How is samrat ghar ka bada beta .. ??? - Page 5

I’m sorry but the thinking is regressive to say the least. Mansi’s blood will always be the same and Samrat will always have half of her genes. What is this Y chromosome carries genes forward mentality?

In fact the only thing that Chavans have done right is that Mansi is not treated like an outsider and Virat and Samrat are considered sons of the family. I used to think that my family is orthodox but sigh...internet teaches you many things. A child is born to both his parents - he belongs the same amount to his mother’s family as he does to his father’s family. Hinduism is in fact one of the most adapting and fluid religions - more tolerant than most. To say these things in today’s world is shocking to me.

I am the younger daughter of my parents and I recently did my father’s last rites - my elder sister was too pregnant to do it. My entire family supported me while all the outsiders wanted my nephew/son or son in law to do it. But you know what? I did do the last rites because it was my right as my parents’ daughter. This y gene stuff is just patriarchal behavior propagated in the guise of religion. I’m a very religious person but human feelings and relationships are above things that might/might not have been true centuries ago.

If in case you would have only said that Devi should have done the rituals as she is the eldest, I would have whole heartedly supported her.

On one hand we want Sai to not change her name, Virat to stop controlling her every move Just because he is a man and on the other we say that Samrat is not the eldest son because he is the daughter’s son. How hypocritical of us.

FYI, the y chromosome is much more rapidly disappearing than the X chromosome. The earth will most probably not survive till then but it’s worth thinking that this chromosome might be the one which disappears the fastest.

Another mind blasting logic of Chavans that Didi is their bahu even though didi is wife of their daughter's son but but but Sai is not their bahu even though she is wife of their son's son... 👏 matlab yeh serial aapne masala k liye pure India traditions ko khatam kar ke hi manenge... Pehle se hi devar bhabhi k relation ka bharta bana k rakha hua hai....

Originally posted by: oblivious_soul

Bold- Truly be MAN of the house? The man talk is the internalized misogyny speaking. Only this makes you a man or that makes you man is regressive thinking. Calling someone who can move out and bulid an own house a man is outdated thinking. Samrat is a good human from whatever we have see until now. But equating everything to him earning to being a man is regressive

Man of the house .. is not male .. it’s the responsible adult if the house .. let’s assume today .. Mansi gets struck down by a deadly disease .. no matter what the cost is it her brothers responsibility to take her to the doctor .. get her operated .. and the the brothers wife responsibly to take care of her ..

Today if any thing happens to Kaku if Devyani was alright .. pulkit n Devyani would have shouldered the responsibility of taking care of them …

Samrat by just sending money has shrugged of his duties ..

I live abroad and I am a girl .. but when my dad had a heart surgery me or my sister had to be there during operation .. because his own brother ( my uncle ) refused to take the responsibility.( and he was not wrong) . inspite of my mom being there .. my sister had to travel during covid times . So it’s easier said than done .. samrat has been highly selfish not because he was away … he gave no address to his whereabouts.. he was presumed dead or missing .. and there’s no going about it ..

When he was in the army he should have moved out of his mama’s house and taken his mom along … .. he himself told patralekha that the house belongs to his mama’s ..

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

I’m sorry but the thinking is regressive to say the least. Mansi’s blood will always be the same and Samrat will always have half of her genes. What is this Y chromosome carries genes forward mentality?

In fact the only thing that Chavans have done right is that Mansi is not treated like an outsider and Virat and Samrat are considered sons of the family. I used to think that my family is orthodox but sigh...internet teaches you many things. A child is born to both his parents - he belongs the same amount to his mother’s family as he does to his father’s family. Hinduism is in fact one of the most adapting and fluid religions - more tolerant than most. To say these things in today’s world is shocking to me.

I am the younger daughter of my parents and I recently did my father’s last rites - my elder sister was too pregnant to do it. My entire family supported me while all the outsiders wanted my nephew/son or son in law to do it. But you know what? I did do the last rites because it was my right as my parents’ daughter. This y gene stuff is just patriarchal behavior propagated in the guise of religion. I’m a very religious person but human feelings and relationships are above things that might/might not have been true centuries ago.

If in case you would have only said that Devi should have done the rituals as she is the eldest, I would have whole heartedly supported her.

