Originally posted by: Pottermeow
This reminds of a track in an old Gul Khan show... When the MLs ex-gf, who dumped him, runs away from her wedding, she comes to his place for refuge from her family.... Everyone in the MLs family assumed that she was the one dumped, and the ML never opened up about the breakup, so after she reveals the truth and the mother almost has a heart attack over the fact that her HEERA BETA was dumped, they do a comic sequence where all three brothers imagine their mother's cooing HEERA BETA, RAJA BETA, at them...
In the end, they end up agreeing with the ex-gf though....
Point being..... Someone disable the wheels on Suman Pandya's wheelchair, tie down Dhara bhabhi maa to a chair the way those robbers did, lock the two of them in a room and force them to watch it....
I know the show you are talking about… few of the Gul khan shows are really something… she made some masterpieces….nowadays even she lost her edge…
Well Suman is wrong but her perspective of things stems out of lot of different factors:
her age, her educational background( a little yes but still)
her upbringing, her neighborhood and not to forget the fact that her husband and now her son never reveal anything about financial difficulties they are facing…
I guess her pride in her sons do not come from the fact that they are man (atleast I hope so) … she boasts of how well cultured they are… she was the one who slapped Shiva and Krish when she got to know how they scared Rishita.. or she pushed Shiva when she got to know how he raised questions on Raavi’s character… she even asked Shiva to leave ..I think that since Dhara raised a point that Shiva is insecure and has inferiority complex.. she is not able to take it well…
I am pretty sure she is not angry on Raavi for the slap.. otherwise she wouldn’t be waiting desperately for Raavi to come for Janmashtami function…she was sympathetic towards raavi at the wedding…she is pissed with Raavi for the stunt she pulled on Janmashtami by bringing ashes of the lehanga….. and though Raavi was instigated she didn’t know the complete story … if I were at her place even I would have felt embarrassed… I am not denying Shiva wasn’t wrong in that mic kaand…but he was instigated by Maami and she was right there ..
then the very next day Raavi barged in the home claiming her rights.. her intentions were pure but still for an old timer like Suman.. its a lot to take on…
she somewhat made her peace with the fact that Raavi is back.. she too wants both of them to solve their issues..but as she said things have gone out of hand…
when Dhara talked about Raavi’s reasoning… she cannot take it and to prove her point she made a reference of diamond vs glass… who said what? who made more hurtful statements if we go in that discussion… then both are the culprits.. Raavi has also said a lot of hurtful things post their marriage to Shiva.. she barely said anything to Dev who wronged her.. and even took sometime to confront Dhara but all of her anger she directed towards Shiva…
when we talk about their verbal exchanges we only think about recent conversations what about earlier one?
agreed that marriage shouldn’t have happened… Shiva himself admitted that when he married her , he never thought anything will bother him since they hated each other so whatever she says he barely cared.. but when he started caring for her… and infact liking her… all those past statements, her diary, her friends everything hit him double hard… he tried to maintain his distance…but that mannat kaand was the final nail in the coffin for him…
This is not to defend Suman..she is wrong at times… but just to make sense of her statement…
I might be completely wrong though…