Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #95|Bhabhi Maa's Adbhut Pregnancy - Page 24

Originally posted by: Transference

Shiva & Raavi:

I have always loved how the creatives give them great screen space and tracks, even in family scenes. Their progress is organic and feels like a slow burn. Love it.

Shiva’s life had always revolved around Raavi; good, bad or ugly doesn't matter. She was the epicentre of his emotions.

In their first innings, Shiva migrated from hate to attraction towards Raavi, the girl-her spirit. The appeal was natural and organic. He got drawn in not to his wife but his chipkali.

In their second innings, he sees Raavi as a giver, a person beyond her shallow talks about looks as her airheadedness-a girl who can sacrifice and the love-a kinder girl.

You can be attracted, attached and connected to Someone despite Viewing them with the myopic vision.

Their second chance gives them space to explore each other without any baggage of compliance.

This ADJUSTMENT has allowed them to be in a neutral zone. They would realise slowly how they belong to each other.

I see your point about slow burn, and I'm not opposed to it per se...but my problem is the lack of follow up to important moments with delaying tactics.

Consider Shivi college scene. I thought that was to lay the foundation for Raavi to start knowing Shiva and appreciate his intelligence and sacrifice. But in the past week, there's been no follow up at all. Forget any conversation about it, Raavi hasn't even spared a single thought about it. Instead, they give us haldi lollipop

I'm sure it will come up sometime. But the impact of that scene is already reduced for me.

Originally posted by: Palak2812

I mean it isn't wrong right

Bcoz they aren't married for that long.

I don't want her to be in love with him from before.

She likes him was physically attracted but usse pehle kuch hota uss Sneha ne aakar kaand kar diya.

Apni mahaan Dhara di ke aage soche toh tab kuch hoga na

If she really meant she wanted to have physical relation with shiva even before having any feelings for him..I feel its weird..I mean. For a normal arranged marrg it's not weird..they r mentally prepared to imagine a life with their partner when they agree for marrg...which makes it easier to accept them.. But shiva and ravi are childhood nemesis..that kind of relation without any mutual feelings and affections makes me think she is being mechanical abt life...like shadi ho gayi..have physical relation..have kids..take care of cooking..husband take care of working..live until death comes...no space for emotions or connection between the couple..

Yes..sneha kandh changed everything.. but still ravi never acknowledged any difference befr that..she noticed shiva staring at her.. but she never thought why so..she remained dobby and never understood what he was going through..she was more or less living as it goes..if sneha hadn't happened and shiva had confessed to her that he has started having feelings for her,then maybe she would have given it a thought ..abt her own feelings.. but that didn't happen.. and things got so worse after that.. and the next thing we get abt her view is she wanted to be his.

I may sound ranting. It's just the whole ravis stand abt shivas feelings is messing up my mind right now..😆

Her anger towards him when he is so soft and caring..i feel it all comes frm the deep rooted anger she has becz he broke up with her..but how can such strong reactions happen when there is no deeper feelings for shiva.

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

those awards are beyond my understanding… how can Dev and Rishita got award but not Raavi and Shiva… like how ? 🤷🏽‍♀️

Money and contacts...could help..😆

Originally posted by: deeps07

If she really meant she wanted to have physical relation with shiva even before having any feelings for him..I feel its weird..I mean. For a normal arranged marrg it's not weird..they r mentally prepared to imagine a life with their partner when they agree for marrg...which makes it easier to accept them.. But shiva and ravi are childhood nemesis..that kind of relation without any mutual feelings and affections makes me think she is being mechanical abt life...like shadi ho gayi..have physical relation..have kids..take care of cooking..husband take care of working..live until death comes...no space for emotions or connection between the couple..

Yes..sneha kandh changed everything.. but still ravi never acknowledged any difference befr that..she noticed shiva staring at her.. but she never thought why so..she remained dobby and never understood what he was going through..she was more or less living as it goes..if sneha hadn't happened and shiva had confessed to her that he has started having feelings for her,then maybe she would have given it a thought ..abt her own feelings.. but that didn't happen.. and things got so worse after that.. and the next thing we get abt her view is she wanted to be his.

I may sound ranting. It's just the whole ravis stand abt shivas feelings is messing up my mind right now..😆

Her anger towards him when he is so soft and caring..i feel it all comes frm the deep rooted anger she has becz he broke up with her..but how can such strong reactions happen when there is no deeper feelings for shiva.

