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Posted: 3 years ago
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Not because of Virat self victimizing himself, Not because he still does not understand Pakhi's intentions, not because he still sits and chats with Pakhi, when he knows how much she hates the woman fighting for life, because in general, people dont want to see such people around them in such situations...

But does he still thinks it was Kadwaahat between them , Sai not understanding his feelings...He still fails to understand how he behaved with her after his transfer was cancelled...How he and Patralekha mocked her at every given chance...How he domestically abused her.. Nothing, no contemplation, no realisation...Nothing at all..

People blame Samrat for saying that Virat does not care for Sai, has done nothing for Sai...While watching the scene I thought he is saying all this because he has not seen the good phase and hence that is his impression of Virat and Sai's relationship... So he is wrongly blaming Virat.. But on giving a second thought I saw he has seen Virat misbehaving with her, domestically abusing her, ganging up with his ex to taunt her and he has not seen how she was treated the last day at CN. He also understands that Sai was thrown out by Virat, was misunderstood by him... He has though seen some good pictures of them in the room, which made him question Sai on their equation...So he assumed they have been happy as well....As a neutral person, knowing about the good days in a marriage and bad days as well, Samrat has seen a side of Virat who mistreats Sai and domestically abuses her as well, when he is angry with her...How is he wrong in saying that he should not be here... If Sai had a father he would have said the same thing...considering he knew, how she was being treated...Will Patralekha's father let this go if she was to leave the house, because she was mistreated and met an accident on the way...Just because Samrat is not Sai's own brother and has made his set of mistakes, does not mean he cant point it out...If Virat after throwing Sai out could have pointed the flaws of his criminal family, if he had the right then so do Samrat...

Regarding Pulkit, he was right its not about him... Today it was all about Virat, main kya karunga, main chinta karta hun, main parvaah karta hun.. and not any contemplation on how this girl was ready to leave her college, the college that she got on her merit, leave the city, to get back to the place, where her life, her virtue is always at danger...Zero Zero retrospection there...He is busy proving people , he cares... I am not able to understand it anymore...

And this is the family he wanted her to stay back, who still discuss about her ways of life, her mistakes, when she fighting for her life? Jo marte wakt usko nahi chorte zaleel karne se wo aise kya chorenge...He talked about this family...

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Knowing that Sai will go back to him, I am trying to find some meaning to what he says. Im not yet seeing what I want to see.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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How people blame samrat that he doesnot understand virat care for sai, Just because in 365 days 5 days virat keeps her happy and 360 days he torture her is not caring , the feeling he shows pakhi is called caring, he always supporting her even though he know her intentions, take stand for her and will also against his mom and wife for her, covering all her bad things from family all this is called caring ,

I truly wish vankar will show virat pakhi getting back together , and start a new story with sai, yes i know vankar has no such creative brain but what to do i am sick of these two,

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Not because of Virat self victimizing himself, Not because he still does not understand Pakhi's intentions, not because he still sits and chats with Pakhi, when he knows how much she hates the woman fighting for life, because in general, people dont want to see such people around them in such situations...

But does he still thinks it was Kadwaahat between them , Sai not understanding his feelings...He still fails to understand how he behaved with her after his transfer was cancelled...How he and Patralekha mocked her at every given chance...How he domestically abused her.. Nothing, no contemplation, no realisation...Nothing at all..

People blame Samrat for saying that Virat does not care for Sai, has done nothing for Sai...While watching the scene I thought he is saying all this because he has not seen the good phase and hence that is his impression of Virat and Sai's relationship... So he is wrongly blaming Virat.. But on giving a second thought I saw he has seen Virat misbehaving with her, domestically abusing her, ganging up with his ex to taunt her and he has not seen how she was treated the last day at CN. He also understands that Sai was thrown out by Virat, was misunderstood by him... He has though seen some good pictures of them in the room, which made him question Sai on their equation...So he assumed they have been happy as well....As a neutral person, knowing about the good days in a marriage and bad days as well, Samrat has seen a side of Virat who mistreats Sai and domestically abuses her as well, when he is angry with her...How is he wrong in saying that he should not be here... If Sai had a father he would have said the same thing...considering he knew, how she was being treated...Will Patralekha's father let this go if she was to leave the house, because she was mistreated and met an accident on the way...Just because Samrat is not Sai's own brother and has made his set of mistakes, does not mean he cant point it out...If Virat after throwing Sai out could have pointed the flaws of his criminal family, if he had the right then so do Samrat...

Regarding Pulkit, he was right its not about him... Today it was all about Virat, main kya karunga, main chinta karta hun, main parvaah karta hun.. and not any contemplation on how this girl was ready to leave her college, the college that she got on her merit, leave the city, to get back to the place, where her life, her virtue is always at danger...Zero Zero retrospection there...He is busy proving people , he cares... I am not able to understand it anymore...

