About myself - Page 3

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I understand that some of us relate to some traits of these characters and sympathize with them ..its.perfectly fine. You can have your opinion . I wish this place was a little more adjusting to everybody's views. sometimes I post but I am scared of the reaction ..mostly I love reading everybody's opinion n watching the drama from afar..like I do with ghum..

I don't like virat nor do I love sai..I do like the episodic drama which has its good and bad days..since I watch it in a detached mode , I hardly care who ends up with who and who does what..😆 we can see..the content is thought provoking. That may be the reason people watch it everyday..

Virat may be doing despicable stuff but he isn't a bad person ..Sai may be wrong at times but she is pure at heart...

Cya around

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I agree it is a little scary to post here, especially if you want to support Virat

I think I will be outnumbered by at least 20 to 1 😜

I understand what you are trying to say,, sai is wrong at many times but still she gets away only because she never do it purposely and of course they show her intentions are always good (typical ITV),, there was an episode where she confronted virat nd pakhi of having relationship before marriage he denied anything like that and made sai as jhuti infront of his family and that was not sai who started this fight but it was pakhi then also virat ask sai to behave properly nd didn’t ask pakhi anything,, she always got blamed for using virat’s money by his family members nd that made her mad nd she denied having wife’s rights on virat,,, in short it was always CN people who made sai to behave rudely with virat but i have not seen she insulted him purposefully,,

You see for sai’s stubborn there is some good intentions nd like in devi’s marriage she was right in supporting devi nd going against virat,, but here virat locking her from going to college nd asking her to attend puja which she doesn’t think is genuine is absolutely hold no good intentions and so virat got bashed nd sai got praise

She can respect virat whether virat loves pakhi or not but pakhi is the one who is poking her nose in sai’s matter always nd insult her on every opportunity she gets and what does our virat sir do he stand still nd watch cat fight and then he utters one word sai behave nicely with pakhi,,, why he can’t stop pakhi from interfering sai’s life and this is one of the biggest reason sai is not trusting nd believing him and now loosing to respect him,, pakhi and virat wathever relation they share virat should not allow or tolerate pakhi’s unnecessary gyan or taunt on sai coz he is supposed to be her guardian he has to make sure no one from his side should talk in bad manner with sai even if it is his family members or it is pakhi,,, he is failed as guardian so sai started to disrespect him,, respect is a two way give and take,,, you can’t expect sai to respect virat when he is quietly watching her getting insult by his family nd pakhi.

Yes he is a human and that too an IPS if he will get frustrated so easily then how will he solve tricky cases,,, he is not very clearly listening to sai nd that is why he is confused,, sai is again nd again talking abt him nd pakhi now he should have understood that what is bothering her nd can make her understand calmly that he and pakhi doen not share relation anymore she is my brother’s wife thats it nothing more nothing less but only words will not help him he has to show this by his action also

I’m not supporting sai in all her act but yes i liked her giving back attitude whoever tries to insult her whether it is elders of the family or the ex of the ML,, like her no pleasing behaviour coz these things are little not acceptable on ITV a FL has to be mahan and sanskari and respectable towards ghar ke bade whether they treat you as shit you should behave nicely with them this is ITV nd liking sai is that one reason she calls spade a spade

And for virat i really got attracted towards his police uniform and a story about police officer and one of the reason I started to dislike this show that they made an IPS officer as sathiya’s Ahem who stands quiet nd doesn’t use his brain before speaking against his wife and now a days when he sides with pakhi and taunt sai is unbearable to watch. Other than uniform and police job i don’t like virat that much coz this is typical ITV ML who stands nd doesn’t use his brain. Give him some really good power pack dialogues in a good way, supporting sai or not is not the question but call out,,, if anybody whether they are your near ones or dear ones but if anything wrong is happening infront of you then take charge nd make them quiet like how samrat is doing now a days... what can I do I like strong ML nd strong FL

I also loved Sai when she stood up for her education and Kamal Joshi

the problem is all of Sai’s flaws are considered innocent mistakes or that someone provoked her while Virat is considered inhuman and mean.

People always misunderstand individuals who are inexpressive. The problem is we are not inexpressive by choice. It just doesn’t come naturally

just like Sai can’t stay quite and has to give her opinion, Virat cannot do it. But he did try try to clarify his stance on Pakhi but she just keeps saying “main maan hi nahi sakti”

Virat is just at his wits end.

I remember earlier episode when sai and virat was just married it was always CN people who instigate her if she was walking nd waiting for her result they question her,if she is having food then also they taunt her, if she is going to college they question her and then there is pakhi who always do chance pe dance, that red chilli grinding episode and there are many more incidents against sai which makes CN nd pakhi criminals but virat didn’t take action against them rather he was either standing quiet or supporting in favour of his CN people nd pakhi,, just imagine a girl is newly married whether deal mrg or real doesn’t matter but her in-laws treating her like that is so horrible to watch nd top of that an IPS is not questioning anything to his family members,, his ex is making that 19 year old girl life hell by interfering too much into her life,, all these thi gs should have been look after virat as a guardian

Sai’s mistakes are really made in this way that it will look unintended or instigated by CN people and some how this is true also if sai is walking they will question her, if she is standing they will question her, if she is eating they will question her, everytime calling her immature, jungli mulgi,, just imagine the mental torture sai has been gone through in the presence of an IPS at home

