Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #92|Happy 200th Episode - Page 43

Originally posted by: deeps07

I agree with everything u said .I used to love suman and her sassyness..until janmashtami..I didn't even hate her much after the mandir kaandh when she blamed ravi for slapping him..becz she was angry with shiva when at first she heard abt what he did..she treated ravi the same as she did with shiva there..a little harsh..but that's her character. I accept.

But after that..she totally tore ravi out of her life...if that was not enough the janmashtami kaandh happened.. .I dnt understand her after that..she started the fight plainly becz she didn't want prafulla to sit on a particular seat.. thats what bullies do.. I find there character butchered here..I would have justified her if prafulla had started the fight with her usuals and in reaction suman got irritated and didn't want prafulla on that seat. But prafulla never said anything. That made suman bad for me...not grey. .the rest of the fight between them, both were equal contributors.

@bold..i understand this..I did notice sumans unhappy look when shiva didn't have enough food last night. The mother in her is being protective about her son..I can see that..I am not expecting her to support ravi..or go against shiva.. that would be out of her character too..but she could atleast be less hurtful to ravi...the girl really came back just for the sake of her family eating her pride..doing maid work..getting nothing in return..she can give her the minimum respect for that if not anything.

as per suman..ravi had made thamaasha abt her family by first slapping shiva. And then the dhol festival..and the latest burning legenga..

But for all three of these cases, her own son shiva was equally responsible for the thamaasha .

Slap shiva started.

Dhol ravi started.

Lehenga burning shiva started. Infact suman started but it was shivas announcement that Brough ravi to retaliate..

And today she just crossed the line, blaming ravi for not having some telepathy in knowing dev was having an affair with another women and would probably ditch her at the altar while gombi dhara and dev hid the truth from her..

I cannot justify that kind of mothers love..she is selfish and negative ..mothers love doesn't justify that.

She convientely forgot the Sawan Pooja incident.

Tab toh Raavi did nothing wrong still she went to Raavi saying how she didn't kept the respect of the family even when she did nothing instead got insulted.

Originally posted by: Palak2812

That what I am saying.

I am not saying that Prafulla is a better person but she gets called out. She gets back for her shit and she is called a villan but Suman gets nothing but respect, love and to whitewash her sons she put false allegations on those who did nothing wrong like Dhara and Raavi.

Atleast Prafulla doesn't go saying nonsense to Gaumbi, Krish and even Dev in this situation or others bcoz she is hurt seeing her daughter suffering unlike Suman who insults Raavi for no reason to show how great her sons are.

But prafulla used to do it all before leap palak..she was horrible to dhara and the three kids..

Yes she is the villain.. so I am not surprised and as much irked with her behaviour as much as I am with suman...I never expect anything good from prafulla. But for suman I had better expectations from her...thats the only reason..otherwise prafulla is as bad as suman. But what is a show without villains.. 😆

rishita is reverting back to her old ways - I now remember why I didn't like her at all

The music picking up when Raavi grabbed Shiva's hand had my whole heart. Sound dept delivering once in a blue moon :')

Originally posted by: deeps07

But prafulla used to do it all before leap palak..she was horrible to dhara and the three kids..

Yes she is the villain.. so I am not surprised and as much irked with her behaviour as much as I am with suman...I never expect anything good from prafulla. But for suman I had better expectations from her...thats the only reason..otherwise prafulla is as bad as suman. But what is a show without villains.. 😆

Pre leap toh Suman and Prafulla both were shit. It was soo much negativity to watch them.

@Bold: That is the problem na. Suman was 1 of my favourite post leap.

Dhara ko bohut chul machi Hoti hai ShiVi ke room mein jaake dekne ki She did the same when Shiva came home drunk..dekhna Kya chahti ho behen? Good she has has semi-sensible husband who stops her eavesdropping in THEIR room everytime! Iska Kuch nhi ho sakta

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

I feel suman today justed ranted out her frustration on raavi.

