What’s wrong with Raghav ?

Why does he literally yell at Pallavi these days for every x..y..z reason ? It’s so disrespectful, high time he stops it or better Pallavi calls him out on that .

How was it his fault that Pallavi’s phone got exchanged with Esha , and Esha send problematic Me too to him ?

So why did he hide it ? Pallavi wouldn’t have doubted him over something Esha sent him.

There was absolutely no reason to get in fight with Pallavi over it unless he wanted to save his ex of course .

He didn’t delete the messages

Esha did that

he didn’t want to talk about it, which is smth raghav has always done, run away from talking about feelings

it will start to create problems now but don’t worry it will all be okay

Same thing happened in Pallavi-Mandar drama, only here it hurts more because Raghav actually liked Esha once

but other than that everything will be okay, misunderstandings and pain yes but raghav will bounce back and bring pallu back

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

He didn’t delete the messages

Esha did that

he didn’t want to talk about it, which is smth raghav has always done, run away from talking about feelings

it will start to create problems now but don’t worry it will all be okay

Same thing happened in Pallavi-Mandar drama, only here it hurts more because Raghav actually liked Esha once

but other than that everything will be okay, misunderstandings and pain yes but raghav will bounce back and bring pallu back

I never stated he deleted it; I objected to his dishonesty.

And I know he does it all the time, and it's irking me.

When is he going to learn? He always apologises, but you know, that doesn't really matter anymore because he never learns. 👎🏼

And the concern that Pallavi will abandon him over trivial matters is ridiculous after she literally put her life on the line for him.

I don't care whether it turns out fine; I can't force positivity when the track is anything but positive. That's simply my opinion, no offence intended.

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

Same thing happened in Pallavi-Mandar drama, only here it hurts more because Raghav actually liked Esha once

but other than that everything will be okay, misunderstandings and pain yes but raghav will bounce back and bring pallu back

Sorry to say this is way different from Mandaar track .

Pallavi was unaware about Mandaar’s intentions for a long time , and Dr Ramya used to guilt trip Pallavi a lot saying only Pallavi can cure Mandaar .

Here, Raghav knows Esha harbours feelings for him because of that text , so it really doesn’t make sense for Raghav to personally help her so much or stay close to her when he can easily ask someone else to look into it. Any wise man would stay away ( here he’s choosing to stay in same room and not go in lobby ? and she ordered drinks ? ) & not to mention Raghav was the one yelling at Pallavi to stay away from Esha as she’s manipulative.

Moreover Pallavi was always honest, here Raghav’s need to lie doesn’t make much sense .

Você está certo, não vejo necessidade de tanta humanidade, enquanto o mesmo sabe e conhece o lado manipulador dela

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

Why does he literally yell at Pallavi these days for every x..y..z reason ? It’s so disrespectful, high time he stops it or better Pallavi calls him out on that .

How was it his fault that Pallavi’s phone got exchanged with Esha , and Esha send problematic Me too to him ?

So why did he hide it ? Pallavi wouldn’t have doubted him over something Esha sent him.

There was absolutely no reason to get in fight with Pallavi over it unless he wanted to save his ex of course .

Raghav has a big gaping hole in his heart - he fears abandonment and is afraid of being alone. The moment there is a whiff of some disturbance he will take the flight. That is his basic nature. Yes Pallavi assures him but his emotional insecurities have not been healed - it is just that you are putting a band-aid over a big wound. The wound has to heal and no putting a band-aid is not going to miraculously heal it.

This track hopefully will come with Pallavi stepping back and going away - only then Raghav will realise that him lying to her is making their misunderstandings grow and he will fight to get her back in his life.

@bold:- Regarding the bold, I think Raghav is just pushing the difficult conversation because he just doesn't know how to handle the information himself. I hope when Esha tells him openly that she still is pinning for him then Raghav will firm up and draw the lines and will tell Esha that he no longer is in love with her but loves Pallavi with all his heart.

Why does he literally yell at Pallavi these days for every x..y..z reason ? It’s so disrespectful, high time he stops it or better Pallavi calls him out on that .

How was it his fault that Pallavi’s phone got exchanged with Esha , and Esha send problematic Me too to him ?

So why did he hide it ? Pallavi wouldn’t have doubted him over something Esha sent him.

There was absolutely no reason to get in fight with Pallavi over it unless he wanted to save his ex of course .

It happens when your partner is mad on something and you are the victim to get all his bad faces...

Whom you love you shout, scream, be angry it is natural and that too this it is his ex which he does not want to speak about...

Like our mom gets all shades of love ( black , white / grey) same goes with a partner ....

Originally posted by: PSharada

Raghav has a big gaping hole in his heart - he fears abandonment and is afraid of being alone. The moment there is a whiff of some disturbance he will take the flight. That is his basic nature. Yes Pallavi assures him but his emotional insecurities have not been healed - it is just that you are putting a band-aid over a big wound. The wound has to heal and no putting a band-aid is not going to miraculously heal it.

This track hopefully will come with Pallavi stepping back and going away - only then Raghav will realise that him lying to her is making their misunderstandings grow and he will fight to get her back in his life.

@bold:- Regarding the bold, I think Raghav is just pushing the difficult conversation because he just doesn't know how to handle the information himself. I hope when Esha tells him openly that she still is pinning for him then Raghav will firm up and draw the lines and will tell Esha that he no longer is in love with her but loves Pallavi with all his heart.

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I so agree with you here. His issues are deep as he still harbours the fear that his people and most importantly Pallavi is going to walk out on him. So he hides or lies. He has always resorted to escape routes whether it was to immerse himself in alcohol or to snap at Pallavi to shut her up. That's kind of his defense mechanism.

Emotions are not his forte because he simply doesn't know how to keep a tab on it. Right now also he's all over the place. By yelling at Pallavi n pushing her away, he's not realizing he's allowing Esha some space between them. And this is going to cost him. If he keeps behaving an irrational elephant on a rampage, he's bound to give wrong signals to Pallavi. I wouldn't be surprised if she walks out because of this.

Pallavi judges him and beats him up thats why he is hiding things from her. She reminds me of a friend I had in my childhood. This friend beats kids up and when they cry this friend buys them chocolate to shush them. Thats what Pallavi does. She does ungli first to Raghav then play victim. Here also Raghav gave phone to her to check she did ungli as usual and when Raghav went without telling her she started playing victim. This is her usual drama.