Originally posted by: spdp
I felt slight moment in his fingers on dandiya stock showed hesitation! And kind of resolve that this is bull crap my mother is dumping on me!
Also: while we talk slightest & minutest body movements: how can we miss one that was shown clearly.
one most prominent today was his primary defensive hand fold! As Disha extended her hand.
Pushing the idea away!
Beyond Shiva,
Disha’s minutest & boldest body movements, act, introduction all looks rather out of place.
Ladki weird hai.
Where is family? Why was she here even after knowing he is not divorced? And why no concern/ reaction at Raavi?
Doesn’t look / sound/ feel normal or exciting.
No to offend, but a different feel & pov as a viewer.
Also, as Avi mentioned: we still have complete untold unexplored ShiVi dynamics.
I am more interested in that.
3rd angle, we get enough in terms of oily.
And, how is Shiva rejected in love??
Their love story never is allowed to get started. They were still exploring feelings amongst family chaos. They were still getting warmed up. And chaos broke loose.
None taken. I view stories as a whole, and yes, many times, you don't need to voice out love anyway.
What is love?
Some call it respect, some conversation, some chemistry. Its a very complicated feeling and everyone feels it differently. Contrary to potrayals in TV, cinema and pop culture, being in love and exploding human interactions are not unidimensional.
Rejection is a solid and dismal feeling, and Shiva has been rejected time and again. There is a whole series of circumstances leading to where he is today, and what he feels.
Coming back to Shiva barricading Disha-that’s not even subtle and it comes across as explicit of his denial for this atrocious match making done by Suman.
Coming to Disha’s background etc etc. That's regular ITV blooper 🤣
I like the 3rd entry. Sometimes, you need a catalyst to come face to face the reality of feelings.
Regarding Shivi having conversations, I am in a minority that believes that talk will do nothing for them. Both of them tried to make each other understand but in vain.
They need validation and acceptance. The moment it happens, everything else becomes secondary. It may sound unreal, but such shit happens in real life. There is always this anxiousness in relationships between emotionally unequal partners.
It's known as an avoidant-attached relationship. These relationships are toxically sufferable because of vulnerability and insecurity. The only thing that solves the conflict is acceptance and validation.
Marriages may be a work in progress, but Shivi is beyond marriage.
Regarding Love again- it's complex, and the kind of romantic love you are referring to is an ITV trope.
I shall try to do a series of posts where subtle rejection will be highlighted.
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