Members topic: Emotional help - Page 3

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Maybe a convent is the place you need 😆

No it's just that either its love or nothing.🤣

Originally posted by: MooPoint

Call all of them on Raksha Bandhan and say you always remember them on Rakhi.

I'll really do this on bhai dooj now😆

Originally posted by: Ajeeb-ladki

Sometimes whatever we do won't change their mind...If you are not friends with them, and have made it clear that you have no feelings towards them, then just ignore, you know in your heart, you are not guilty right, that's what matters..

Actually makes me feel better 😄

Originally posted by: Terenaina

great advice. It's not just desi guys, it's guys in general I think. Never be friends with guys because they think you like them or they like you so they will express their feelings and you don't have feelings for them so you feel guilty hurting people's feelings. Just don't talk to them and don't be friends with guys is the simple answer. Don't even smile. I don't smile anymore

@Bold: I'll try this.

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But I've only guy friends😭. I mean I know only 4 girls across the world barring my fam. My friends aren't these people. They're from the work area and social circle

Originally posted by: bollyqueen0

Girl do not feel guilty. Some men think you're ready to settle down with them because you said thank you after they held the door open for you. You have made your intentions clear from the start and if they think you're playing hard to get or will magically fall in love with them one day, that's their problem.

Yes I mean even last night I bro zoned 2 people. Makes my heart quite happy 😁

Originally posted by: Chameli_billi

Do you suffer from nervous laughter around people like our cackling Kamala? If so, they may be taking it the wrong way. Men are dense for the most part when it comes to things like this

No.... On the contrary I'm quite comfortable around everyone irrespective of gender.

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

If some guys are really waiting 4 years atleast set them straight that nothings gonna change.

I friendzoned them all.

I have proclaimed I'm a dheet and nothing's gonna happen😆

Originally posted by: Jaitreya23

It might a case of trying to lure the forbidden fruit.

There is no need to over think and don't blame yourself. You are not trying to build relationship and nor are you sending any signals to them. Avoid commenting on emotional and personal matters of such guys. Don't share your personal matter too. Meet them in groups and clearly state that your aren't looking for a relationship.

All the best.

I'll keep this in mind... I feel my agony aunt vibes gives them signals👎🏼

Just follow my example in life. Then you get to wake up to these kind of sweet messages 😍

You make me realise.. I'm so ruthless.

Sometimes I end up meeting guys through common friends. like once or so.. I get messages and requests I pretend I don't know them at all.

If some random dude (even if I do recognise him IRL - from college, school etc) flirts with me, seedha block 😆