Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi
Here is my two cents on why the family dreams about such things.
Dhara's dream of leaving the house roots back to her childhood.she has a fear of abandonment as her mother had left her.pandya parivaar is the only family she has got from childhood as gombis father took care of them.she had hardik, but he too was a kid.that also explains why she is so obsessed with keeping the family together, whatsoever happens.a small tiff between the brothers scare her.maybe somewhere she feels people who go never return, which explains why she is hell bent on bringing raavi home.its like whatever you do, stay together.i am not justifying her beating shiva and Krish, but maybe her reaction was a result of overthinking that the family will break. The writers have time and again highlighted this as dhara's biggest fear.this also explains the fact that why she has band aid soulutions rather than dwelling deep into emotions.many a times we avoid confrontation and conflict, because they pave a way for leaving.when you confront, it's make or break.there is no middle ground.she is happy in the yaadon ki baraat bubble as she is assured that they are all together atleast.
As for rishita, she has always been an outsider. her thinking, upbringing, opinions are very different from Pandya family.so she craves acceptance.in her dream raavi mocks her that people were right, pati ka ghar nahi sambhal paayi.somewhere that hits her.she wants the family to see her worth, to respect and value her and she knows she can't earn that by the conventional ways of cooking, doing household work and being motherly like dhara beacuse that's not who she is.so she wants to earn that respect through other ways.
Shiva's dream about raavi is a reflection of his own insecurities.she mocks him for liking her.thats exactly how he feels.he is seeing aukaat ke bahar ke sapne by liking raavi as he believes himself to be unworthy of her.
Ooh😍probably i will see them differently for sometime ..this is so wonderful and it makes perfect sense.
I am sure writer is not giving half a thought to these characters but somehow if they fall in place , well, good for them nd good for us 😁