Dear buddy Samar

First of all I would like to congratulate him for his new hair cut🤣

and for being the sweet and caring ( and funny) mumma’s boy.

His ghatiya friend joke yesterday was too good and also the way he gave it back to his mummy’s ex-husband was praiseworthy👏.

Today he did even better, how he thanked Anuj for giving his mum the respect she never got before... It was quite cute when he said he thought it might be awkward and how Anuj reassured him that he’ll take care of his mum hereon.

When they hugged I was like

Paaaaapaaaaaa... future wale🤣🤣🤣

and the way Anu saw and appreciated their warmth and cute bond was another shot of future happy family.

I wouldnt want Anuj to take on a fathers role, he should be a friend and mum’s husband, baap banna is not necessary... friend hi thik hai aur uncle toh please kabhi mat bulana🤣 or he’d be like uncle kisko bola be🤣

So yeah Samar you reserve a round of applause for treating us to a few cute scenes 👏👏👏 they are definitely a lot better than your scenes with your Nandu.

Yeah i agree. Taking on father's role wld not be necessary coz in bw they showed vanraj showering some love towards samar like on his b'day and all. Let's see how they take vanraj and samar relation further. Plus that line lot better than ur scenes with nandu 😂😂💯😂😂

I feel Anuj and Samar should have a father son bond.We all want Anupama and Anuj to get married to get the love of a life partner which she was deprived of from 25 years,similarly, even Samar has never got father's love from Vanraj.He has got only insults and anger and scolding from him just like Anu.Like how Vanraj changes his colours in case of Anu, he does the same thing with Samar.In yesterday's episode flashback,Vanraj was so excited for Pakhi's birthday, he printed invitations and all,but he used to not even remember Samar's birthday?I mean which father does that?It was still fine if he did not remember any kids birthday but getting exited for 2 of his children's birthday and forgetting one's birthday is heights of differentiation done by parent to his children.,and that too just because Samar chose to chase his passion and not do what Vanraj wanted like Toshu.

Like how Anu will get her due respect,love from Anuj,even Samar will be getting the warmth of a father's love from him,which is Samar's due.

Yes Samar never had that with Vanraj and he looks up to Anuj as the father he never had and more as the partner his mum never had but is it fair on Anuj to take on the father's role? not that he has any qualms taking it up, I say he's be more than welcoming to play papa to his Anu's beta but is is it fair to expect that from him?

When a woman remarries and has kids from her previous marriage, is it necessary for the new husband to treat her kids like a father or can he just be accepting and treat them like an important part of his wife's life? just a by- the-way question😳

This question can be valid for Toshu and Pakhi as they look upto Vanraj and love him more than Anu,but as far as Samar is concerned, he hates Vanraj and Vanraj can't force him to love him atleast after what he has done to him all these years.Blood relation will be there between Vanraj and Samar but the heart to heart connection that exists between any father and son,will be with Anuj.

Regarding the step parent thing,it is upto the individual's thinking or wish about the relation they want to have with his wife(in this case).And seeing their bond now,it is sure that Anuj will accept Samar as his own son in the future.

And I feel that Samar would be attached to anyone who cares or respects his mother,not only Anuj.

I think the latter. You shouldn't overstep your boundaries with your wife's children. Especially if the father is in the picture. But if the father is actually useless as a father, you could step into that role with the child's permission, especially if it's an adult child.

I agree. After taxic SaNan scenes, watching Samar as momma’s boy scenes feel so good😀

I don’t care what he calls Anuj as long as Mamaji nahi bulaye, what matters is Anuj filling the space in his life which V left void 😀

Like in this case..my whole post was with perspective to how Samar,Anuj and Vanraj are.

Samar will respect him as his role model as it was said regarding becoming father or not thatz there choice as anywways dil ke rishtey zabardasti nahi bante

in samar case he can find anuj as a protector guider friend role model who can guide him help him and most importantly love him for what he is not the way vanraj wanted and telling his son looser nachaniya what not that father figure he hated he can find him as a person the bond which he has missed so many years .

Pakhi and toshu will not accept him as his father thatz sure for them he will be same as kavya is for them .. there dad second wife kavya only they tell not aunty

Pakhi may see the difference later as now she is realising how her father behaving and she is silent but going to function and everywhey and don't hate anuj means she likes him and don't have that issue baki aage ka pata nahi uska role to kuch zada hi flip karta hain

Toshu Anuj ko accept kare ya na kare, Anuj should definitely try to parent him on every matter.

Paakihi I dont know, she is still a papa ki laadli and they might use that in the furture against Anuj.

Hum toh aise decide kar rahe hai jaise MaAn ki shadi kal hai and we are deciding dahej mein konse bacche jayenge 🤣