Like woman you can't understand that the guy you loved didn't love you back, and the guy who held your hand when you were abandoned and steadied you, you can't understand him either.

I feel suman felt for both shiva and raavi when they fought otherwise she wouldn't have thrown shiva out of the house but the whole family beating him, sidelining him, prafulla taunting him made her feel for shiva more.she is his mother after all.

Of course her way of talking and tone was very wrong.and raising the stick 🤦🤦

I hope they don't actually show suman beating one of the DIl one day.baat baat pe yahaan log maarne par utar ate hai 🤕🤕

Physical violence in this show is like second nature to everyone. Today Raavi threatened to hit Krish if he said anything and we see Suman raising her stick on Raavi until Dhara stopped her.

Yesterday Krish got it from Suman for scaring them all with his dangerous dream.

Not one day goes by in Pandya Niwas with somebody hitting another family member😕

I am just tired of repeatedly calling it and the makers don't do anything about it.

Originally posted by: Palak2812

I was talking about Suman not u

I was saying what Suman did with Raavi even in Dev's fault for me is too much to handle.

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I called Mami Better bcoz she gets called out for her wrong she is the villan of the show but Suman even after saying the shittest things and doing abuse as we have seen what she has done with Dhara too is respected and called as a better person bcoz she is a Pandya.

Who is??

Have u seen the forum today??

Everyone are calling her out...

B it I will take Suman over maami anyday.

Suman is frustrated bitter and at times like this she spills out her frustrations

But Maami wishes death upon People

Steals properties

Plots to take away livelihood

Suman supports her children n chastise them. She loved her children and chastised them in many episodes. Raavi has been loved too. Cant she be chastised too?

Is Raavi above being scolded n getting called out by the elders? Shiva have been called out in each episode by different members... Raavi ko do din se sunaya gaya hai and that is not ok!?

In a show every character will have their ups n downs.

Raavi will win everyone over because of her patience n kindness. But before that Suman has been shown as frustrated with Raavi so Raavi’s kindness can be highlighted...

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Suman had always been shown her sons ardent fan. She does scold Shiva Gautam n Krish though. She even pointed out to shiva ki what he did was wrong when they came from pooja. She even chastised krish gaumbi and Shiva for their mess in haveli. Suman has been a character who have spoken right many time and just because she is speaking non sense now doesn’t mean she is evil. Her karma is clean even if her words r bitter. N also even at her worsh Suman has never wished death upon others unlike maami who hoped for Raavi to become vidhwa so there is no comparison between two.

At one point Suman has ardently supported RaavI. In Haveli u see her loving Raavi. During wedding after wedding also when Raavi shouts on Shiva for kidnapping MU, suman still say Raavi will be respected here.

But this is not just Suman, this is Suman a mother, who is watching Shiva suffer too. There is pent up frustration in the woman due to the things happening and also many stuff she have heard from Raavi and Prafulla. Raavi returning will not erase it just like that. Deeds n words leave a mark.

Raavi is very sweet because she returned. But from Sumans POV raavi have done a lot these past days. Her words her maamis words and that slap is not easily forgotten. Suman would be out of character if she didn’t do what she did.

Only Raavi n shiva are not prone to frustrated mistakes Suman is too.

We need to give leeway to each one at their time

This is it... Suman the mother is different from suman the person... And undeniably its difficult to see that, but a mother will always pick her children first, even if she knows they are wrong, she will chastise them, but will always be on their side.

She loves Raavi, but Shiva is her whole heart so she is more emotional when it comes to him.

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

This!!!

Can I tell u how much I loved to read this??

I read an article on insecurity and I think everyone should do it before commenting on Shiva.

I agree! A lot of people just judge him based on his anger and fail to understand his thought process, and why he does what he does.

It is not easy for a person who has constantly been put down by society and his own family for his education, dressing, looks and behavior to come out in the open and express his true feelings for someone. Especially when he has already been taunted, mocked and considered inferior multiple times by said person.