Plz clear my doubts - Page 2

Originally posted by: girdharmona

I rhink iska answer makers hi de skte h ki unhone aesa kyu bnaya ki el 19 sal ki ladki 28/30 sal ke ldke se forcefull sadi krke .

Usse kyu pyar kr rhi h .

Kyu uske piche apni life lga rhi h 😜😜😜😜

Hume to ye sb acha lg rha h osliye hum dekh rhe h

Choice is yours -/dekhna hai dekho nehi to ignore maaro 😎

I have actually watched from the beginning and i am unable to accept that an 18 year would rather fall in love with a 35 year old man tied to him by a forced marriage and eventhough she had opportunities and scope for a better career and all she would focus on this man who actually doesn't deserve her at all i mean it's just my point of view and no offence i don't like aditya one bit

Are you talking about Aditya or Gashmeer ?

If Gashmeer he is 36yrs . Aditya around 27-28 yrs . Who said after marriage, you can’t pursue your studies or career? Force marriage and married by match making more or less is that same , only the choice of words use makes it look differently.

Originally posted by: marshi

I have a question is aditya and imli's marriage legal ?

Also why didn't imlie only concentrate on her studies rather than getting entangled with everything when she knew aditiya's disdain for her initially also aditya doesnt deserve either malini or imlie both of them could do so much better than him beacuse he has never treated either of them the way they deserved to be i like kc character he is very realistic and practical as a 20 year girl i just find it absurd that imlie rather than totally focusing on her studies and career is getting in these things she is still young and i want to question malini too she is an independent amd intelligent women instead of running behind a coward and problematic man lyk aditya she can move forward groe both personally and professionally

In real world, Adi and Imlie’s marriage is very much legal. They were forced to marry, after that neither of them approached the court to dissolve that marriage, so it legally means they accept that marriage and it is very much legal.

Since, Adi and Malini are Hindus, religiously and Indian legal system doesn’t allow bigamy for Hindu religion, his marriage to Malini is not legal. Just because it was conducted religiously and in front of more people and publicized it doesn’t make it legal (in India) because Aditya was a married man when he married Malini. Their marriage actually falls under marriage fraud and bigamy, making it illegal.

In Imlie universe, nobody is batting an eyelid when Adi’s two marriages are mentioned, so don’t know if bigamy is legal in that universe or what legal system they are following,. The legality of both the marriage would actually depend only on TRP, audience preference and drama and not actual legal system.

Imlie is concentrating on her studies, she is shown studying and going to college. Just like how Adi is not shown going for work daily and working in office, and Malini not going to college or teach, Imlie’s college life is not shown much as it doesn’t affect the current narrative.
I don’t think much of Imlie’s college or career life would be shown in-depth as the show is more of a love story and family drama, it is not a college story or career story, and that is not the preference of the shows’s current target audience.

If you have been watching the show from the beginning, what opportunity did Imlie have in the beginning? All the opportunity she got she made use of it by studying with BK, Malini and Adi then when it was time to give her exams, she gave her exams. Once she passed her exams, she immediately joined college. If you are asking why Imlie stayed in T house when Adi treated her badly, because she didn’t have anywhere else to go. If she went back to her village then it would put Adi and his whole family in risk for the villagers would come to kill them for playing with Imlie. She couldn’t live by herself in Delhi as she had no money and she had no other support system there.

She had ended everything and decided to stay back in PD at one point, after that when she got shot and Adi himself took her back to Delhi as he decided to take her responsibility. That’s house she had come back after Adi’s marriage to Malini to T house. Imlie accepted her marriage to Adi but never asked Adi to accept her. Adi had to run behind Imlie to make her accept him.

Yes, Adi wronged both Malini and Imlie. He did a big crime, but that doesn’t mean he is irredeemable or he needs to be punished life long for one crime. Even when DC is going scot free after his crime, AC after the murder attempt of Imlie and kidnap of Adi, Malini after attempted drugging and rape, why is only Adi’s crime keeps getting recalled all the time?

Malini is not an independent person. She might be financially independent but emotionally she is not. She is still a lost child when it comes to handling her issues. I don’t think she intelligent also, but then that depends on one’s perspective.

regarding the age issue. As far I have deduced, Adi is around 28-29. Adi and Malini met in college and they were friends/lovers for 7 years. Even if they met on his final year of post graduation, he would be maximum 29-30 only.

Even if, Adi is 35 years old, if Imlie and Adi have no problem with their age difference why should we have? In real life also there are people with that age difference and they are happy with each other. Age doesn’t feature much in a marriage, it is compatibility, maturity and love that matters the most.

these are just my views, thoughts and deductions from the show, meant no offense to anyone.

Lovely post very well explained 👏

Originally posted by: zubaidah

I have actually watched from the beginning and i am unable to accept that an 18 year would rather fall in love with a 35 year old man tied to him by a forced marriage and eventhough she had opportunities and scope for a better career and all she would focus on this man who actually doesn't deserve her at all i mean it's just my point of view and no offence i don't like aditya one bit

Are you talking about Aditya or Gashmeer ?

If Gashmeer he is 36yrs . Aditya around 27-28 yrs . Who said after marriage, you can’t pursue your studies or career? Force marriage and married by match making more or less is that same , only the choice of words use makes it look differently.

Entire village conducting on the spot force marriage out of a regressive belief about men women hanging out late at night At Gun Point.. and two families coming together for an alliance by match making by wish and will is the same ,?? 👏

Entire village conducting on the spot force marriage out of a regressive belief about men women hanging out late at night At Gun Point.. and two families coming together for an alliance by match making by wish and will is the same ,?? 👏

Did the family ask the girl consent , if she like the guy ? Like it not , you must married this one person chosen by the family . I quoting this base on what I see in Choti Sardarni recently. In life we can’t compare every situation as the same . We need to analyse and circumstances before making any judgment.

Originally posted by: Apudip

Choice is yours -/dekhna hai dekho nehi to ignore maaro 😎

Exectly.

Kisi se bhi puchke ki aesa kyu ho rha h no use.

Makers will give reason.

So best its upto you watch or not simple.