This was soooo needed!!!(link updated) - Page 4

Originally posted by: black.snowflake

WELL DONE DEBA!!!!

I just came back from tt, but later on that.

People often forget that being an 'actor' is a profession. You work, create work bonds, make friends, create memories, enhance your skills, learn and grow. This you would do in any profession, right? You can be a teacher, a techie or an actor. If you dont share your personal details in your office space why do we expect actors to? Would you comment on a co-workers friends outside work? Would you comment on their marital status? Would you call them out for any of the mentioned before. No one will.

But people dont get it. They feel because they chose to spend their time hyping someone, doing trends or asking for MV's they 'own' that person. Really?

The girl broke down. I keep thinking, those comments on Vatsal were so vile and in a public domain, what would be in DM's? From her live it was very evident that its not just one friend and its extended to her family too. Who gives us the right? When did we leave basic human decency?

The girl lashed out because the 'toxicity' of the fans pushed her. She was the one who used to generously share fan edits even if they were shakhi/devir edits to show appreciation. She was pushed by people to do this. And yes, what right do we have to link her to someone so much so that we do not 'ALLOW' her to have friends or bash her family. People needed this reality check.

This required courage. She has 2 MV's lined up. No actor would want to do this right now. I am just imagining how much mental pressure fans had caused her to do this.She went off IG because she just could not do this.

This is all so sad. I hope that at least now some “fans” better understand actors and how to draw a line between characters and real life personas. I’ve never understood this haq that some fans feel they have over actors’ lives , bordering OCD. It really does take a lot of courage to stand up and speak for oneself , especially in a PR driven industry like this. Deba needs all our love, support and encouragement in whatever her upcoming projects are.

I feel so lucky to be part of IF which mostly has as a sane , mature audience who appreciate actors for their craft instead of obsessively gossiping about their personal lives. Privacy is a lost cause , especially with Social Media. But people need to understand to maintain basic decency and decorum while using it .SM should be a medium to interact , encourage and if necessary critique. But unfortunately it has largely become a platform to mentally abuse, harass and gossip about people. This toxic love and obsession of some fans exactly reminds me of Devi 🙄🤪

Kudos to Deba for doing this! Much needed!🙌❤️

Originally posted by: mallukumari

This KV comparison takes the fact that he’s a man out of the equation. Also he’s more established. This type of fandom craziness will hurt her more in the long run.

It seems many fans didn’t learn anything about women empowerment from saakk. They’re all acting like Devi!!

Absolutely! The vile comments some fans are making about her being an 'opportunist' completely reminds me of Devi's dialogue's. While people should be reflecting on how their actions have affected someone's mental health, they are talking about her tone and actions.

Who are these women? How dare they!

Honestly, male actors and female actors are a completely different space. It may sound wrong but its the truth.

Originally posted by: nilmi

She is a real jugni real Anokhi....glad that she is being genuine and express her real opinion here....even though this can affect her popularity in a negative way..

.I would do the same... I like her I don’t care what people think about me as long as I am true and honest to myself attitude...

Now media and people will make their own stories...somethings never change like ITV...

Originally posted by: Dumpling

I think she should hire PR to look after her accounts to keep her self sane .She took a stand for herself that was really needed .But this is just start n part n parcel of being in limelight.And true fans will stay with her no matter what. Everone has ri8 to vent out their anger why not her ? Now fans saying why she blaming entire fandom .

Omg grow up people.

Hats off to KV for handling this madness so well n i respect him more now as to why he is protecting his family.

Poor girls mum made her account private .🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: -Snow-White-

Ye kya padh liya maine...

Really ??

Kab hua..

O god....ooooo god....

As deba says....

Bohut hi lame tha bohut zyada lame tha....

Y r u dragging that bechari wd a family man ? Dono taraf ka problem hoga .. hadd hai...

Kv to sarcastic way mein karega . . Pata nahi .. samajh mein ata bhi hai ... Fans ko ?? He said clearly it's Shakhi and Nothing...

Aur kya kya proof chahiye bhai ??

There was never anything required. They were friends. If we all here could see it, so could people there. They just did not want to. Honestly you remember a couple of days ago we thought why and then said F it, apne ko kya?!...Now i can see why?

The comments i am reading on tt are making me mad as a woman. How can people say such BS for a woman who is just teaching people to behave with her.

Originally posted by: divine_16

It's so obvious re....media and some so called fans have got their masala to cook up stories....But I wish after this the shipping takes rest.But what I fear...will Deba agree to anymore Devir IV...or lives???Hum jo genuine fans hai...unko suffer karna padega...

There is one tomorrow...lets see...if it gets cancelled, we shall know. :(

Arghhhh...why are people so ?!?!

Originally posted by: divine_16

It's so obvious re....media and some so called fans have got their masala to cook up stories....But I wish after this the shipping takes rest.But what I fear...will Deba agree to anymore Devir IV...or lives???Hum jo genuine fans hai...unko suffer karna padega...

Kv mentioned about in talks about another MV in his AskKV, and also in last week’s IV he said MV ka Bhandar Khul gaya, now if Deba rethinks about that because of the hate messages, not sure ..

I don’t understand these so called fans , they sent nasty messages to Vatsal , Aakash and her mom it seems , she mentioned in past that they are like her support system , if it gets effected she will be mentally disturbed a lot , hope she works with KV and give us nice MVs or serial or web series

Originally posted by: divine_16

The voice recording....made it terrible for me.Yaar!! she was crying ,she was chocking.Now I want to ask those fans who was bashing her for generalizing them and hurting them...are they happy now...they have succeeded in making her break down...BRAVO!!!This is the way a girl treats another girl...lovely!!!

I just listened to it. the girl was crying. People are just horrible. We find comments horrible, the DM's must be a notch higher.

Frankly speaking. The way she reacted is not good for herself. She will be doing new serials/ work soon and negative publicity does not sit well. And those Devir shippers would.not have stood the test of time. I remember when IPKKND was on there was all this Arshi shipping. Maybe social media was ot too toxic then.

Being in the public eye is not easy, she is new, inexperienced and should have asked for advice about how to go about this matter.

Hope there are no backlashes.