He didn’t angrily asked his family members in the name of some rituals they made a girl to grind chillies, he denied her food when she was going for lunch with pulkit ( sai not disclosing professor name was wrong nd virat was right here but again denying to give food is inhuman ),, then threw her out in the middle of night coz she was wrong there if this is not crime then what else, when he found out main culprit did he behaved in a same way no coz he loves his family so he didn’t threw kaka outside house but he can threw a girl out in the night if this is not crime then what else,,, being a police officer he didn’t accepted truth, he completely denied his nd pakhi relation infront of his family just to save the honour of pakhi he made sai a lier nd watched sai getting insult, then comes ajinkey episode where he trashed a college boy just bcoz he found his wife nd him close to each other.. he can be possessive nd jealous to this extent but if sai will question him about him nd pakhi holdings hand together in a cafe he will reply jo sochna hai soch lo but I’m not answerable to you and there comes a recent kaand where he locked sai inside room which has been called as a domestic violence by his own brother samrat if these are not inhuman act and crimes then what is called inhuman act nd crimes and there are many more but these are few highlighted

He is very expressive when he has to defend pakhi but inexpressive when it is sai

There is nothing between him nd pakhi we as an audience know coz we heard everything in the cafe but sai did she hear all those things...NO,, instead she witnessed him nd pakhi holding hands so she assumed something in her mind then comes his behaviour showing cold shoulder to her coz she hurts him during trip but nahh cold shoulder is not enough so he joined pakhi everytime she taunts her,,, two days back episode where pakhi was asking about separate sleeping arrangements there also virat was supporting towards pakhi nd was taunting sai with her,, now if virat will say there is nothing between him nd pakhi then how will she believes him after seeing him taunting her,, it is not that simple you say something nd do opposite nd want result 100% again actions speak louder than words,, virat has to act according to his word

You are missing my point

let me say it again at the risk of sounding repetitive because I’ve said this at least 4-5 times since yesterday

when Sai shouted at Virat recently, everyone supported her saying she was going through a lot.. unable to understand her feelings. She doesn’t know what to do and how to channel her emotions etc etc

all I am trying to say is that the same goes for Virat. He loves Sai but is in a state of shock after the anniversary incident; then Samrat came in and blamed him for his disappearance; Pakhi proposed the unthinkable; he wanted to move out but Sai got his transfer canceled and actually got hailed for it.

He is going through a lot. It is new for him too. He is not making the best judgment just like Sai.

but everyone here sympathizes with her and bashes him.

Again I repeat, Virat is also human. I am not saying he is God

can I ask you one question? Forget about Sai for a minute, do you think Virat is in a sad situation or is some kind of a mean individual who gets sadistic pleasure in torturing Sai?

Originally posted by: Simmi988

You are missing my point

let me say it again at the risk of sounding repetitive because I’ve said this at least 4-5 times since yesterday

when Sai shouted at Virat recently, everyone supported her saying she was going through a lot.. unable to understand her feelings. She doesn’t know what to do and how to channel her emotions etc etc

all I am trying to say is that the same goes for Virat. He loves Sai but is in a state of shock after the anniversary incident; then Samrat came in and blamed him for his disappearance; Pakhi proposed the unthinkable; he wanted to move out but Sai got his transfer canceled and actually got hailed for it.

He is going through a lot. It is new for him too. He is not making the best judgment just like Sai.

but everyone here sympathizes with her and bashes him.

Again I repeat, Virat is also human. I am not saying he is God

can I ask you one question? Forget about Sai for a minute, do you think Virat is in a sad situation or is some kind of a mean individual who gets sadistic pleasure in torturing Sai?

I think the problem was never Virat being angry.. The problem is Virat ganging up with an ex who has always been a problem between them..someone who understands insecurity against Sai.. Its not right... When Sai denied a Saree from his ex, he should have let it be, should not have brought the whole izzat nahi karti, khudgarz hai...He has never clarified in true sense what that relationship was to give such a huge vaada to both women.. Till date he allows his ex to enter the room without knocking, taunt his wife, call her names, she even got to call his wife Nurse and offer her money for taking care of her husband BTW...She gets to interfere in their personal matter, call out Sai for every little thing..Does not work like that.... Yes sometimes its good to keep quite, but one cannot endure the verbal abuse all the time.. that Pakhi and the family makes Sai go through...And we have seen when he wants to shut people, he shuts them, for instant dining table incident when they called them out and rightly so for discussing his transfer matter...

Again another problem that people see in Virat is how he treats her when he is angry..Recent incident locking her up in a room... And honestly if she did not escape she was probably locked for more than 4-5 hours and he was still not willing to open the door...Not just that when called out for it all being a domestic abuse, he said Sai forced him to lock her up... To teach her discipline he thinks its find to lock her inside, to deny her food, to throw her out...without zero ounce of guilt and regret...What is the point of apologising anyway when he gets to do the same thing... I am fine with hurtful words, but not violence...

You did not answer my question

forget Sai for a minute, do you think Virat is going through a stressful and unusual situation?

Has anyone cared to give him a hug and ask if he is ok?

Originally posted by: Simmi988

You did not answer my question

forget Sai for a minute, do you think Virat is going through a stressful and unusual situation?

Has anyone cared to give him a hug and ask if he is ok?

Both of them deserve it...Its not just Virat... Even Sai does..,,, But more than how do you conduct yourself in the moment of miseries is what I am talking about.. Also Virat is also 80% responsible for the problem he is facing..... And just because he is in a stressful situation does it give him the license to be abusive towards anybody? No RIght?

I would have sympathised with him if his stressful situation was not followed by his abusive behaviour, if it was not followed by his selective targeting. Tomorrow he will slap his wife and we can still say, he is in stress and he needs a hug..lets talk about that... Everyone here in this forum, have been pretty much understanding towards him until this moment...He was bashed only when he showed extreme anger towards his wife and her mistakes and let go the crimes of the other members of the family in a blink... and on top of that he has some double standards as far as his friends and his wife's friends are concerned.. Sai is also bashed for the right reasons, for her impulsiveness for her rudeness, for her brashness...Its just that Virat has committed more and graver mistakes or rather crimes...and not mistakes..