Originally posted by: 404_NotFound
I agree with you both . Some times I feel is this attitude of breaking marriage for every small thing limited to reel characters . I feel the same people won’t react this way in real life . I am referring to all the ITV audiences who think this way and it’s not limited to this serial . I have seen in the other serials too where it’s usually the FL sympathizers who react this way .
I think compromises , adjustments and working on a relationship is viewed as weakness . I won’t expect any women to stay in an abusive marriage but the problem is every single arguments between couple is viewed as toxic , abusive behavior . In reality , in any relationship difference of opinion, ego battles and misunderstanding are common . People don’t give up because of these reasons because even if they in next relationship they will face the same issue . Sairat is facing the above issues and they are not in any abusive relationship that I expect a Sai to walk out without trying .
Virat is not abusive period . He has his shares of mistakes but he is not someone who will intentionally harm Sai in anyway . He doesn’t control her life and has given the respect Sai deserves . The mistakes he has made is out of misunderstanding, ego and in extreme emotional state . None of them were taken to hurt her . He has realized and repented . Similarly, Sai has her share of mistakes too . She has done similar mistakes as Virat and again it not to hurt Virat but out of immaturity , stubbornness and ego .
Up until anniversary track , Virat has given her the care , attention and importance in his life even if he called it as deal marriage. From the day he married her he was there for her at every stage and has silently supported her . They may have some misunderstandings but still he stood like a solid rock . Sai until anniversary track has never seen Virat’s indifference and he was always the one to make first move when they fought but in anniversary track he was hurt and his character was questioned because of which he decided to distance himself not just for himself but for Sai as well . Sai was not used to that and in this track we will see Sai realize this and enjoy the attention , care Virat generally showered on her . If Virat was abusive man like he is accused of then Sai would not be missing him in the first place . Sai would be looking for her new found brother and Jiju .
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