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The episode belonged to Samrat … he had been away for 1 year .. a very rosy picture had been shown to him .. but thankfully he’s seeing through the rose tinted glasses

Sai had not told him much but he could understand her pain .. shivani , ashwini failed to see it ..


I am glad virat is not holding himself back .. his anger , his stubbornness is all spilling out ..

He feels he is the only person capable of giving a family to Sai .. duniya me akele hona .. he’s right that when a girl is left alone .. the predators pounce on her .. So going to gadchiroli was not. Great decision of Sai .. but girls do go out and study in hostels .. with pulkit n Devyani Sai has made a family who truly care for her ..


She was alone in Chavan niwas .. nobody other than Devyani understood her ..
Just like she was the only person in CNiwas who understood Devyani.


With samrat I am happy that he’s asking the right probing questions and he’s seeing the dirty side of patralekha… he told her properly.. that the way she behaves with the powerful elders is different with how she behaves with the weaker folks


I was missing Mohit a lot today … when Kaku did the jargon .. Sai cannot see other people’s happiness and is jealous bla bla bla .. I want to say .. hai kya app logo me to be jealous ..

Useless nikamme log who sit in the house gossiping and bullying all day ..nobody knows them .. they hold no office .. nobody comes to visit them ..


I am glad Devyani and samrat told virat that Sai was unhappy in the marriage and that’s why she left ..

I loved the precap ..

samrat bringing the devar bhabhi connection with regards to Sai’s leaving was the right thing ..


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

The episode belonged to Samrat … he had been away for 1 year .. a very rosy picture had been shown to him .. but thankfully he’s seeing through the rose tinted glasses

Sai had not told him much but he could understand her pain .. shivani , ashwini failed to see it ..


I am glad virat is not holding himself back .. his anger , his stubbornness is all spilling out ..

He feels he is the only person capable of giving a family to Sai .. duniya me akele hona .. he’s right that when a girl is left alone .. the predators pounce on her .. So going to gadchiroli was not. Great decision of Sai .. but girls do go out and study in hostels .. with pulkit n Devyani Sai has made a family who truly care for her ..


She was alone in Chavan niwas .. nobody other than Devyani understood her ..
Just like she was the only person in CNiwas who understood Devyani.


With samrat I am happy that he’s asking the right probing questions and he’s seeing the dirty side of patralekha… he told her properly.. that the way she behaves with the powerful elders is different with how she behaves with the weaker folks


I was missing Mohit a lot today … when Kaku did the jargon .. Sai cannot see other people’s happiness and is jealous bla bla bla .. I want to say .. hai kya app logo me to be jealous ..

Useless nikamme log who sit in the house gossiping and bullying all day ..nobody knows them .. they hold no office .. nobody comes to visit them ..


I am glad Devyani and samrat told virat that Sai was unhappy in the marriage and that’s why she left ..

I loved the precap ..

samrat bringing the devar bhabhi connection with regards to Sai’s leaving was the right thing ..


I love it when devar bhabhi connection comes into fore in front of the whole family. It makes Patralekha squirm

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Exactly he thinks Sai cannot do without him... You know separation and leap was needed... This man thinks do highly of himself... So highly..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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There is Virat who does not want to forget his insult all his life...went ahead to insult and harass her with his ex..and he claims to love her... Claims of undying love for her..


There is Sai who wants to forget and forgive him for the bad things and just remember the good ones and she has stll not realised her love...


There is a Virat who loves Sai wishing fate of loneliness for her since he left his family...and importance of family...clearly knowing fate has been unfair to her with no parents no family at such a youn age..


There is a selfish Sai who before leaving prayed to Bappa for his well being and happy life...


Virat's love is nothing but spousal expectations.. it was put in his mind by Sunny that it's love...It's not love... He would not let his disgusting ex torture her... Talk nonsense about her if it was love... Imagine this man is not even concerned she has left her college to go to GC, with no one with her and Jagtap and his family residing.. Not even worried about her safety...I don't want him to go after her... But show some concern..But no in his ego he threw the letter as well...


Everything about him now screams.. run away Sai ... You will get better men ...better family... You would be treasured...But sigh she will come back to 'this so full of himself' husband..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Exactly he thinks Sai cannot do without him... You know separation and leap was needed... This man thinks do highly of himself... So highly..


