WHAT HAVE YOU GIVEN MR SHAH?

A daily refrain these days has been Anupama can do what she pleases with Anuj but there is no way he will tolerate Anuj between him and his kids.

Mr Vanraj Shah what have you done for Samar to adore you?

You have illtreated him, called him a loser and a Nachiniya.

You have not respected his mother showed any appreciation for all things she has done for you and your family.

You did not act when your then girl friend and love of your life foisted a case on him.

He has at his mummy's bidding cared for you after your accident, helped in whatever way he could to stabilise your cafe.

Your Raja beta said he was ashamed of you. Your ladli and love ran a huge bill which was nothing for you.

You have not won the trust and respect of your son by your actions. Respect is not what can be earned. He is not Anupama to blindly venerate you despite your meaness, petiness ans selfishness.

At no point have you Mr VANRAJ Shah acted genuinely to Samar. The lad has stopped considering you his dad and repeatedly reminded that you will long for him to call you Dad.

Now when you see a genuine bond between Samar and Anuj your insecurity kicks in and instead of making amends you go threatening your ex wife of dire consequences.

You are unable to stop your present wife go gaga over Anuj how do you think you can control the ex who asked you AAP ko KYA,

Mr. Shah in other words is good for nothing. He has lived his life making other feel low and guilty. Now his so called ego is not letting him face the reality that things has gone away from his hands. So he finds the soft target as always as Anu but now he has forgotten that she is his ex. He do not have right on her.

Rightly mentioned that what actually he has done for his kids? He actually never cared for them. Love is far thing. He just used them for his benifits and manipulation. Now also he is trying to do but time has changed.

Another man is giving his child a shoulder to lean on like a dad, friend and we'll wisher should be giving, which he lacked.

This is his insecurity and more then this I feel that he feels inferior to this new MAN in their life as he is giving care, some sense if his kid is doing wrong and stands for them and his ex which Mr. Shah never did.

Mr. Shah wants no matter what he will be praised even if he does wrong and no one should stand against him.

Let me put it in more bold words, giving birth only doesn't make a MALE father. That male need to nourish his children so that they may recognise him as father. No nourishment, care, no standing by for kids in their bad time and always making them feel bad, insulted doesn't make a father.

But after this Mr. Shah wants to have all the rights now for his children. But let's ask your child if he wants the same? Oops he don't even want to call you Papa. So dream on.

P.s. thank you for making a post on this.

Agree to every word of yours.

I am very sure that if Anuj was not involved in Rohan's case,the first thing that Vanraj would do was insult Nandini and asked Samar to leave her.Samar has been treated soo terribly since childhood by Vanraj,Baa and his siblings that his fears of losing someone who loves him selflessly(Nandini)is coming out in the form of taking help from outsiders or hiding things so that his mother does not have to suffer.He told in one of the episodes that Anu and Nandini are the 2 most important women of his life and he doesn't want to lose or hurt any of them.In this case,he would have to bear both losing Nandini and hurting Anupama.

mr vanraj shah is getting taste of his own deeds and samar is again prove correct main jo bhi karun blame mummy ko hi jata hain

that looser not realising its samar who chooose not anupama told him nor anuj did this.

he is doing same with anupama since years tab usse realise nahi hua kavya was bestie for pakhee andtoshu wanted kavya to be there when kinjal parents were coming tab sab sahi tha ab anuj itna galat ho gaya aur anupama jabki ab to both are single they can do anything they want how it affects

Absolutely right. The entire family including the Baa Bapuji Anupama worships were okay with Kavya being passed off as the mother when Anupama was still the legally wedded wife. Vanraj thinks he can control things. it hurts him no end that Samar was choosing who he considers the father figure while you and your parents had no qualms about Kavya POSING.

ON A LIGHTER NOTE

Dude motherhood is a fact, Paternity unless you do a test is belief.

Its one thing anu never stood for herself in 25 years, but letting a child suffer by his father for years and doing nothing is crime itself. And after failing to stand for samar in his childhood, anu still expects samar to be normal with his abuser. What a load of shit she talk about vanraj alwayd providing for his children - its vanraj obligation towards his children to provide for their basic needs until they are adult as he made a decision to get them in this world. Vanraj failed to provide samar love, safety and trust which any child longs for from their parents.

Even anupama is egoistic about her being the best "MAA" to her children, who can do anything for them, yet could not even give samar the mental security a child should have from parents. Ironically, pakhi and toshu atleast have the confidence that vanraj will support them even if they do anything stupid.

Samar is an adult and can take his decision whom to share his problems with. He made an conscious decision to go to Anuj. He knew the pros & cons of going to not just shahs but also anu too. This time samar found the comfort and support in anuj that even anupama has failed to provide.

The best part was when Samar told Vanraj and Baa on their face that they would have not supported him in this matter,that top in front of Anuj.Shakal dekhne layak thi unki.

Now I seriously want Samar to call out Vanraj's abuse towards him in front of everyone in family including Anuj,and if Anupama starts with her Acche pita hai dialogue like the Shivratri pooja day,he should stop her also.

Vanraj and his demonic Baa , P1&2 could have been booked for domestic violence, mental trauma and child abuse. Not only were they abusers hey smiled smugly when P1&2 taunted Anupama and Samar and called them Losers.

They should spend at least a day in jail.

The family has for years been exploiting, abusing and taking for granted Anupama and Samar.

If Vanraj can claim that he sought out Kavya as Anupama didnt meet his level. What is wrong in Samar finding support n a problem solver as the dysfunctional Shahs can only create messes and get dolled up for weekly celebrations and have taunt feasts. They have no capacity to think through simple problems in their home how would they have bailed Sanan from the mess of a stalking, blackmailing attempt to murder psychopath.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Vanraj and his demonic Baa , P1&2 could have been booked for domestic violence, mental trauma and child abuse. Not only were they abusers hey smiled smugly when P1&2 taunted Anupama and Samar and called them Losers.

They should spend at least a day in jail.

Trust anupama on following them to the jail as well cos - meri baa ka dhyan mein rakhungy and bina Mr Shah ke taane sunne mujhe neend nahi aati.🤢