Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #96 Tommy Dev & Chilkoza Jaanu - Page 71

Originally posted by: deeps07

I am wondering if he saw the same episode as us. 🤔

Forget answers..I didn't even get the questions yet ..😕🤪..

Though not related to shivis progression...Some answers we learned from today's episode is that divorce is not a one day thing...shiva and ravi having a headache becz of hearing..and suman is not faking ..🤪

yeah even I am surprised.. till yesterday I was thinking Suman was kidding just to instigate Raavi but after today’s episode I was like… “bhai ye to serious nikli”

Even I am confused we did not get any answers…and yes in civil courts both parties needed to be present else they will postpone…even if Shiva did appear in court.. I don’t think they will get divorce there itself..Anita has already voiced this out… it will take sometime…this is first hearing… both parties will be heard.. both lawyers will discuss…terms of divorce will be discussed… then on mutual consent divorce gets finalized… Indian legal system make sure to give enough amount of time to rethink the decision… unless it involves physical violence.. and I am pretty sure none of them will raise the point of consummation…which is also a valid reason for divorce…

so it won’t happen that early.. I think since they split in front of whole town.. they will patch up again in front of everyone…that’s how they are…their fights, their marriage, their separation, their divorce is talk of the town so why not their patch up…

did anybody see Janardan here closely??

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CUNqoAlqcS3/?utm_medium=copy_link

there is a cloth tied around his neck… like someone tried to cover his mouth to kidnap him or keep him hostage… I guess Shiva and Gautam took him hostage or kidnapped him to make him get Krish released….

Let me try making sense of all bts and precap…

so Kirti will ask Krish for lift.. Krish will give it since Kirti is family… they are spotted by Janardan who get infuriated and stop them and slap krish hard across the face…

then he will take him to police station.. file a false complaint against him that he was trying to abduct his daughter .. police will give him third degree on janardan insistence.. Dhara will get to know and run to reach police station but faint on road… someone will identify her or may be Gautam and Dev were passing by and spot her.. ultimately Gautam gets worried and run taking Dhara in his arms.. Shiva will also get to know while he was in court with Raavi and he will ride that bicycle to reach there faster.. Dhara wakes up and tells all of them about Krish’s arrest … and then they all will be enraged and confront Janardan … this is overheard by Rishita and she will approach Kirti to know the full truth… when she comes to know this she will request Kirti to come to police station to give statement but Janardan will try to stop them and then Pandya brothers overpower him and held him hostage so that Kirti can reach and give her statement…

this is about Krish jail kaand..what will happen in divorce hearing absolutely no idea…

Originally posted by: deeps07

I am wondering if he saw the same episode as us. 🤔

Forget answers..I didn't even get the questions yet ..😕🤪..

Though not related to shivis progression...Some answers we learned from today's episode is that divorce is not a one day thing...shiva and ravi having a headache becz of hearing..and suman is not faking ..🤪

Divorce is not a one day process is known to many in the real world and even to Anita in PS. It’s only Mami and Suman are clueless about the whole process😕

I still don’t understand the concept of going so low to bring their love story back up. KM had misunderstandings, fights, their story was a slow burn as well but never went to the extent of divorce. I really don’t like the twisted way of thinking of hindi TV serial writers and the audience. I find some of my regional shows to be much more progressive and relatable.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Divorce is not a one day process is known to many in the real world and even to Anita in PS. It’s only Mami and Suman are clueless about the whole process😕

I still don’t understand the concept of going so low to bring their love story back up. KM had misunderstandings, fights, their story was a slow burn as well but never went to the extent of divorce. I really don’t like the twisted way of thinking of hindi TV serial writers and the audience. I find some of my regional shows to be much more progressive and relatable.

if they don’t show divorce then how will they prove Dhara’s decision was wrong… Dhara’s mahaanta has crossed all wordly boundaries…if everything goes well in Raavi-Shiva relationship then she will be praised for her doordarshita(long vision or power to see future) …

now she is at least taunted continuously for spoiling two lives due to her stupidity …I am happy in this only …

she is the one who started all this.. had she have sense to talk to Dev before organizing haldi function instead of surprising him with already printed wedding cards… none of this would have happened… (not to absolve Dev from his wrongdoings but this is also a fact that he was caught off guard)

as for shiva raavi relationship ..,it was needed… their relationship has become too toxic at that point…Raavi kept on chanting about adjustment and compromises…Shiva started liking her but was scared to admit that and then later all things started affecting him hitting his self confidence in this relationship to shreds…

honestly and personally I am in favor of this divorce and then remarriage….