And this is the family he wanted her to stay back, who still discuss about her ways of life, her mistakes, when she fighting for her life? Jo marte wakt usko nahi chorte zaleel karne se wo aise kya chorenge...He talked about this family...

Viraat is such a jerk and a loser yaar 💔 I wish no girl get such a man in her life . It's not good for her

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I am equally appalled.

Brain surgery done without Anesthesia?

Dr Pulkit Deshpande is a multidisciplinary Dr I feel. The only Dr/Prof in Sai's college. I am sure if he will turn into a gynaec/Obstetrician for Sai when the time comes.😳

I am sure he will say to Virat: Iske zimmedar bhi tum ho!🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago
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And in whole accident track I had yearned to hear “Meri Sai” dialogue from him

But still he is stuck on himself😭

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: scarlett22

Knowing that Sai will go back to him, I am trying to find some meaning to what he says. Im not yet seeing what I want to see.

Exactly. All his words seem empty at the moment because they don't corroborate with his actions

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Posted: 3 years ago
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In the precap also Virat is back to self victimization. Sam told correctly that Sai might be his wife legally but he have never given her the position. Because always his best friend grabs that one. Even to be with him in the hospital she had to fight. I don't blame Sam for questioning him because since the day he returned what he saw made him to conclude.

Regarding pulkit he has every right to question virat because last time he had promised that he will never repeat his doings but what did vaada boy do he ended up breaking the promise.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Asmi,


I liked how you brought up Samrat's responsibility. I agree and I am glad he questioned as a brother. I have few questions which I would like to ask to understand what might be driving each character.


I genuinely would love to get answers for 4 points below (for now). These questions does not mean I discredit anyone's opinion. they are genuinely my questions to understand the characters, in case I am missing anything. So please dont take it personal.


1. Samrat is a nice person. He likes Sai too. But will he not be biased in judging Virat, because he is in the same boat as Sai? He cant look at Virat objectively. can he? Only whatever little he has seen of Virat and Sai he will base his judgement on him. Besides, he is the one who noticed VIrat's love for Sai as soon as he returned CN till cafe incident.


2. Virat has no introspection, that is sad. But if he 'believes' Sai doesnt love him, just cares for him then what he should do? what options he will have other than to leave her? Will any man or woman who have fallen in love with the other person maintain a platonic relationship staying close? Will they not be miserable? So if Virat wants to move away from her to give her peace and also to stay in peace, why is it his selfishness?


3. He did, for few days showed his displeasure from his anniversary hurt. He did behave selfishly. I was also disappointed that he forgot his basic duties towards Sai. But why cant we just see it as his helplessness to deal with his heartbreak? Any human being will go through it. Judging his love for these things is not fair.


4. He DOESNT draw a line with Pakhi. I agree. I am pissed off too, he should learn to shoo her off. But if he doesnt even think Sai should get effected (Yes he is dumb, and stupid and all because he thinks he is clear enough on his status with pakhi), what should he do? Someone has to guide him, or he should realize it. May be till now, he did not realize due to his stupidity. If a person doesnt know he is committing a mistake, then how will he correct it? If he doesnt realize soon, he will lose Sai. But is his realization tied to the purity of love he has for Sai?


In short, I am able to understand there is no respect for Sai in this relationship because he will let others walk on her, eventhough there are ample instances he stood by her. But will this one 'not able to shut pakhi in front of her' discredit his love? Their marriage might not work because of this because Sai is a girl with self respect, but doubting his love on this one aspect is unfair is what I believe.


I am just trying to say love and respect are 2 different things. Here, he is failing in respect only in one aspect. Also, lack of understanding which is compounded due to insecurities might cause people to discredit the others and cross the line. But based on this, is it correct to devaluing the genuine feelings?


I am tagging only 3 here, because I am sad that I am on the other side of opinion from these friends of mine :)

Edited by sadiltl - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sagi.

I am equally appalled.

Brain surgery done without Anesthesia?

Dr Pulkit Deshpande is a multidisciplinary Dr I feel. The only Dr/Prof in Sai's college. I am sure if he will turn into a gynaec/Obstetrician for Sai when the time comes.😳

I am sure he will say to Virat: Iske zimmedar bhi tum ho!🤣

PUlkit ka toh randomness samajh nahi aata...I am still trying to understand what is his actual expertise...

@bold Iska zimmedaar koi aur ko usne bola toh Virat with get into Hulk to power Hulk mode...

Edited by asmi_joya - 3 years ago

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