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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: inlieu

I've been feeling this for the past few episodes but it was confirmed in today's one that Pallavi probably hasn't connected the deep-rooted emotions troubling Raghav with his current behavior. While it's not a nice feeling to be blamed or misunderstood for something you haven't done, her focus is still far too much on proving she was right/innocent vs. trying to help Raghav handle his pain. Reminded me of the awards function.

His disappointment in Pallavi is less about him believing she had the wrong intent and more about her scoring an own goal. He made that pretty obvious today. He didn't argue with her about removing the alcohol once she explained the reason but the way she tried to tell him to put an end to this 'fight' and then later told him he was stretching this too far made me realize that she doesn't quite get it. All her efforts to dress up, etc. seemed off track to me because they are superficial and do not address the actual issue. She needs to learn to tackle the problem, not the symptoms. It reminded me of the time he brought her traditional dishes to appease her instead of addressing the actual issue in the Hyderabad schedule. Just like Raghav had to learn what clicked with Pallavi and what didn't, I suppose she will learn that in this track. She has some way to go to understand him. Couples need time to understand each other and learn how to react when the other person is upset or angry. If this is the case then I'll applaud the writers for taking this route to correct the imbalance in the way the characters are written.

I don't think he still blames her for what Keerti did or that he'd ever truly believed she was at fault - he saw her as going on her own path without consulting the others or understanding the back story, and then not treating Keerti's rebellion as critically as Amma and he did. It's not a question of whether his thinking is right or not. Rather, I'm looking at this from his perspective. Right or wrong, this is how he feels about what happened.

Raghav's words also showed that he knew Keerti was blind and that it was presently impossible to get through to her to make her see sense.


Very well said Jean. This is what any relation is all about. Love is just the start, The real journey is in understanding, compromising when needed, giving space, taking space, and finalizing trusting. Both have to understand each other better. They do love each other, but they still have to KNOW each other in a proper manner. So i guess as you mentioned if this track will show that then i will gladly catch up on all episodes :) I am a great fan of character growth, in the sense, knowing when to let go and when not to, knowing when to stand firm and when not to, showing that faith and working on the differences. Being in love does not mean u looose your individuality - both have their uniqueness and they should have it. However, to the outside world show that strength in togetherness!! That is like a win win anyways.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: inlieu

I've been feeling this for the past few episodes but it was confirmed in today's one that Pallavi probably hasn't connected the deep-rooted emotions troubling Raghav with his current behavior. While it's not a nice feeling to be blamed or misunderstood for something you haven't done, her focus is still far too much on proving she was right/innocent vs. trying to help Raghav handle his pain. Reminded me of the awards function.

His disappointment in Pallavi is less about him believing she had the wrong intent and more about her scoring an own goal. He made that pretty obvious today. He didn't argue with her about removing the alcohol once she explained the reason but the way she tried to tell him to put an end to this 'fight' and then later told him he was stretching this too far made me realize that she doesn't quite get it. All her efforts to dress up, etc. seemed off track to me because they are superficial and do not address the actual issue. She needs to learn to tackle the problem, not the symptoms. It reminded me of the time he brought her traditional dishes to appease her instead of addressing the actual issue in the Hyderabad schedule. Just like Raghav had to learn what clicked with Pallavi and what didn't, I suppose she will learn that in this track. She has some way to go to understand him. Couples need time to understand each other and learn how to react when the other person is upset or angry. If this is the case then I'll applaud the writers for taking this route to correct the imbalance in the way the characters are written.

I don't think he still blames her for what Keerti did or that he'd ever truly believed she was at fault - he saw her as going on her own path without consulting the others or understanding the back story, and then not treating Keerti's rebellion as critically as Amma and he did. It's not a question of whether his thinking is right or not. Rather, I'm looking at this from his perspective. Right or wrong, this is how he feels about what happened.

Raghav's words also showed that he knew Keerti was blind and that it was presently impossible to get through to her to make her see sense.

Jean , how did I miss this gem!!🤗even i was thinking he’s taking this too far and I can also understand why he’s doing it but it does annoy me maybe because the Raghav i know is too far ahead in this relationship and he understands Pallavi very well and her shortcomings too. This post of your made me think and I do agree with all the points you’ve made. Treating symptoms and not the cause is so spot on. Hopefully both of them get on the same page or at least a little bit closer on this relationship after this. Loved this perspective and while I still will say he’s being pig headed in ignoring her I understand him too.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Looneygirl

Jean , how did I miss this gem!!🤗even i was thinking he’s taking this too far and I can also understand why he’s doing it but it does annoy me maybe because the Raghav i know is too far ahead in this relationship and he understands Pallavi very well and her shortcomings too. This post of your made me think and I do agree with all the points you’ve made. Treating symptoms and not the cause is so spot on. Hopefully both of them get on the same page or at least a little bit closer on this relationship after this. Loved this perspective and while I still will say he’s being pig headed in ignoring her I understand him too.


hahahah, men are generally that!!! no chappals pls, just kidding :) :)

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Posted: 4 years ago
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It looks like sickand is taking revenge for rejecting his dream tadka track

He is giving scene to sunkee which are demanded for Raghvi 😆


Suhag raat

Cuddling scene

Next what rain sequence? 😆

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