I have not watched the OG or regional shows but whatever I have gathered reading here… it seems that Shiva-Raavi versions there do not hate each other guts this much like here… Shiva is more hot headed in hindi version and Raavi is also air headed here whereas I heard that Mullai was pretty well balanced character…

Originally posted by: mpks1

Divorce is not a one day process is known to many in the real world and even to Anita in PS. It’s only Mami and Suman are clueless about the whole process😕

I still don’t understand the concept of going so low to bring their love story back up. KM had misunderstandings, fights, their story was a slow burn as well but never went to the extent of divorce. I really don’t like the twisted way of thinking of hindi TV serial writers and the audience. I find some of my regional shows to be much more progressive and relatable.

Real world we knw..but we can't be sure abt itv..some shows show divorce in a day with just a signature..some people are just too rich in itv to attend court for divorce. 🤪🤪. Some shows show the detailed proceedings building up drama and some final day twist..so we can't be sure with the kind of budget PS people are on, what would they opt for. 😆

I come from kerala..from what I have seen from the malayalam version clips,I find them leading a simpler life..relatable yes to an extend for me..Its just not my type.. I find the characters either too sweet or too whiney ..so I keep off from it..I like a mix of everything..I want emotions to be relatable than the tracks...I find shivas and ravis emotions here relatable..they both feel everything so deeply, I like that....their anger..their tantrums..their reactions..their vulnerability...their fights..their pain..their hopelessness..everything is so deep in them ...I like understanding emotions.. the deeper it is ,the more I enjoy..though the drag is damn painful and frutsrating. I can't object that I am loving the time they give to let it sink on us the depth of the different emotions they go thru..if I minus the useless filler scenes, and just filter the shivi part, i would say it is pretty much a beautiful story.

PS.. I dnt watch any OG version..so I can't really say abt them..but generally speaking I prefer hindi shows..

Haveli days se mujhe iss baat se problem hai ki saare paiso ka theka dhara ko kyu de rkha hai?

Itne saare instances ho gye jha dekha gya hai ki everyone in the family should have their share of money.

1. Rishita ka parcel worth rs 2000.

2. Dev is coming and giving extra money to dhara( jeera kaand)

3. Rs 7000 guy ( dhara in hospital)

4. Dhara giving money to Rishita for Suman's medicines and dev asking money for the same purpose.



I mean Rishita is right chote mote kharcho ke liye bhi dhara se paise maangne pdte hai which is not right.

Dev and shiva both are married now or uske baad bhi ye log paise maangenge so then how these two are supposed to look after their wives when they are financially dependent on dhara.

Both dev and shiva also work at shop so both of them have right on the money and it's high time gautam should divide the money among the family members. They have to ask money even for the petty expenses.



Basically dhara se paise maango or phir obviously usse reason bhi btao ki paise kyu chaiye to kuch privacy hai ya nhi 😶 or dhara aisi hai bhi nhi ki agr usse koi paise maangne aaya to wo bina kuch puche de degi uske paiso ke piche ka pura bio data chaiye hoga.



Or kitna conveniently dhara ka bangle kaand khtm kr diya. dhara ne bangles laakr Rishita ko de diye or wo sahi ho gyi and gautam is telling Rishita ki dhara ne soch samjhkar nhi dilaya hoga. Seriously na hi Rishita bachii hai or na hi dhara uski maa.



Gautam is also not a practical human. He has also a habit to take things lightly and solve it without knowing the feelings behind the matter.

Mtlb Rishita ko bol rhe hai ki tujhe paise main de dunga hr mahine. Wo kehna kya chahti hai wo to samjho. Ye sb bolkr use hi glt dikha dete hai.

Maybe ye already discuss ho gya hoga as I didn't go through the previous pages of this edt bit i want to vent out my frustration so here I m posting my opinion

Originally posted by: Anushka_31

Haveli days se mujhe iss baat se problem hai ki saare paiso ka theka dhara ko kyu de rkha hai?

Itne saare instances ho gye jha dekha gya hai ki everyone in the family should have their share of money.

1. Rishita ka parcel worth rs 2000.

2. Dev is coming and giving extra money to dhara( jeera kaand)

3. Rs 7000 guy ( dhara in hospital)

4. Dhara giving money to Rishita for Suman's medicines and dev asking money for the same purpose.



I mean Rishita is right chote mote kharcho ke liye bhi dhara se paise maangne pdte hai which is not right.

