Bajaj-fans, I am sorry :-(

When I first joined I-F, I was pro-Bajaj because he looks sexy. Then seeing the way Anurag fought the blows of life, I realised that looks aren't everything, the person's character and mental strength matters, and I started liking anurag, though I do not find ceznnae khan attractive.

On this forum, there were always 2 groups- pro-bajaj and pro-anurag.

Bajaj has often done immoral acts and bajaj-fans always justified that.
I felt anurag-fans were different. So far, they never had to justify anurag , simply because anurag never did anything immoral !
But now, when UDI is wrong and anurag is supporting UDI, very few anurag fans are criticizing anurag and udi.
Many anurag fans are supporting anurag and worse still, even udi...
Anurag also spoke about shravan's blood. When Bajaj had spoken about sneha's blood, bajaj-fans didn't support him . but now 99 % of anurag-fans justify what anurag said. Now it is entirely shravan's fault !

I am sorry Bajaj-fans...I know most of u hate me now (Especially manasi no1fanofornit and ronitfan) but I am really sorry. I guess I was too harsh on your group and on bajaj. Now there is no difference between Bajaj-fans and anurag-fans, and no difference between bajaj and anurag. Both are selfish men with a weak sense of morality. I used to think that bajaj-fans don't have any morals and anurag-fans are righteous but now I feel bajaj-fans were more balanced even during their support for bajaj.

'paralyzed for life'....I know what it's like because one of my relatives (mom's aunt) was paralyzed for life. She was in her 70s,she had become paralyzed due to age....and passed away 4 years ago. I had seen the pain that these patients go thr', because I would go to meet her often, even when she was in hospital (50 % of time she would be in hospital) that is why I feel so bad- for anybody going thr' it..
In death, a person dies only once, being paralyzed, tushar will die everyday.

I have lost respect for anurag and prerna and I hate Udi . The new prerna-udi kzk poster that is being shown everyday- udi and prerna look like a dracula and vampire in it, enjoying tushar's blood and blaming it all on aparna.

I have become a synic, a neutral viewer now. Perhaps I'll start liking Bajaj again (at least he is hot!) but right now I don't like Bajaj because he still has many short-comings..

Bajaj-fans, is there any way I can make it up to your group? I'll complete my story if u want...
and to the anurag-fans (those who have condemned udi and hoped that anurag does the right thing now)... hats off to all of u...I really respect u.
I just wish all anurag-fans had done that...

Sincerely,
From Tulip

Aww...Tulip yaar..
I never HATED you..
I am ready to forgive you..chill:)

i really want u to continue ur story write-up tulip!

i don hate u.. but ...............

its ok ... no problem

ive always been a silent member at kzk forum...it was somtimes depressing to see u guys fight...but its good now 😊

Hey Tulip,

Yes, there are two camps, Anurag camp, and Bajaj camp, in the beginning when I joined this forum, I said that I was a fan of both the actors, and both the characters, as noone is right 100% of the time, and no one is wrong 100% of the time, what I think Ekta is protraying is that life is not black and white, its grey, sometimes we have to commit a lesser degree of evil to fend of the greater one, its all relative, sometimes its clear who is the villain and who is not, its all subjective.

Just because someone likes one actor doesn't mean that they are as righteous or not righteous in real life.
Everyone has their opinions, and to some people it will seem like what Prerna and Anurag are doing is right, but I think what they mean to say is what the two are doing, they understand, they are not giving consent to it, myself, and i know a lot of other anurag fans think what UD did was horrible and should pay for his crimes (i know they are not real, but you know what i mean), and i think most people are just saying they understand the actions of all the main characters, and noone of them support what UD did.

Noone hated you, all the misunderstandings started I think with me, so I always feel compelled to apologize to you, for what happened in the past.

I wish we had gotten off to a better start, but I hope we can understand each other better. I always considered myself neutral on the two characters, but I wrote that if it made things easier, i'd choose a camp, but irregardless, i always made a conscious note not to confuse people, members of this forum with their opinion and the character they supported.

Infact, all my friends are from the various camps, Namrata, nishtha, indogirl, so many ofthem is are Anurag fans, but there's more to her, than just that, when I talk to her, I forget she is an anu fan and the same goes with Bajaj fans like Prachi, and Manasi and the rest.
So, never feel that u must side with a camp, you are your own person, and we love you irregardless of what character you perfer, plus, if we all liked the same guy, he would be too high on himself, and we'd have to fight each other, atleast we make it easier, and split it into two people.
lots oflove, jess

also, its very sad to hear about your aunt, i hope stem cell research continues to progress after reeves death.

Sometimes, we don't realize heroes live amongst us.

everyone has its own liiking n disliking so u should be sorry bout anything but ya always remeber on e thing that one should'nt hurt anyone

I won't lie & say that I didn't hate u...I did. Infact when u started posting again I was not very happy. Everytime I open a post by u (even this one) I clench my fists & think "Now what???" I would like to divulge a secret here. When u started posting again, prachi had written ur name in friends at IF in the sarrkkar slam book. I hated u so much that i made her delete ur name😳

When we had that arugument, I was new as a mod...i was very eager to please everyone..esp anu-fans coz i knew bajajians will always remain my friends regardless of what i do as a mod. But with anu-fans I had no rapport...so i did tend to be more critical of posts made by bajajians. Now, i can balance my duties as a mod & my views as a member much more efficiently...I'm more secure of my position (coz my senior & co-mods support me completely) & also more efficient. Earlier I used to be apologetic about editing/closing any post, but now I do everything with a conviction that comes only from experiance.

As far as the two 'camps' are concerned, its just that we evaluate the story from two diametriacally opposite views. Instead of judging ppl by their favourites, we should judge ppl by how well they behave on the section...do they abuse any member, do they fight a lot, do they disrupt the peace here??? Because it doesn't matter who we like. Jessie & Suchi both are anurag fans, but that doesn't make them any less closer to me than khushi or seeya. Yeah of course, my best friend at IF is a Ronit fan. Both camps have got fanatics who are ready to justify everything done by their favs & we should accept the fact that ppl always defend their choices.

Even in my house, I & ma argue every single day abt Anurag & Bajaj. My mother likes both Cezzane & Ronit as actors & likes neither Anuag nor Bajaj. What she minds is the way I defend Bajaj in everything & I tell her that I'm here to see Ronit Roy acting & see the character of Bajaj happy in whatever way. I'm not here to defend or like the person who may be morally right...I care a damn abt ethics & morals coz this is fiction...not real.

I would like to take this opportunity to request everyone not to get confused between the actors & characters. Every person has a right to have her own fav & defend him. I may be finding anurag fans irrational & they might be finding me irrational. But that doesn't imply that either are irrational. We should be friends with sum1 for what they ARE, not what they LIKE. Whatever Anurag & Bajaj might be doing or feeling, we should not indulge in mud-slinging here. All of us are here to enjoy & we should give others the freedom of supporting a character without calling them biased or double-faced

OK now enough of my bhaashan.

tulip, we are of course ready to have u back as our friend & I would love to read ur story again. I still have ur 1st six parts saved on my PC😊7th I didn't get to read😭 so please post it & do visit our spl topic THE RONITIAN HUB

Yeah Tulip!!
Lets all get back together and make the HUB rock!!!:))