Yes that’s why I am not happy with the accident… it would have been better if Sai had left .. even better if she had left for a better medical college in Pune , Mumbai

she could have met virat after 2-3 years

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Virat's frustration was spilling over....and I think I'm even okay with him not wanting to call Sai back....he atleast let her go instead of keeping her tied. But I don't understand his sky high expectations when he didn't even fulfill his end of the bargain in this relationship - basic requirement to be faithful - and not have a diaturbing relationship with his ex. There is no respect for Sai.

And his arrogance that Sai will not be able to manage without him - I would have given it benefit of doubt as coming from his anger. But I feel he did mean it. He is using the fact that Sai is an orphan to his advantages- thinks he is her saviour - despite Sai being financially independent. Imagine if she had been completely dependent - Ashwini-Ninad all over again.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin


Yes that’s why I am not happy with the accident… it would have been better if Sai had left .. even better if she had left for a better medical college in Pune , Mumbai

she could have met virat after 2-3 years

This would have been so much better. And even after 2-3 years, she was doing well independently. Virat should know that he is not her only family. Sai Joshi connects with people and makes her own family.

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I was just thinking that what kind of pathetic lives the Chavans lead. They think they're some great people. Fact is that they do nothing apart from sitting at home and criticising their own family members. As you said, they hold no post, no office and still the ghamand. The only person who holds some position, look at how his life is. His relationship with his Bhabhi is out in the open and anyone at home can can point fingers at it. He has allowed Pakhi to interfere in his matters. Kya tamasha ban gaya hai Virat ke life ka.

Aise logon ke saath rehne se behtar hai ki Sai leads her life like an orphan. This "parivaar" and their so called "pyaar" suits only people like Virat and Pakhi. And what makes me sad is that Sai is going to return to this toxicity. A separation was needed at this point in the story.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Virat's frustration was spilling over....and I think I'm even okay with him not wanting to call Sai back....he atleast let her go instead of keeping her tied. But I don't understand his sky high expectations when he didn't even fulfill his end of the bargain in this relationship - basic requirement to be faithful - and not have a diaturbing relationship with his ex. There is no respect for Sai.

And his arrogance that Sai will not be able to manage without him - I would have given it benefit of doubt as coming from his anger. But I feel he did mean it. He is using the fact that Sai is an orphan to his advantages- thinks he is her saviour - despite Sai being financially independent. Imagine if she had been completely dependent - Ashwini-Ninad all over again.



that’s why I am not happy with the accident .. as it is Sai is very young in this marriage . If they had separated and shown a leap of 3-4 years it would have been good .. Sai could have got back her confidence.. the maturity to deal with these uncles and aunties

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Virat's frustration was spilling over....and I think I'm even okay with him not wanting to call Sai back....he atleast let her go instead of keeping her tied. But I don't understand his sky high expectations when he didn't even fulfill his end of the bargain in this relationship - basic requirement to be faithful - and not have a diaturbing relationship with his ex. There is no respect for Sai.

And his arrogance that Sai will not be able to manage without him - I would have given it benefit of doubt as coming from his anger. But I feel he did mean it. He is using the fact that Sai is an orphan to his advantages- thinks he is her saviour - despite Sai being financially independent. Imagine if she had been completely dependent - Ashwini-Ninad all over again.

@bold - Just like how he said it was his money when she wanted to buy food, he would have said that she booked a cab and bus ticket with his money

I think her being financially independent added up to his frustration. The way he said she took away her Dad’s financial documents which he was taking care of. I never used to think he has a saviour complex but these are forcing me to think. He would have liked it if she kept him on a pedestal, making him take care of her Dad’s documents, of her education, her life 👏 but when she didn’t, he said he did whatever she has asked him to but what did he get. Right, she didn’t do a Pooja that he has done so many ehsaan on her.

For the first time I am bringing this up. Has this selfish guy ever realised that if not for her Dad, he wouldn’t be alive today? And he wants to know what he got from her. She lost the only family for him to be standing in CN today to abuse her. I just hope that Sai doesn’t return to this man. I do wish the girl understands that it is not love and even if she loves him, this guy doesn’t deserve it. A guy who was/is least interested about her safety but instead says that she has to learn lessons by living alone doesn’t deserve her love. Parivaar? Which family is he talking about? Misconception ki bhi had hothi hai. She is better off without such a toxic family including himself. The girl thinks he was the only one who brought happiness and smile on her face after her Dad, the sad reality is that he was the one who brought tears and misery into her life too. He is capable of saying he never got anything after getting so much from her but even after having to face humiliation/abuse by him, she could only feel that he was the only one who made her happy.

Let him drown in his misery even when he is alive, she will drown in her happiness even when she is in death bed.

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