@Bold: I never said this

What Raavi wants no one knows

Originally posted by: Shadow_kira

I see your point about slow burn, and I'm not opposed to it per se...but my problem is the lack of follow up to important moments with delaying tactics.

Consider Shivi college scene. I thought that was to lay the foundation for Raavi to start knowing Shiva and appreciate his intelligence and sacrifice. But in the past week, there's been no follow up at all. Forget any conversation about it, Raavi hasn't even spared a single thought about it. Instead, they give us haldi lollipop

I'm sure it will come up sometime. But the impact of that scene is already reduced for me.

I think it's tough to balance an impact with all the characters. I hear you, but as I said, I don't have much issues with the Shivi storytelling at all.

I don't mind Raavi not trying to mend her relationship with Shiva, she thinks he doesn't want her. Shiva isn't trying to fix things with Raavi either, because he also thinks she doesn't want him. But at the same time he cares for her silently, watches over her while she sleeps, keeps thinking about her, is attracted to her, can't stop himself from going near her or touching her. All of this shows us that Shiva feels strongly for raavi.

But we get nothing of this sort from Raavi. She doesn't spare a second to think about Shiva. The fact that she is busy serving dhara shouldn't be an excuse. If she really felt strongly for him then he should have been more omnipresent in her thoughts.

Show, not tell should be the way to go. The writers have shown shiva's feelings to us, but with Raavi, they have just said it, with the dialogue "main uski hona chahti hoon, use apna banana chahti hoon". Which is why many of us simply cannot connect with her feelings for Shiva. Or even understand if they're there or not 😆

This makes me feel like there is no difference in the strength or intensity of her feelings for Shiva and her feelings for Dev. Dev said he didn't want her, so Raavi let him go and forgot all about him. Now Shiva said he doesn't want her, so Raavi again let him go and is willing to forget all about him 🤷

Raavi's expressions 🤣🤣 Alice nailed this ❤️ The way she was like "lemme just quickly serve him while he's distracted and the baingan will go unnoticed" 🤪 Honestly, I think the baingan would indeed have gone unnoticed if someone hadn't pointed it out 😲

Shiva kuch zyada hi cute the aaj, I wanna squish his cheeks 🤗

Raavi's smug smile *ahem ahem* and Shiva's instant scowl hehe 😈 (How good is KD ufff those expressions 🥰)

When I first noticed this, I laughed so hard, bechara put his food down after seeing the atrocious mood swings in front of him 🤣

This man has my heart; those soft looks...okie bye 🥺🥺💖

Originally posted by: Pottermeow

Sara!!! Did you know I love people with a savage streak?!! I do!!! Which means, I love youuuuu!!!!

PS Are you alright, I feel like you haven't been as active as you usually are, but I'm also nit sure if that's just because I haven't been that active for the last week or so.....

aww, I love me you too bub ❤️

I'm okay baba, how are you? 🤗

yes, I haven't been that active

I am still trying to find a balance b/w TT & IF 🤣

Originally posted by: blissfulcanyon

Raavi's expressions 🤣🤣 Alice nailed this ❤️ The way she was like "lemme just quickly serve him while he's distracted and the baingan will go unnoticed" 🤪 Honestly, I think the baingan would indeed have gone unnoticed if someone hadn't pointed it out 😲

Shiva kuch zyada hi cute the aaj, I wanna squish his cheeks 🤗

Raavi's smug smile *ahem ahem* and Shiva's instant scowl hehe 😈 (How good is KD ufff those expressions 🥰)

When I first noticed this, I laughed so hard, bechara put his food down after seeing the atrocious mood swing in front of him 🤣

This man has my heart; those soft looks...okie bye 🥺🥺💖

blisswa, thank you for this ❤️

Originally posted by: blissfulcanyon

Raavi's expressions 🤣🤣 Alice nailed this ❤️ The way she was like "lemme just quickly serve him while he's distracted and the baingan will go unnoticed" 🤪 Honestly, I think the baingan would indeed have gone unnoticed if someone hadn't pointed it out 😲

Shiva kuch zyada hi cute the aaj, I wanna squish his cheeks 🤗

Raavi's smug smile *ahem ahem* and Shiva's instant scowl hehe 😈 (How good is KD ufff those expressions 🥰)

When I first noticed this, I laughed so hard, bechara put his food down after seeing the atrocious mood swing in front of him 🤣

This man has my heart; those soft looks...okie bye 🥺🥺💖

KD ,can you please tell me the secret of those long,dense,black luscious locks? 🤩🤩🤩🤩