Ex bahu out of the house concept...... - Page 3

Empowered Anupama will not be and need not be like Rakhee Dave. Rakhee treats everyone with contempt and with superiority.

That is why I said Anupama will learn to treat Vanraj and Kavya as EQUALS, she need not feel subservient to them as she used to, she will brush aside their pettiness not because of money or being Kavya’s boss at work but because she will realize her own value.

Inherent character does not change and Anupama’s will not either. One can be good and self confident, she will not need the family’s approbation, she will be self sufficient and confident in trusting her own worth. Doing that does not mean she will be disrespectful to Ba or insolent to Kavya, she will just hold her own with her head held high.

Originally posted by: khusboo2309

Keeping aside the regressive and jerk like behaviour of vanraj baa and Toshu......there is a very general demand in the society as well as in the forum that Anupama should move out from shah house.....but I ask why? Why only the bahu?

She served in that house and nurtured the family for 26 years....thinking it as her own...achanak ek husband namak prani usse bor ho gya and she is the one out of the house like a insect.....

Not only that if she goes to her own maternal house there are also beautiful people sitting in the name of brother's family......here I know anus family is shown good.....but this is generally not the case....she have to fight there too.....

And now people will say she can go and her career....but everyone knows this is not the easy task.....nor do everyone wants that.....many women in our society do want to stay in home......they can do any work inside the house but they won't go out......for them that's the best thing.....I have seen my own relative literally fighting with the female counterpart to introduce her to the outer world.....it's her choice to be a housewife......

My point why can't they say this....

" Yeah mera ghar hai.....main yeha rahungi.......apne man se chalungi.....kisi ko koi prob hai to darwaza khula hai.....aur tab bhi na mane to alimony main adha Ghar mag lo......"

But why to give the male easy way out....

What r u saying is true. But i also made a comment somewhere that Anupamaa should move out. i was thinking like that because staying there is making anupamaa a slave and baa , toshu, vanraj punching bag. If she move out, it will help her think clearly as other people will not be there to manipulate her.

@bold: If this happens, it will be amazing. But i think still many don't do that.

Originally posted by: 07RB

What r u saying is true. But i also made a comment somewhere that Anupamaa should move out. i was thinking like that because staying there is making anupamaa a slave and baa , toshu, vanraj punching bag. If she move out, it will help her think clearly as other people will not be there to manipulate her.

@bold: If this happens, it will be amazing. But i think still many don't do that.

I want Anupama to shift elsewhere away from that toxic environment

Originally posted by: magicalM

I want Anupama to shift elsewhere away from that toxic environment

For sure that too as soon as possible.

This kind of gives me anxiety as well thinking are in- laws like her real? what if i get saas like baa?