ki jahaan jo wife middle age ki jiske teen bache hai aur woh wife Financial strong nahin hai to aise mein realty mein wife husband ko divorce nahin de paati hai because of Financial issue

Reality mein bahut se women divorce nahin de paati because of Financial issue and also of because of problem of raisin children due to Financial issue women divorce nahin de paati hai

Yeh to anuj aa gaya but asal zindagi mein anuj jaisa insaan rich aisa kisi middle age divorcee ko nahin milte

Agar anupama jaisa character real life mein divorce de hi na paata because of Financial issue और yahi hota hai real life

Divorce woh hi lady de paate hain jinhe Financial issue na ho aur jo lady ko bina husband ke Financial support ke bacchon ko raise karne mein capable hai wohi divorce de paati hai nahin to wife na chahte hue bachon ke khatir husband ki cheating bhi btolerate kar jaati because of no strong Financial

Originally posted by: ..sur..

What if Vanraj has not cheated Anupama? What if he never had any physical relationship with Kavya but just an emotional one? Would Anupama still have divorced Vanraj? Would Anupama still had recognised that she has been mentally abused by Vanraj all these years?

I don't think so

If VanYa didn't happen, Anu would have happily served as the doormat of Shah's and dragged Samar along with her which she is still doing.

She would have never recognised how toxic her so called family is. Heck! She is still not recognising how abusive her param pujniye Baa is.

I am sure Anu would have forgiven Vanraj if she was not physically involved Kavya and led her life like nothing happened

I totally agree. Everyone is not sensitive enough to realize that they are being tortured emotionally also. And yes in anuapama's case she would not have divorced V. Vanya was her breaking point. Untill it she was suffering since 26 years and had accepted it as her fate. She had developed tolerance for baa, V and everyone elses torture towards her because she didn't want to break her family at any cost not even if it costs her self respect and sanity. It was only when vanya happened she realized that enough is enough. She was not prepared for taking this shit and hence finally and thankfully she divorced him

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Waise एक baat बताए.yeh to serial hai but in realty ki jahaan jo wife middle age ki jiske teen bache hai aur woh wife Financial strong nahin hai to aise mein realty mein wife husband ko divorce nahin de paati hai because of Financial issue

Reality mein bahut se women divorce nahin de paati because of Financial issue and also of because of problem of raisin children due to Financial issue women divorce nahin de paati hai

Yeh to anuj aa gaya but asal zindagi mein anuj jaisa insaan rich aisa kisi middle age divorcee ko nahin milte

Agar anupama jaisa character real life mein divorce de hi na paata because of Financial issue और yahi hota hai real life

Divorce woh hi lady de paate hain jinhe Financial issue na ho aur jo lady ko bina husband ke Financial support ke bacchon ko raise karne mein capable hai wohi divorce de paati hai nahin to wife na chahte hue bachon ke khatir husband ki cheating bhi btolerate kar jaati because of no strong Financial

True you are absolutely correct. Real life me aisa kuch nahi hota but real life me ek aurat agar divorce leti hai toh uske baad apne in-laws ke saath nahi rehti. Apni saas ke sahi-bure taane sunke bhi use devi nahi manti.

Middle class aurat sab kuch sehti hai but use realisation rehti hai ki wo seh rahi hai aur uske gharwale galat hai but yaha Anupama ko realise hi nahi hota ki uske ex-saas galat hai. Wo bas unko defend karti rehti hai. My point was even in vanraj's case, she realised she was being abused ONLY when Vanraj had an affair, agar affair nahi hota toh Anu kabhi apni aawaz nahi uthati

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

I totally agree. Everyone is not sensitive enough to realize that they are being tortured emotionally also. And yes in anuapama's case she would not have divorced V. Vanya was her breaking point. Untill it she was suffering since 26 years and had accepted it as her fate. She had developed tolerance for baa, V and everyone elses torture towards her because she didn't want to break her family at any cost not even if it costs her self respect and sanity. It was only when vanya happened she realized that enough is enough. She was not prepared for taking this shit and hence finally and thankfully she divorced him

Exactly but even after the divorce, her status wuondidnt change. She is still behaving like doormat. Bas pehle wo Anupama Vanraj Shah thi ab bas Anupama hai