Dev and shiva both are married now or uske baad bhi ye log paise maangenge so then how these two are supposed to look after their wives when they are financially dependent on dhara.

Both dev and shiva also work at shop so both of them have right on the money and it's high time gautam should divide the money among the family members. They have to ask money even for the petty expenses.



Basically dhara se paise maango or phir obviously usse reason bhi btao ki paise kyu chaiye to kuch privacy hai ya nhi 😶 or dhara aisi hai bhi nhi ki agr usse koi paise maangne aaya to wo bina kuch puche de degi uske paiso ke piche ka pura bio data chaiye hoga.



Or kitna conveniently dhara ka bangle kaand khtm kr diya. dhara ne bangles laakr Rishita ko de diye or wo sahi ho gyi and gautam is telling Rishita ki dhara ne soch samjhkar nhi dilaya hoga. Seriously na hi Rishita bachii hai or na hi dhara uski maa.



Gautam is also not a practical human. He has also a habit to take things lightly and solve it without knowing the feelings behind the matter.

Mtlb Rishita ko bol rhe hai ki tujhe paise main de dunga hr mahine. Wo kehna kya chahti hai wo to samjho. Ye sb bolkr use hi glt dikha dete hai.

Maybe ye already discuss ho gya hoga as I didn't go through the previous pages of this edt bit i want to vent out my frustration so here I m posting my opinion

you are absolutely correct…earlier dhara used to handle finances because she is handling responsibilities of shop as well as home along with Gautam … and rest are kids… now since they have grown up..and married as well there should be some petty cash given to all … everyone should have enough cash among themselves for their own expenses… Rishita is raising a valid point… Dhara has to change with time…

it will also help others to understand the financial situation of the house… how come even though they handle accounts of the shop, they are not aware of financial crisis…

I know its been discussed a lot in the EDT but aj jb dhara ne bola k raavi ko tujhse koi problem ni h usse teri insecurity se problem h ..usse lgta h k tujhe inferiority complex h…

and shiva didn’t react to mje yhi lga that I was assuming correct… he is not insecure …he just simply thinks that he is not what Raavi wanted and she will be compromising by staying with him…if Raavi just once says that she loves him and really want to stay with him… then every other thing won’t matter for him… neither clothes nor anything… its always because Raavi herself said that she has a problem with his tel-masala smelly persona .. when he asked her to stay away and be happy that he is staying away from her as he is jungli, jahil and gawaar… she plainly replied that she has become habitual of it.. and he replied back saying there is no need to become habitual…

he just doesn’t want to be her majboori, her compromise

I think that is his only issue… but he is not someone who will clarify his stance…

Originally posted by: mpks1

Divorce is not a one day process is known to many in the real world and even to Anita in PS. It’s only Mami and Suman are clueless about the whole process😕

I still don’t understand the concept of going so low to bring their love story back up. KM had misunderstandings, fights, their story was a slow burn as well but never went to the extent of divorce. I really don’t like the twisted way of thinking of hindi TV serial writers and the audience. I find some of my regional shows to be much more progressive and relatable.

Yeah, I’m not really liking how they brought about the divorce track. It’s been so exhausting and draining… and the lack of meaningful communication between them… those two need to learn the best course of action is speaking up to each other, I'd rather that come through them and not some external source like an NDE or from Bhabi forcing them

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Yeah, I’m not really liking how they brought about the divorce track. It’s been so exhausting and draining… and the lack of meaningful communication between them… those two need to learn the best course of action is speaking up to each other, I'd rather that come through them and not some external source like an NDE or from Bhabi forcing them

I agree few of us have discussed in the previous EDTs back in July when this whole thing started that divorce should not be an option right away. We wanted meaningful conversations and we have gotten only 1 so far that too it was during the haveli track. Nothing since Sneha kaand and diary kaand.
So are you implying that the NDE we will get to see of BhabiMa next week will bring them together?

I won’t be able to accept it all.

If at all there is going to be a NDE, I want it for Shiva this time, let me see who saves him or they all let him go.

If there is no NDE planned, they want use Bhabi to bring them together, I want it to be Rishita, not Dhara,

Dhara has done enough damage already and Rishita is more practical which might work. I also liked how he doesn’t respond to Dhara’s questions anymore but right away gave an explanation to Rishita about what Raavi and him were doing. He also understood what Rishita was trying to sayi and responded to her. I have a feeling she might be the unbiased mediator they need at this time. Hoping for more ShiRi scenes than ShiRa scenes.