On one hand we want Sai to not change her name, Virat to stop controlling her every move Just because he is a man and on the other we say that Samrat is not the eldest son because he is the daughter’s son. How hypocritical of us.

FYI, the y chromosome is much more rapidly disappearing than the X chromosome. The earth will most probably not survive till then but it’s worth thinking that this chromosome might be the one which disappears the fastest.

Yes of course .. but the point is samrat has not contributed a penny towards building that house .. he himself told patralekha this house belongs to his uncles .. and when he was away .. the evil trio were discussing his pension schemes .. if he was their own .. .. they would have stopped patralekha from cosying upto virat long ago ..the very idea of sending patralekha to Ladakh with virat would not have come .. if they had any ounce of loyalty towards their nephew ..

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Virat is actually Chavan ghar ka bada beta but here it is according to convenience.

Somewhere Salunkhe uncle aka Mansi's husband must be turning in his grave.

Yeah I think it was mentioned after mansi bua's husband's death her in-laws treated her really badly so she left with samrat. Must say that Samrat's father must be turning in his grave seeing what his family did to his wife and son, and the kind of bahu he got, or that despite having a son his lineage will not go on

Can you imagine if by some miracle samrat and mansi are called back to their real family, maybe via some will of mansi bua's husband (because how on earth can mansi not have any right over her late husband's home or property or something?), then pakhi would have to leave chavan house 🤣

Originally posted by: QNefertiti

Mansi bhi utni hi offspring hai apne father ki jitna Ninad aur Omi 😛Jab Samrat yaha bachpan se rahta hai aur uska paternal family nahi hai to wo usko kyo feel karwayenge ki wo ghar ka beta nahi hai? 😅 Ye to achi bat hai na ki daughter ke bete ko bhi respect milti hai? yaha to wo log regressive nahi hai ki daughter hai to uske son ka koi right nahi hai, only beto ka right hai Aisa nahi dikha rahe

This family is regressive and progressive as per writers convenience to keep the non-bahu pakhi of the house relevant in the house and story 🤪

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

I did not see her accepting Pullu or giving him the respect he deserves.. even during Harinee's birthday she wasn't willingly hugging a child.. her own grand daughter. Ghum is a vicious cycle of regression and abuse.. Even Ninad's harmonium effects were momentary..

Arre all the progressiveness of this family is just for pakhi didi, so that pakhi didi can be called fave bahu of the house and roam around her devar. 🤪

Originally posted by: QNefertiti

Samrat ne Mahabaleshwar me bola tha ki usne apni family ke liye enough money arrange kiya hai jisse unko life me koi problem nahi hogi aur wo Pakhi ko cheque book dekar gaya tha uski mom ke liye to wo freeloader nahi hai aur wo Jab army me tha tab bhi uski mom yahi rahti thi kyunki ye Mansi ka utna hi ghar hai jitna Ninad aur Omi ka hai aur ye log Mansi aur Samrat ko wo respect bhi dete hain

I swear both sons of this house have an abnormal amount of money. How on earth can Samrat afford to already have enough money arranged to keep his mother financially stable for the rest of her remaining years? Yeh samrat koi dhanda karta hai kya? 🤣

Originally posted by: chirpy_life19

What's the point in changing Samrat's surname to Chavan from Salunkhe when Mr.Salunkhe was a nice man and has never disowned his wife and son? Isn't it like insulting his paternal side of the family especially his father? Mansi dresses in light color sarees with simple jewelry showing grief for her husband's absence this means she had a good relationship with Mr.Salunkhe.

What an absurd mindset. A woman can adorn her life with all kinds of colors and embellishments while still continue to remember her dead husband. The two things are exclusive and have no correlation whatsoever.

Originally posted by: sammy17

I swear both sons of this house have an abnormal amount of money. How on earth can Samrat afford to already have enough money arranged to keep his mother financially stable for the rest of her remaining years? Yeh samrat koi dhanda karta hai kya? 🤣

Un log ko bas batana rahta hai ki kiske pas kya hai jaise Shivani ke pas expensive cars hain, Samrat ko Kam karte bhi dikhaya apne laptop par. Agar uski paternal family hoti to unke sath rahta lekin shayad uske father bhi army me honge to unka bhi sab Samrat ka hi hai, Mansi ko jo mila wo bhi iska...only child