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Posted: 4 years ago

Wow lots of things to catch up . Some interesting discussions. Sorry guys was busy with some personal stuff .

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Originally posted by: JoonaMohalla

A question: I don't know much about surgery and stuff. But Sai was hurt on the back of her head. Shouldn't she be laid down with her face down so that she's not hurt where she's wounded 🤔

Even I'm not sure about this, but I remember a few years back I had a cyst on my back and the doctor had asked me to sleep on my back. But, I don't have any idea about head surgery.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Finally the much needed relief for all Sairat fans..

Sai sent the message not only to Pulkit but also to some of the fans who hoped that she will stay away from Virat and file divorce.

I really wonder..is it that easy to break a marriage? May be I am conservative or belong to old school of thought . Never mind..I would like to continue the way I am..

When I read posts and comments asking Sai to take away mangal sutr,ring and throw divorce papers on his face,I really wonder whether taking saath phere and sath vachan won’t have the significance at all.

I am not against divorce or willing to enforce women to suffer toxicity and abuse.


But is Virat toxic and abusive? I didn’t find him so.

He doubted Sai with Ajinkya bur regretted and apologised. He did the same when he ousted Sai.

Now he did hurt her by teaming up with Pakhi at her worst best. He locked her in the room only to make sure she participate in Puja which Ofcourse is wrong.

Sai’s mindset

Sai I feel is not hurt this time with any of the above reasons. She is unable to cope up with Virat’s indifference and aloofness. She is not used to him being mentally away from her.

She is ok with fights and arguments but she got depressed on seeing Virat’s new side..

That is the reason she felt depressed and got upset.

I'm with you, Lakshmi. I was going to comment earlier about this in the forum but refrained since I knew I will be in minority and will be rebuked.

I have spent 25 years with my husband and believe me it wasn't a cake walk. He too is hot tempered, stubborn and an angry young man. I too was 18 when I got married and just like Sai I was an only child. I too had my mother in law's support but she wouldn't support me blindly like Ashwini. But, she used to help me understand my husband and his nature. I'm a Sri Lankan so my parents were in Sri Lanka and I'm in India. But, gradually I learnt how to handle him . He too is possessive but still it never occurred to me to get divorce from him . I don't how people come up with such thoughts. They are making a mockery of a relationship like marriage.

A marraige or any other relation works from both sides. Uptil now it was only Virat who trying to make this marriage work. Now I hope Sai too will get equally involved in making it work.

Yes, it is a tight slap for those who wanted Sai to throw the divorce papers, remove the mangal sutr and the ring at Virat.

If Virat was truly abusive and toxic I too might have felt that both are never meant for each other. And, if he was then I don't think Sai would have been able to live with him even for a day.

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Posted: 4 years ago

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I'm with you, Lakshmi. I was going to comment earlier about this in the forum but refrained since I knew I will be in minority and will be rebuked.

I have spent 25 years with my husband and believe me it wasn't a cake walk. He too is hot tempered, stubborn and an angry young man. I too was 18 when I got married and just like Sai I was an only child. I too had my mother in law's support but she wouldn't support me blindly like Ashwini. But, she used to help me understand my husband and his nature. I'm a Sri Lankan so my parents were in Sri Lanka and I'm in India. But, gradually I learnt how to handle him . He too is possessive but still it never occurred to me to get divorce from him . I don't how people come up with such thoughts. They are making a mockery of a relationship like marriage.

A marraige or any other relation works from both sides. Uptil now it was only Virat who trying to make this marriage work. Now I hope Sai too will get equally involved in making it work.

Yes, it is a tight slap for those who wanted Sai to throw the divorce papers, remove the mangal sutr and the ring at Virat.

If Virat was truly abusive and toxic I too might have felt that both are never meant for each other. And, if he was then I don't think Sai would have been able to live with him even for a day.

Totally agree with you and appreciate the way you handled your marriage. Not only you every couple will face this kind of differences and misunderstandings but as long as love or even certain bonding existed ,the marriage will work for sure.

Me and my husband have many arguments and difference of opinion. I am an introvert and he is an extrovert. Still we both always did effort and it worked.

People who want Sairat to break up undermine love factor that they both have for each other.

Sai reacted the way she should because she has only Virat as her own after her Aba’s death. Sai is not a feminist who walked away on her husband. She left with great pain. Infact with her monologue we could see how much she felt shattered to leave him and go. Ayesha’s eyes spoke volumes on that day.

While true Sairatians are eagerly waiting for tomorrow,,the other group is making an issue out of their reunion.

To each his/ her own. What more to say?

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Totally agree with you and appreciate the way you handled your marriage. Not only you every couple will face this kind of differences and misunderstandings but as long as love or even certain bonding existed ,the marriage will work for sure.

Me and my husband have many arguments and difference of opinion. I am an introvert and he is an extrovert. Still we both always did effort and it worked.

People who want Sairat to break up undermine love factor that they both have for each other.

Sai reacted the way she should because she has only Virat as her own after her Aba’s death. Sai is not a feminist who walked away on her husband. She left with great pain. Infact with her monologue we could see how much she felt shattered to leave him and go. Ayesha’s eyes spoke volumes on that day.

While true Sairatians are eagerly waiting for tomorrow,,the other group is making an issue out of their reunion.

To each his/ her own. What more tonsay?

All of us go through a rough patch at one point or the other. But, it doesn't mean we should break ties with the other person. That's not the way to solve the problem. It's an act of cowardice. Instead we should stay together and bring out a solution. This is the only way to mend a broken relationship.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Same rant as yesterday . What’s the point of unnecessary family drama ? Shivani’s taunt , Sonali’s meanness , Devi’s OTT acting, Pakhi’s unnecessary scene and Pulkit’s drama . What’s the point of all these ? The only sensible family drama was Bhavani’s scenes because they want to show her change of heart . These unnecessary drama is delaying the most awaited Sairat scenes . I would be ok if they helped the story but it doesn’t and top of it none of time apart from Kishori and Sheetal can act .


I love the bits and pieces of Sairat scenes we got today . Pulkit the great conveniently lied that it was Virat’s decision not to see Sai . It’s partial truth . Pulkit was the one to stop Virat but I am least bothered about these clowns . They will get their answers when Sai will look forward to meeting Virat . I wish all those including Devi Tai , her friends is present to witness this

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