Originally posted by: unicornwriter
@bold : this is why i don't want an apology because he's done it enough already through actions and a verbal one too.
But all i ask for is a good conversation where they understand how bad they did to her and how it affected her internally to a deep length. Even though it was the best decision for her but the actions included were painful and harsh in her self respect.
Because i just cannot stop thinking about how hard it was for her in those 3 years to gather some respect among the people after being a young widow that too on the wedding night itself. A heart breaking scenario after which people must have taunted her for even smiling, wearing colors, being around happy occasions. It would have taken soo much of courage to stand up and create that respect among the society but he ruined it in seconds. Crumbling her hard work down the drain.
Sama, I totally get you and I honestly want this conversation as well but I'm not keeping any hopes. Also, I think VD did her very dirty because he was her family who threw her out. Bahar wale aake kuch bhi bole, the family needs to take responsibility first. She didn't take this up once with the D family and now doing baba baba doesn't sit well with me. I know she always refused to go back to them by remembering that night but this was also brushed under the carpet. Raghav has repented a lot so I can let him slide by.
I can fill 2 full pages on how many such things remain to be addressed haha.