It’s spilling over !!! - Page 5

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I love it when devar bhabhi connection comes into fore in front of the whole family. It makes Patralekha squirm

And your favourite (Virat) too, 😆(DIdi)😉

I really don't think that family has an issue with VirAkhi past/and if they cont in the present/future despite their respective spouses - they only feel uncomfortable that Samrat can call a spade a spade outright and call the beast friends out on their twining behaviour!

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Virat's frustration was spilling over....and I think I'm even okay with him not wanting to call Sai back....he atleast let her go instead of keeping her tied. But I don't understand his sky high expectations when he didn't even fulfill his end of the bargain in this relationship - basic requirement to be faithful - and not have a diaturbing relationship with his ex. There is no respect for Sai.

And his arrogance that Sai will not be able to manage without him - I would have given it benefit of doubt as coming from his anger. But I feel he did mean it. He is using the fact that Sai is an orphan to his advantages- thinks he is her saviour - despite Sai being financially independent. Imagine if she had been completely dependent - Ashwini-Ninad all over again.

He is definitely suffering from savior syndrome and it boosts his ego. When Sai asked for her bank documents back , and he finally figured Sai was leaving it hurt his big bad ego again and he let Didi talk BS to Devi and is hoping for worst things for Sai. He needs therapy🤬

Nice post!

The mujhe kya mila hai..part in today's episode was very disturbing, what are they trying to indicate? If he gets what he wants will he be what he was before the anniversary track or this whole sequence would repeat in a cycle where he'd be ok with her till the point he has a free hand in her life, finances and decisions? Did he not promise to stand by her till she became independent? Now that she's trying to be independent because they can't stand each other this is a problem? What a person wants in their life is totally their choice, there's only so much any partner can meddle w.r.t career and finances when the other half believes in being independent. It's a trait you either learn to accommodate slowly, day by day to survive together and not mock to see when the other will fall.

Even if we forget everything, the fact that he does not want to try and ensure her safety from the very goons he married to save her from indicates a very conceptual, weak, selfish & delusional love in his head. Plus he wants her to suffer for trying to live alone away from his abusive family?! What kind of hero narrative he has in his head while playing the victim is something only he can understand!

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Virat's frustration was spilling over....and I think I'm even okay with him not wanting to call Sai back....he atleast let her go instead of keeping her tied. But I don't understand his sky high expectations when he didn't even fulfill his end of the bargain in this relationship - basic requirement to be faithful - and not have a diaturbing relationship with his ex. There is no respect for Sai.

And his arrogance that Sai will not be able to manage without him - I would have given it benefit of doubt as coming from his anger. But I feel he did mean it. He is using the fact that Sai is an orphan to his advantages- thinks he is her saviour - despite Sai being financially independent. Imagine if she had been completely dependent - Ashwini-Ninad all over again.

I said this aeons ago in Nja posts and in laksh's posts. I hdn't watched KD, nor knew the story (then)

I had barely watched a few clips of this show on IG (🙈😆) - but that much was crystal clear to me.

I knew it then that he's going to be a worse case of Ninand bcz of his saviour complex, insecurities etc etc.

He wants her to experience what it's like living w/out family....like duh...that's how she's been all her life.

And it was much better, than living amongst the horror story he calls his own family. Selfish, disgusting, immoral, spineless people who purposefully made a member feel like an outsider from the get go...to be amongst them and be so alone is much more crushing.🤢

I wish Sai had listened to Pulkit and stayed in the accommodation he provided, put her head down and studied. Everyone knows she's married - wherever she goes....and show these Cnians what she can do.

Then again to detoxify herself of what she's undergone in 1yr will probably take a few 😡lifetimes. So her decision to leave is also wise.

I wish there was no accident and after she completed her studies maybe when enroute to somewhere the accident could've happened...then SaiRat meet.....but alas....

Originally posted by: Sofna

And your favourite (Virat) too, 😆(DIdi)😉

I really don't think that family has an issue with VirAkhi past/and if they cont in the present/future despite their respective spouses - they only feel uncomfortable that Samrat can call a spade a spade outright and call the beast friends out on their twining behaviour!

yes that’s because Kaku n Sonali are not related to virat or samrat by blood .. they have no real love for either of them .. whether pakhi does it with virat ( married to samrat ) who cares .. it is just enough to put Sai down who they dislike ..

Shivani feels bad ..and Mansi is silly does not understand ..

I really want to see the pregnancy track which balloons ib their face

What Virat needs to understand is that every marriage is like a car ( love being symbolic to car and household here)which runs on four tyres. If one of them is punctured the car is useless and even if it is carried on the life and smoothness is gone

The tyres of car are - trust understanding respect and faithfulness

Let’s talk about this each individually

1. Trust - Virat doubted Sai and her intentions so many times prime example being ajinkya incident

2. Understanding - he never tried to understand her but always ignored her words and told her to adjust. Has he even for once been her shoulder to cry after loosing her father and only family?

3. Respect - how many times has his “family” and pakhi insulted sai in front of him and he kept quiet?

4. Faithfulness - I am not even going to say anything except the joke that is being created of relationship of pakhi and Virat

Originally posted by: msin

yes that’s because Kaku n Sonali are not related to virat or samrat by blood .. they have no real love for either of them .. whether pakhi does it with virat ( married to samrat ) who cares .. it is just enough to put Sai down who they dislike ..

Shivani feels bad ..and Mansi is silly does not understand ..

I really want to see the pregnancy track which balloons ib their face

Is she going to tell the entire family that Virat made her pregnant?

I thought it would be between the 4 of them only

Don't hold any hopes.

Virat will always find an excuse for her behaviour.