Originally posted by: Apsvenky
Raaz this was beautiful again. Just seeing how Imlie took that step knowing that it will almost kill the both of them, while yet understanding that of the three of them she is the only one who can take that step was so beautifully portrayed. That Adi decides to let her go, but promises to be a better human being for her shows that he understands that while right now he may nit be the best person, he is still trying his best to come to that point where he can again be deserving of her. I am glad that while what you wrote was your version of their story, funnily a lot of that has been reflecting in their story as well. Today your version connected me to their version even more, as there also Adi is going through a similar kashmakash just to make sense of what has happened to his life. Him wanting to make sense of his life and being at sea with it despite being an intelligent patrakar just makes me think that why he holds in to Imlie as if she is his lifeline - it is because she is the only safe spot in the storm that has become his life. With her he feels sorted, with her he feels at peace. Funnily the person who wants to claim him does not want to see that Imlie is able to walk away because she is not just strong, but also aware that leaving does nit mean you are weak or are letting people walk over you. Sometimes like you said, leaving means that you give people the space needed to calm their minds and reach that place of sukoon where they realise what they want against the other's will is futile in the long run. (Hope I made sense)😆
Aww Aps thank you so much for the lovely comment this has made the weekend crazy feel less hectic and posting this update so worth it.
I am so glad that you were able to connect the dots between the need of him wanting to see her and them having a talk of what lead to her decision and the events of her walking alway. I always believed from the first day they met to the time she married him she was the one that held the courage and strength to hold him together back then he was willing to die without a fight. Her love was in the need to protect him and today her love is in the need to heal him and the way she knew how to do so was walk away. She was protecting him by alway him to be himself and reflects without the prejudice of others around and worry of what society says. They say love is about the knowledge and understanding of care and commitment and respect is a wheel of it. And I found that foundation being built upon the need to protect and cherish and such love can be build upon for the pod there lives. For love comes in all forms of emotions.
Even up to the truth reveal for Aditya it was the opportunity of taking ownership of his own emotions and responsibilities. It was his ways of being able to heal himself and with it heal there relationship too. I still believe of and when imlie wil walk away it’s because she knows he needs the space to gain clarity of his own decisions. A lot of people forget that leaving is not a sign of weakness and holding faith they shall right by you is far more courageous than one could imagine.
Imlie from a young age always fear through this demons to shape her journey and in this journey where she has found love and acceptance it’s far more painful for her then him because being not wanted and then finding some that loves you for you is far more harder to let go of then having never loved before.
She is secure on her decision because she knows she matters and hence was able to speak of her feelings in a calming manner she needed for him to understand. Her resolve shows faith, acceptance and most of all understanding. That is foundation of the there love and respect because they see each other for what they are and not what they should be.
The aim was to show that in all this talk of responsibility I wanted to show that both Aditya needed to understand that he was both the cause and the solution of the matter. This is and was what I felt was always masked behind his anger and also his guilt of denial towards the relationship he shared with Maline. Imlie openly telling him this has shown him the mirror and a way forward.
Leaving the decision to him has been taken to show in no simple terms the errors he maybe making. It was try to highlight that we are not only held responsible for what we do but we are also to blame for what we are not willing do. I felt there love was stuck at this point between owning love and sharing responsibility even when they have such an open relationship. They know in there hearts that there souls at at home and they are home to each other. As they say home is were heart is and his soul is imlie as hers is in him.
In my heart the reveal of the truth and his ultimatum was always a test of these emotions and how they would each shape there own decisions and there together for all the people involved.
Just want to show the the unity in both when they are apart for that what they are all about. And something I feel people have forgotten that even when they talk they are caring for each other but also with it owning up to the fact that people that are meant to be together will find there way back to each other. And all they need to do so is take a leap of faith.
+100 to the bold loved it and it made perfect sense and I am so glad you god the message as you have so beautiful penned above🤗
Will share part three by Wednesday the latest but will tag you when up cannot wait to read what you think. 😊
Thanks for being on this journey with me 🤗
Love Raaz
Edited by raaz19 - 3 years ago
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